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ORIGINAL: LadyEllen

Popeye - I dont believe they have banned any of the above people, no. But you seem to want to ban crossdressers, so that is the reason for my post.

However, this wasnt the purpose of this thread as I understand it, anyway?

E

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ORIGINAL: Lashra

Yes this is Collarme.com and some cross dressers come here seeking a collar. The bottom line is this, if you don't want to deal with the crossdressers you don't have too. But I feel they have as much place here as anyone else does. I don't happen to like the gorean philosophy, I try to steer clear of their forums and if I see a profile with the word gor in it, I keep on trucking. Sometimes you just have to rise above something and say to yourself I don't have to deal with this, this isn't my lifestyle so I'll just ignore it and go on.

~Lashra

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ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

Everyone has a right to be here and post. If we dont like their opinions, then we should be given the choice not to read them. The problem becomes when someone takes up teh cause of the unjustly downtrodden and turns it into a personal fight with anyone and everyone that doesnt blindly agree with what they say.  If you wish to attack my OPINIONS and my IDEAS then have at it.  However, if you chose to go beyind the boudaries of the topic and fel it necessary to attack ME, thats where I draw the line.  Opinions are like assholes, as my grandfather says. Everyone has one.  If everyone agreed, itd be damn boring.  However, in order to argue opinions and points constructively, you have t present yourself as a respectable enough person to be taken seriously.  I dont know about anyone else on here, but I have a lot of trouble taking someone seriously when they cant argue a point ina forum without making it into either a perosnal attack on the posters involved, or somehow making it look likea peronsla attack on themselves.  Opinions are just that, thoughts on a subject. So argue them in that venue, and we can actually start enjoying these thigns again.

DV
frusteration is a pain in the arse

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ORIGINAL: tasha_tart

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ORIGINAL: MizSuz

But, this is not my primary relationship and I'm not doing without anything to remain in a friendship with them (unless you count mirror time - they are mirror hogs).

Of course we are...but I bring my own. 

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ORIGINAL: popeye1250

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ORIGINAL: LadyEllen

Popeye - I dont believe they have banned any of the above people, no. But you seem to want to ban crossdressers, so that is the reason for my post.

However, this wasnt the purpose of this thread as I understand it, anyway?

E

Lady Ellen, go back and read my posts, I didn't say I want to ban them I said I have *no interest* in that activity.
If I was interested in it I'd be in a cross dressing site.
Ah,....Lady Ellen, and how could *I* possibly "ban" anyone from this site?
You're either making assumptions or trying to put words into my mouth.

• if the title of the thread has "crossdressing" or perhaps "trans..." in it...don't read it
  
• if any other activity you don't like is in the title of the thread...move on
  
• stop looking up "Trans" profiles just so you can gag upon seeing their pictures
  
• stop worrying about why someone else's "thing" does not belong on Collarme, and taking it upon yourself to tell everyone it doesn't belong

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ORIGINAL: MizSuz

Well, most ladies of distinction would!  You know, when I saw your post I thought "Tasha???" because one of my dear friends previously mentioned is Tasha.  I see she's not the only one, and in looking at your website I'd say you have similar proclivities.

Nice tats, btw.  And that ladder - it would seem you guys laid convention aside a bit and did a lot of them at once.  I'm impressed.  How was the healing time and are you having a bit of trouble with that top one migrating?  I hope not.

Thank you.  I'm so pleased with the way the tattoos turned out...and getting them done was, in varying degrees, painful, so it was kind of a two-for-one special. 

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ORIGINAL: tasha_tart

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ORIGINAL: popeye1250

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ORIGINAL: LadyEllen

Popeye - I dont believe they have banned any of the above people, no. But you seem to want to ban crossdressers, so that is the reason for my post.

However, this wasnt the purpose of this thread as I understand it, anyway?

E

Lady Ellen, go back and read my posts, I didn't say I want to ban them I said I have *no interest* in that activity.
If I was interested in it I'd be in a cross dressing site.
Ah,....Lady Ellen, and how could *I* possibly "ban" anyone from this site?
You're either making assumptions or trying to put words into my mouth.

Maybe I'm misreading things, and if I am, I apologize.
 
However, it seems to me that for someone who is merely "not interested" in crossdressing, you spend a lot of time following CD-related threads.  You also spend a lot of time telling everyone how CDs don't belong on this site.
 
To protect your sensibilities from offensive stuff like - gasp - crossdressers I'd suggest the following:

• if the title of the thread has "crossdressing" or perhaps "trans..." in it...don't read it
  
• if any other activity you don't like is in the title of the thread...move on
  
• stop looking up "Trans" profiles just so you can gag upon seeing their pictures
  
• stop worrying about why someone else's "thing" does not belong on Collarme, and taking it upon yourself to tell everyone it doesn't belong

Just my opinion, of course.
 
BTW, I have also suggested a "trans" forum on this site, so that we could all go hide in our own little corner and not trouble your world any further.  Of course that would also make it easier for you to single out the miscreants who are trying to drag Collarme off its B/D, and nothing but B/D path. ("C.M. is a B&D oriented site after all.")
 
Once you've dealt with all the trans folk, you can start on the S/M crowd, the Gor people, the poly types, and anyone else who does not believe in whips and chains forever.
 
Tasha

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ORIGINAL: popeye1250

Tasha_tart, please, spare me the melodrama.