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when is Spanking not - 11/3/2006 10:48:16 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		As usual this is from another post. My question is When is spanking actualy a spanking? Useing a hand or a paddle is my ideal of a Spanking. Useing anything else is a beating.
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RE: when is Spanking not - 11/3/2006 10:49:47 AM   
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Status: offline 		Seems like a clear cut case of semantics- whatever word suits your preference.  I could call a few swats down the hall a spanking. 

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RE: when is Spanking not - 11/3/2006 10:52:05 AM   
purelea2003


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Status: offline 		I think anything that involves strictly striking the buttocks is a spanking - regardless of whether barehanded or with an implement.

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RE: when is Spanking not - 11/3/2006 10:52:54 AM   
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Status: offline 		The dictionary definition is "to strike especially on the buttocks with the open hand".  That is how I use it.  Anything else is a paddling, caning, flogging, etc.  But if someone else uses the term for other types of play I can usually figure out what they are talking about.

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RE: when is Spanking not - 11/3/2006 10:57:59 AM   
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Status: offline 		And the quest for perfect terminology goes on.......

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RE: when is Spanking not - 11/3/2006 11:05:35 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		How can you consider caning a spanking?

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RE: when is Spanking not - 11/3/2006 11:12:36 AM   
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Status: offline 		So, we have a question, followed by an opinion, followed by questioning another's opinion.  That about cover it?

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RE: when is Spanking not - 11/3/2006 11:17:48 AM   
purelea2003


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Status: offline 		Maybe we should all just agree to disagree and leave it there Jeff?? lol

The online dicitionary I look at gives the first definition of spanking as: 1. moving rapidly and smartly.

A cane certainly does that

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RE: when is Spanking not - 11/3/2006 11:22:21 AM   
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Status: offline 		Depending on what dictionary one uses (yes I'm bored today) there are several different definitions.  Some of them could very easily encompass caning as a form of spanking. 

So, whatever anyone wants to use the term spanking for, is fine by me.  Does it really matter as long as everyone knows what the other is talking about?

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RE: when is Spanking not - 11/3/2006 11:42:35 AM   
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Status: offline 		Hey, so long as I get to turn her ass red, I don't care what you call it!

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RE: when is Spanking not - 11/3/2006 11:45:36 AM   
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RE: when is Spanking not - 11/3/2006 12:11:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		Yeah, I like that one, too. I want her ass to turn red; she wants her ass to turn red. What is there to debate?

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RE: when is Spanking not - 11/3/2006 12:33:27 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

As usual this is from another post. My question is When is spanking actualy a spanking? Useing a hand or a paddle is my ideal of a Spanking. Useing anything else is a beating.


'tis all *beating*, to me. Beaten with a hand; spanking, beaten with a cane: caning...... etc............ all I need to bear in mind is that they all hurt.

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RE: when is Spanking not - 11/3/2006 12:45:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		There is a point to made though that if One is planning to "spank" with a cane it should be clarified before the "spanking" begins? Sometimes the element of surprise isn't appreciated - lol.

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RE: when is Spanking not - 11/3/2006 2:10:02 PM   
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RE: when is Spanking not - 11/3/2006 2:21:46 PM   
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RE: when is Spanking not - 11/3/2006 2:25:02 PM   
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RE: when is Spanking not - 11/3/2006 2:50:53 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

How can you consider caning a spanking?

How can you consider a paddling a spanking?

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RE: when is Spanking not - 11/3/2006 3:43:36 PM   
charismagirrl


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Status: offline 		i know tht when i was in school they used to say "Going to the dean's office to get paddled" they didn't say spanked. my Mom used to spank on rare occasions and when she'd use a "switch" (cane like implement) on even rarer occasions she'd call it getting "switched" soooo

Maybe spanking is the whole open hand on a butt thing...or maybe just like everything else it will have to come down to communication and the definition on a "relationship" by "relationship" basis.


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RE: when is Spanking not - 11/3/2006 4:38:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		Smiles...I really don't care what you call it as long as it turns my back side red, then blacl blue and purple...*weg*...sp where are all the spankers tonight...lol.

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