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DavanKael -> RE: Anal Play and Masculinity (A Question to Women) (10/27/2008 12:42:41 PM)
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Fabulous question, Tre Swank. I posted a thread called "Compromising" Positions awhile back on a very similar matter as I'd had a discussion with somone who was insisting that a male could not be Dominant and be f*cked by a woman. I disagree, my life experience proves out my disagreement. The person challenged me to post the thread. I did. That person never posted and pretty much everyone agreed with the assertion I made.
I think men enjoying anal play is hot! I love f*cking men (If they're men I'm in relationships with; I don't just run around randomly pegging dudes, though if I had a biological penis, I am not sure I could resist smacking people with it but that's another thread entirely, lol!). I think it's an acceptance of another way to gain pleasure, an acceptance of self; actually, I view it as more masculine in some ways. It can be a way of being served or of serving, depending on the person/dynamic, or it can just be dandy fun (Again, for me, within the context of a relationship). There's so much pain in life, I see beauty in optimizing one's pleasure. Also, from my limited experience, men who are open to a woman f*cking them with a strap-on have been more cognizant of being careful/adept/etc. when the tables are turned; it's nice when someone understands that such a thing, even for those experienced and adept at being receptive, ought be finessed rather than treated with a battering ram mentality.
So, my Monday assertion is: yaaaay for anal pleasure all around!
Davan
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