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WannaSPOON -> RE: Anal Play and Masculinity (A Question to Women) (10/28/2008 3:30:02 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Morrigel

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ORIGINAL: TreSwank

     If a man requests to be on the receiving end of anal play (fingers and/or objects up the ass), do you view him as being less masculine, or perhaps suspect that he's been lying to you about his sexual orientation? 


No, I assume that he has two brain cells to rub together and knows that there's a nerve bundle up there that'll make him come like Vesuvius.

--M

This is all that really need be said.



Twicehappy2x -> RE: Anal Play and Masculinity (A Question to Women) (10/28/2008 3:54:49 AM)

 
Grins...no, i think liking anal play means the guy has a sensitive butt, nothing more, nothing less.



Aileen1968 -> RE: Anal Play and Masculinity (A Question to Women) (10/28/2008 4:00:08 AM)

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ORIGINAL: DickStrong

So is there a forum devoted to this subject?


Why do you keep bumping this two year old thread? 



SimplyMichael -> RE: Anal Play and Masculinity (A Question to Women) (10/28/2008 5:31:39 AM)

Because he is anal?



OttersSwim -> RE: Anal Play and Masculinity (A Question to Women) (10/28/2008 6:48:06 AM)

If you "Covet your neighbor's ass..."  Does that make you anal-retentive? 



DickStrong -> RE: Anal Play and Masculinity (A Question to Women) (10/28/2008 7:50:29 AM)

I wasn't here for that thread. And 2 years ago I was too uptight to even consider bending over.
You folks seem like a knowledgable bunch; we should have that forum here rather than Yahoo.



AssPlayer -> RE: Anal Play and Masculinity (A Question to Women) (12/2/2008 2:23:12 PM)

Dick
Get over yourself and bend for the women. Most of the them will love doing it to you.



CalifChick -> RE: Anal Play and Masculinity (A Question to Women) (12/2/2008 2:31:44 PM)

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ORIGINAL: cjan

As far as I know, there is no button up a man's ass that makes him gay when pushed.



No, but I found one that flips a man from one side of the slash to the other.  [8|]

Cali



sexisubi -> RE: Anal Play and Masculinity (A Question to Women) (12/2/2008 2:36:25 PM)

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ORIGINAL: TreSwank

      If a man requests to be on the receiving end of anal play (fingers and/or objects up the ass), do you view him as being less masculine, or perhaps suspect that he's been lying to you about his sexual orientation?  

    Actual quote from ex-  "I thought only gay guys liked that."


i dated a guy for a little while, however after me he met a girl that did it to him without asking... and last i heard they are getting married?

looks like some things just work out or work there way in....  



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Anal Play and Masculinity (A Question to Women) (12/2/2008 3:17:36 PM)

~FR~

If a man likes anal amusements, it means that he will be a damn amusing date.



DavanKael -> RE: Anal Play and Masculinity (A Question to Women) (12/2/2008 4:22:29 PM)

I think I've already answered this but it bears repetition:
I view him as more masculine because he is willing to gain pleasure from his body in ways more thoroughly and in ways that are sensible based on his physiology and is self-accepting enough not to find it a threat to his orientation.  Confidence is hot; open-mindedness is hot. 
  Davan



XstilettosX -> RE: Anal Play and Masculinity (A Question to Women) (12/2/2008 4:25:25 PM)

I think that attitude is rather close minded and gender bias(the one your ex expressed).It seems uneducated people have that idea in there head.I think most people think girls should have things in there asses,but men have a prostate to stimulate.So it makes more sense to put things in guys asses.



NihilusZero -> RE: Anal Play and Masculinity (A Question to Women) (12/2/2008 4:30:14 PM)

This got bumped again?





CalifChick -> RE: Anal Play and Masculinity (A Question to Women) (12/2/2008 4:34:19 PM)

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ORIGINAL: NihilusZero

This got bumped again?


Ssshhhhhh.  Some of us like to read it again and again.  Hey Zero?  Did you drop something?

Cali



NihilusZero -> RE: Anal Play and Masculinity (A Question to Women) (12/2/2008 4:39:14 PM)

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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

Ssshhhhhh.  Some of us like to read it again and again.  Hey Zero?  Did you drop something?

I'm surprised there wasn't a cleverly highlighted: "This thread was bumped again?" quote. [8D]

The soap, you mean?





yourMissTress -> RE: Anal Play and Masculinity (A Question to Women) (12/2/2008 8:05:00 PM)

So, I'm checking out the General BDSM section and I see the name Treswank, and I think "is he baaaaaaaack?"
 
Nope, just one of his many threads, bumped.  [:D]



Aszhrae -> RE: Anal Play and Masculinity (A Question to Women) (12/2/2008 8:10:10 PM)

Girl is unsure if it is true or not but unless you have access to every single site on every 'kink' mentionable and even the ones that are considered unmentionable, it is the opinion of this girl, that might also be misinterpreted, that western culture seems to have a stick up their a$$ when it comes to such things as the subject of sensuality. Now its true that you might look at my first sentence as rather long, but there are half-breaths in there and its only an observation.
If you look to the asian and oriental cultures and even towards the european cultures they are more relaxed and even expressive when it comes to sensual exploration.
Exploring the body for pleasures sake should never make you feel ashamed of being who you are. If you enjoy it go for it.



Lockit -> RE: Anal Play and Masculinity (A Question to Women) (12/2/2008 8:17:52 PM)

ROFL.. Are you saying that American's/Western Culture are not as sensual as other cultures and that we have stuff up our asses because we are anal about sensuality?  Some of the most insensitive lovers I have had were three strokes and you're out kinda guys and they were... ah... not American.  So from my experience... American's/Western culture are just as sensual as other cultures... although some of them do have things up their ass.



Aszhrae -> RE: Anal Play and Masculinity (A Question to Women) (12/2/2008 9:34:07 PM)

Thats you Lockit, not me, there are exceptions to every persons origin. However, its my opinion that western is still young, will forever be young, as long as people believe certain stigma, taboos and attach such words as homo- to words, then western culture will still be considered young and insecure when it comes to carnal endeavors.

If you do that, you're going straight to hell. Yeh, right, as if. Its a state of mind not a place, get out of my head.



Lockit -> RE: Anal Play and Masculinity (A Question to Women) (12/2/2008 9:54:40 PM)

It seems to me that you are combining prejudice with sensuality and social stigma and taboo.  If you are one who wishes to dispel prejudice and the mistreatment of certain people, I would think that you would find it offensive to lable a whole culture and not look at people as individual's.  To lump a whole group of people together and consider them all the same and then compare them to another group you have lumped up and consider the same, you make no room for individuals and sound very prejudice.

And I also think you have never taken the subway in Japan.  Or seen or read about how women are treated in China. Or a whole list of other things I don't care to waste my time on.

Do you wish to be treated as an individual?  Do you wish to be lumped in with a group of people.. any kind of people... anywhere from an old culture or not?




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