RE: Anal Play and Masculinity (A Question to Women)

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sexisubi -> RE: Anal Play and Masculinity (A Question to Women) (12/2/2008 10:02:35 PM)
my clip for this thread! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gAwc1MX3CwQ

AssPlayer -> RE: Anal Play and Masculinity (A Question to Women) (12/9/2008 1:42:08 PM)
My Sunday paper had a coupon in it this week from KY with the line "Surprise someone you love." Yeah!

Madame4a -> RE: Anal Play and Masculinity (A Question to Women) (12/9/2008 1:51:16 PM)
you're kidding right? sex acts don't define orientation... sex feels good, friction is good... assigning something as huge as orientation to specific acts is just silly quote: ORIGINAL: TreSwank If a man requests to be on the receiving end of anal play (fingers and/or objects up the ass), do you view him as being less masculine, or perhaps suspect that he's been lying to you about his sexual orientation? This is actually more of a sensitive, personal issue that I had with an ex..............so I decided to throw it out in front of the general public on a free BDSM forum. Actual quote from ex- "I thought only gay guys liked that."

ShaktiSama -> RE: Anal Play and Masculinity (A Question to Women) (12/9/2008 6:06:58 PM)
This one has been asked many times. Only women who are extremely ignorant believe that anal play is only for gay men. And I really do pity the men who have to live with someone who knows that little about the male body and its pleasure centers...although I suppose it's a little more tolerable if you're pretty easy to please, and all a woman has to do for you is bend over herself.

LadyPact -> RE: Anal Play and Masculinity (A Question to Women) (12/9/2008 6:10:12 PM)
It seems our beloved mal now has competition. This is now one of several dead threads that has been called from the past on anal play. Btw, Dude, you missed a really good one over in the "Ask A Master" section.

Racquelle -> RE: Anal Play and Masculinity (A Question to Women) (12/9/2008 6:35:07 PM)
quote: If a man requests to be on the receiving end of anal play (fingers and/or objects up the ass), do you view him as being less masculine, or perhaps suspect that he's been lying to you about his sexual orientation? This is actually more of a sensitive, personal issue that I had with an ex..............so I decided to throw it out in front of the general public on a free BDSM forum. Actual quote from ex- "I thought only gay guys liked that." < Message edited by TreSwank -- 11/6/2006 1:53:02 PM > The answer for me is "neither". It is a pleasure that all kinds of people have found they enjoy, dom, sub, male, female, gay, straight or what have you.

RPM4700 -> RE: Anal Play and Masculinity (A Question to Women) (2/2/2009 12:05:09 AM)
If a man requests to pick out and hang the curtains in your apartment, do you view him as being less masculine, or perhaps suspect that he's been lying to you about his sexual orientation?

MistressRouge -> RE: Anal Play and Masculinity (A Question to Women) (2/2/2009 12:24:13 AM)
It usually boils down to a male intune with his body. Some males enjoy anal, having their prostrate massaged, and that is where the heavenly G Spot is placed [:D]

CalifChick -> RE: Anal Play and Masculinity (A Question to Women) (2/2/2009 8:23:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RPM4700 If a man requests to pick out and hang the curtains in your apartment, do you view him as being less masculine, or perhaps suspect that he's been lying to you about his sexual orientation? Yep, sure do. But now I know that I can order him to do my laundry! It's a WIN!

malloves69 -> RE: Anal Play and Masculinity (A Question to Women) (2/2/2009 12:39:32 PM)
love prostate massages [:)] and yes that clip is awesome [:)] see ladys what 2 fingers up a guys ass can do to them [:)] have fun mal

LunaVenus -> RE: Anal Play and Masculinity (A Question to Women) (2/2/2009 7:17:09 PM)
Sometimes the thought of it is disgusting to me. Especially if they shit on a dildo and stink up the room or something. Or a wad comes out on the end of the condom.....Just nasty. But I do like taking all my men's masculinity with my dildo at least ONCE....just to make them. Next i will work on having them fuck each other while I sit back and file my nails...Let's hope I don't barf watching it. We already know this is an alternate lifestyle, so I don't bother to label them any further than that. whatever.

Thorns82 -> RE: Anal Play and Masculinity (A Question to Women) (2/2/2009 8:41:36 PM)
I don't consider it gay. He likes it, good for him. I have a hard time doing it myself, though...to me it seems submissive, and that really bothers me.

ladylucky32 -> RE: Anal Play and Masculinity (A Question to Women) (2/3/2009 4:25:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: daddysprop247 i'm one of those women who find it a bit questionable when a supposedly straight man has a liking for fingers or toys up the bum. tho i'm not completely close-minded about it....i mean, i find nothing closet-homosexual about a man liking a woman's tongue up his bum, and that's actually a service that i enjoy giving very much. i suppose i just get uncomfy with the idea of taking it a step further to actual firm penetration...that's homoerotic to me, but if the man were otherwise 100% masculine, strong, dominant and aggressive, and he retained his control and dominance during the act, then i suppose my views on it could change. How do you feel about women who enjoy anal? Does that mean she is secretly a male homo? Does it matter if the person fucking her is male or female? "but if the man were otherwise 100% masculine, strong, dominant and aggressive, and he retained his control and dominance during the act, then i suppose my views on it could change." Not sure what you mean by this. I have seen a lot of guys getting it in the butt, but I can't say I thought any of them were aggressive about it. Their parters were, but them.....not so much. Of course they were bent over at the time so it was hard to say. In the end though, they were just still straight men, just straight men who like anal.

MistressAinCT -> RE: Anal Play and Masculinity (A Question to Women) (2/3/2009 5:34:08 AM)
Chances are someone else pointed this out, but Mother Nature didn't do males a favor by putting their "spot" up their ass. Perhaps it is her way of getting even-I don't know-but since that's where the prostate is, that's where we have to go. So in order to control a male orgasm whether it is to produce one or tease, one has to "probe" the area. Does that make a man gay? Nope. Sometimes its the only way to get to where the partner-Dominant or otherwise-has to go in order to get a rise or to milk. Its a medical explanation for something fun. Oh, and if a man goes for a prostate exam, does THAT make him gay (probably if he really enjoys it!)?

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