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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/8/2006 11:51:41 AM

darchChylde

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ORIGINAL: diz

a pulse helps

but it's not a deal-breaker? LoL

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/8/2006 12:02:26 PM

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LOL... i am good at compromising!!!!

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/8/2006 12:14:20 PM

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Self confidence! i can't say that strong enough. Infact, i can smell lack of confidence a mile away. And yes if they are a little cockey because they know it, then good.

Clean and smells good. i have a really sincitive, so smelling good actually effects me strongly.

And to be honest, in the look department, i like to feel like a ma being cuddles by a teddy bear.

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/8/2006 2:15:18 PM

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I'm with you riotgirl, for me sexual attraction has more to do with who someone is and how they carry themselves and their general personality and attitude. Yes, there needs to be a certain level of physical attraction, but like you I have been with all types, short/tall, blonde/brunette/balding/bald, young/old etc.
I want a man that is a MAN - dont give me a boy, or a man who has no confidence in himself. I like a guy with an ego too, not too much of one, but enough of one to make him want to rule the roost. In short, I guess that means a Dom/Master/Sir.
I want a man who is confident in his own sexual ability and sexuality.

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/8/2006 2:18:37 PM

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A man at least 10 years my senior that knows what he wants and how to go about getting it. A good uniform helps..lol

ROFL! Yeah, a man in uniform. You can put the most unattractive man in uniform and he looks great

And for me a uniform can be anything from some greasy overalls to full formal whites worn by Naval officers!

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/8/2006 2:25:58 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: darchChylde

quote:

ORIGINAL: diz

a pulse helps

but it's not a deal-breaker? LoL

There's no pain and there's no pressure
no humiliation
there's no fear and there's no shame
there's no pulse
now is it so strange?

dead girls like me
can't you see?
only dead girls like me

oh, dead girls like me
can't you see?
only dead girls don't walk away from me

sad as it seems

--- Voltaire "Dead Girls"

Necrophilia = A deep seated urge to crack open a cold one.

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/8/2006 2:32:41 PM

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Necrophilia = A deep seated urge to crack open a cold one.

I've been saying that for years... *grins*

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/8/2006 2:36:00 PM

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Great minds think alike? Or sick minds swim in the same gutter.

Take your pick.

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/8/2006 2:39:34 PM

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What is it about a person that makes them sexually attractive to you?

For me to be simply sexually attracted to a man he needs to be skinny or muscular, geeky and make me laugh. A woman: Average bordering on slight weight, with enough breasts to hold onto and long hair, preferably shorter then me.

Emotionally attracted and willing to enter into a relationship with? That gets a whole lot more complicated.

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/8/2006 2:40:51 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: RazorJAK

Great minds think alike? Or sick minds swim in the same gutter.

Take your pick.

I'd like to say minds but I have a feeling my friends would say gutter *grins*

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/8/2006 3:16:26 PM

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kind eyes even when being stern.
kind eyes.
did i say kind eyes?
i've been with short/tall/heavy/thin/medium/athletic dark/light/medium i really don't care
nice smell
kind eyes that reveal an intelligent sense yet somewhat wicked sense of humor
i have often liked long hair but that is not so important either - whatever looks good on the person

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/8/2006 3:27:12 PM

darchChylde

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quote:

ORIGINAL: RazorJAK

There's no pain and there's no pressure
no humiliation
there's no fear and there's no shame
there's no pulse
now is it so strange?

dead girls like me
can't you see?
only dead girls like me

oh, dead girls like me
can't you see?
only dead girls don't walk away from me

sad as it seems

--- Voltaire "Dead Girls"

Necrophilia = A deep seated urge to crack open a cold one.

so, dead chicks don't say "no", eh?
*edited because i said "deaf above, completely changing the tone of the observation, though it's humorous in itself

quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

Emotionally attracted and willing to enter into a relationship with? That gets a whole lot more complicated.

while i can't say that i don't have casual relations, anyone that i am with (be it sexually, for play, or just someone to hold through the night) is someone that has all those qualities that i look for in s serious romantic relationship

for me, any sort of physical intimacy requires an emotional attachment, for the simple reason that i have trouble seperating my emotions and any act of physical intimacy... if i know i will feel close to someone afterward, i make certain that they are worthy of that closeness beforehand

< Message edited by darchChylde -- 11/8/2006 3:28:40 PM >

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/8/2006 5:06:08 PM

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What makes a man sexually attractive to me...

- a nice nose
- nice ass, not too small but not huge either
- intelligence
- emotional connection
- short (between 5 foot and 5 foot 9)
- thin, average or overweight by a little bit (not above 30 BMI); not muscular
- right now between the age of 20 - 30, not many exceptions
- neat facial hair or none at all
- smells clean
- humble and quiet but has decent self-esteem and is able to follow along in a conversation and be responsive
- his eyes are present, he seems attuned to his surroundings
- not at all an alpha-male personality or energy, nor does he want to be the alpha-male (I have a good sense of this and react accordingly)
- hand gestures when he communicates

Cock size doesn't matter, though I do like a nice pair of balls to torture.

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/8/2006 5:55:24 PM

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I really cannot define it by appearance. I like men that are older than me and that are articulate and confident. Making me laugh is a way into my pants. I find funny people to be sexy and intelligent. I should further say a witty type humor. I am a very gregarious person, and I am somewhat exuberant in my approach to life.

Physicality is not that important, although I like men taller than me.

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/8/2006 6:04:09 PM

darchChylde

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time for some tongue-in-cheek (or tongue-in-whatever), self-deprecating humour

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

Making me laugh is a way into my pants.

i always make a woman laugh when She looks into my pants, does that count?

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/8/2006 6:10:41 PM

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I am sexually attracted to intelligent men with humor and self-confidence. My eyes are drawn to great smiles, broad shoulders, and strong hands, but the urge to just have at him occurs during interesting, funny conversations.

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/8/2006 6:15:40 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: darchChylde

quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

Emotionally attracted and willing to enter into a relationship with? That gets a whole lot more complicated.

for me, any sort of physical intimacy requires an emotional attachment, for the simple reason that i have trouble seperating my emotions and any act of physical intimacy... if i know i will feel close to someone afterward, i make certain that they are worthy of that closeness beforehand

This is one of those things where I would love to agree with you but my track record indicates otherwise. I have discovered that I commonly get too attached to people who are just supposed to be close "buddies". However, I've since been in two very committed relationships (the second is going strong) and I don't know if I would resort to such behavior in the future. I'm kinda hoping I don't have to find out though. :-)

Aqua

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/8/2006 6:30:02 PM

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Intelligence....Goals....Polite....Caring....Caressing hands....A clean smell that makes me want to smell more....A good slow kisser that make me want to kiss more....Eyes that reach into mine....A kink that keys me into a wonderful, hot power exchange....

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/8/2006 6:34:02 PM

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Physical looks are not the first thing I look for...confidence,intelligience,romantic,funny,and sometimes beastly..lol...those attributes are what catches my fancy..Then we would go to apppearance..but usually by then appearance is not important..usually men with such attributes carry themselves well, so hence stating the obvious such as good hygiene is a moot point...

......Tempting

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/8/2006 6:40:08 PM

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Sexual attraction has a lotto do with personality for me. Phsyical attraction is all well and good, my type is young looking, tall, thin and prefereably effeminate for males. Its about the same for females. However, to find someone sexually attractive, they have to get my interest past being pretty to look at. I have to find something about them that turns me on, and that is usually a personality thing. A good sense of humor and the ability to get my jokes. A good conversationalist. And it never hurts when they flirt.

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