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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/9/2006 9:37:15 AM   
stockingluvr54


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Status: offline 		For me it would be many things but first and foremost would be a fit and fairly attractive lady in a dress/skirt once in awhile. Prefferably wearing stockings...not too much leg but enough. Top that off with her hair done up with some sexy tendrils and showing some neck...some earings that dangle a little bit...a hint of perfume...maybe a choker and some heels with a strap around the ankle? Combine that with a heart and something between the ears and you've got a killer combination.......jmo

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/9/2006 10:17:35 AM   
meatcleaver


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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

What is it about a person that makes them sexually attractive to you?


People with passion, I don't mean sexual passion but that too but people who are passionate about what they do. If they like art, they need to be passionate about it, even if they like sewing, they need to be passionate about it. If someone has passion I can for go physical perfection and who's physically perfect anyway?

Most women I've had a relationship with have been small and slight so I guess that must be the build that floats my boat. Thick hair, I love a good head of hair. It doesn't matter to me if they dress casual or chic and if they have a relationship with me they are going to be naked in my studio most of the time anyway.

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/9/2006 11:42:36 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SamKeithsslave

I'm with you riotgirl, for me sexual attraction has more to do with who someone is and how they carry themselves and their general personality and attitude. Yes, there needs to be a certain level of physical attraction, but like you I have been with all types, short/tall, blonde/brunette/balding/bald, young/old etc.
I want a man that is a MAN - dont give me a boy, or a man who has no confidence in himself. I like a guy with an ego too, not too much of one, but enough of one to make him want to rule the roost. In short, I guess that means a Dom/Master/Sir.
I want a man who is confident in his own sexual ability and sexuality.


Yeah... i've got alot of personality traits i look for.  I do alot of introspection and i noticed recently that  i am very attracted to guys who have a bit of a predatory trait in them.  King of the jungle effect too.  Generally it comes down to - if i think i can kick their ass - then i'm not really interested.  Though i will say i've tried dating guys like that.  I ended up kicking their ass on multi levels.  I like confidence, abit of an ego, some one who knows who they are.  Non judgemental, open minded.  I like a guy who can match me, atleast.  In pretty much all things i do and i can go abit extreme or wild or crazy.  I'm not talking skills here either.  I look for guys who have "been there done that" in many of the walks of life i have visited.  I want men with the experience i have had.  Match wit, intelligence, ect ect.  I really do look for guys who are atleast at a similiar level in life if not further along.

Imagine me dating a straight edge, clean cut boy whose never been out of his home town and afraid to do anything termed "crazy".  They have no clue where i am coming from and it gets rather boring explaining something, some one will never understand. 

Granted there are other personality traits i look for.  Give me a guy who matches my perfect, physical appearence, that matches me and if he sticks a firecracker up a cats bum and thinks its funny.  I would despise him.  There are ALOT of little "personality" traits i look for.  Too many too number.  Alot of things that also cross you off any potential list.  Had a friend last night who matches me, can get crazy and what not, is older and smarter (smarter a PLUS) and he made some stupid sexual comment about my little sister.  I offered to cut his nut sac off and shove it down his throat for him.  Little things like that can turn a great guy into somebody i absolutely despise

so yeah... i'm really damn picky

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/9/2006 4:39:07 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MistressTruth

What makes a man sexually attractive to me...

- a nice nose
- nice ass, not too small but not huge either
- intelligence
- emotional connection
- short (between 5 foot and 5 foot 9)
- thin, average or overweight by a little bit (not above 30 BMI); not muscular
- right now between the age of 20 - 30, not many exceptions
- neat facial hair or none at all
- smells clean
- humble and quiet but has decent self-esteem and is able to follow along in a conversation and be responsive
- his eyes are present, he seems attuned to his surroundings
- not at all an alpha-male personality or energy, nor does he want to be the alpha-male (I have a good sense of this and react accordingly)
- hand gestures when he communicates

Cock size doesn't matter, though I do like a nice pair of balls to torture.



Good to hear someone actually likes a short guy.

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/9/2006 4:48:03 PM   
LTRsubNW


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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/9/2006 5:54:17 PM   
Sissypinky


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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/9/2006 6:29:32 PM   
marieToo


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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

What is it about a person that makes them sexually attractive to you?


The way I feel when I'm around them. 

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/9/2006 6:57:29 PM   
ownedgirlie


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Attitude
Sense of power (I can feel it from so very few)
Intelligence
Confidence
Voice
Scent
What one is able to touch inside me and bring to the surface

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/9/2006 6:58:24 PM   
Lordandmaster


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quote:

ORIGINAL: marieToo

quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

What is it about a person that makes them sexually attractive to you?


The way I feel when I'm around them. 

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/9/2006 7:01:15 PM   
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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/9/2006 7:23:46 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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ORIGINAL: Celeste43

About six feet tall, dark hair, dark eyes. Heavily muscled arms and shoulders. Some hair on his chest, I don't like men without any. Heavier than average weight, I just like big guys. Deep voice.

Educated, competent with his hands,  pays attention to me instead of checking out every other woman in the place. That last is a total turn off and won't get a second chance. Kind, caring, good with kids and animals. Very protective of those he loves.
Oh YES!..I have to agree with Celeste on the portion where if a man is checking out all the other women in the place, then it is not a go!...this is simply telling me as someone stated, that I am then simply a option as opposed to a priority.....Tempting

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/10/2006 7:56:20 AM   
LaTigresse


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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

So am I to understand that a handsome penis and an ugly face are without currency in this political environs?





First of all Ron, I actually quite like your face. And second of all, I guarantee even if I didn't I would prefer looking at the face far more than the other.......not that I am biased on the subject or anything.......


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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/10/2006 8:05:33 AM   
MasterC46910


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Humor and intelligent are the two biggest turn ons to me.

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/10/2006 10:01:38 AM   
Mikal


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ORIGINAL: Sissypinky
Im every womans ideal mate, charming, fun, poilte and smart to boot.


Nice... but what about your *ahem* equipment? Not every woman is looking for a rod, if you catch my drift..

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail
So am I to understand that a handsome penis and an ugly face are without currency in this political environs?


See above answer... and just as beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so too is ugliness.

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/10/2006 1:18:14 PM   
marieToo


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

You must fall in love a lot.

quote:

ORIGINAL: marieToo

quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

What is it about a person that makes them sexually attractive to you?


The way I feel when I'm around them. 



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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/12/2006 8:06:57 AM   
LTRsubNW


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Status: offline 		I've always found, the more cash a woman has, the sexier she is.

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