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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/8/2006 7:01:02 PM   
MistressDolly


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Status: offline 		Traits I find sexually attractive are: IntelligenceConfidenceSense of humorCarefreeAltruistic conversely, the traits I find least appealing are the above's opposites:know-it-allsarrogancesarcasmuptightnessself-centeredness But regardless, I suppose it all boils down to chemistry.

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/8/2006 7:04:13 PM   
sublizzie


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Status: offline 		Intelligent, first and foremost. Able to play word games for fun, but not to hurt. Very kind and caring. Definitely Dominant but not domineering or rude.

Physically, I tend to like all people, but a man who is taller than me and has some weight to him tends to turn my crank a little more quickly than the stud-muffins my friends tend to prefer. But if the first paragraphs description doesn't fit him, it doesn't matter how he looks. If it does, it doesn't matter how he looks either!

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/8/2006 7:35:33 PM   
bandit25


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Status: offline 		Dnomyar,

Part of the reason is because someone else has already said whatever it is I'm planning to say.  Part of it is because some of the topics simply don't pertain to me or how I live my life.  Part of it is cuz, to be perfectly honest, I think some of the topics are simply nonsensical so I don't even bother to respond.

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/8/2006 7:53:35 PM   
Kalira


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

What is it about a person that makes them sexually attractive to you?

Confidence in themselves; a bit of arrogance, sense of humor is a must, intelligence....wrap all that up in a redneck bad boy and OH YEA

/swoon

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/8/2006 8:44:06 PM   
Vendaval


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Status: offline 		Intelligence, respect, good manners, kindness, dark sense of humor, similar tastes in music, literature, film, etc.  and the ability to not take oneself too seriously.

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/8/2006 9:14:02 PM   
justasub4u


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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/8/2006 9:16:06 PM   
NakedOnMyChain


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Status: offline 		If we're talking about the ideal standard that most people have in their heads somewhere along the line: I guess the tall, dark and handsome thing works, provided there is a healthy dose of intelligence and biting wit.  I like clean-cut guys, especially when they've got just a tiny bit of stubble.  I like a man who is tall, thin, dark hair, light eyes, pale skin.  And it's a bonus if he wears eyeliner sometimes.  I think I just figured out something about myself.  I like the unstereotypical goth boy "Cure" fan.  Wow.  That explains so much.  Seriously.

Now, with all that said, I find lots of guys attractive.  It mostly has to do with the personality they exude.  I dig the self-assured, yet slightly vulnerable, quiet-in-a-mysterious-way,-yet-brilliant-when-he-talks type of guy.  I really love a guy who can sit back and observe the scene, yet still say exactly what needs said.

Edited to add:  The above are traits I find purely and animilistically sexually stimulating.  My requirements for love are a bit larger in number, and the physical restraints are less.

< Message edited by NakedOnMyChain -- 11/8/2006 9:18:07 PM >

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/8/2006 9:20:02 PM   
slavejali


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Status: offline 		I find dominance sexually attractive in that really raw primitive way. I suppose it couldn't be just any old dominance though, their energy would have to be capable of dominating me...so I guess its some invisible thing that happens that I could be attracted to.

P.S. if they had that *thing* going on they could look like count dracula or frankeinstien and I wouldn't care.

P.P.S. Just to clarify, Master does not look liek dracula or frankeinstein,, he is quite amazingly handsome actually (with big muslces and stuff) hehe

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/8/2006 9:23:51 PM   
NakedOnMyChain


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quote:

ORIGINAL: slavejali

I find dominance sexually attractive in that really raw primitive way. I suppose it couldn't be just any old dominance though, their energy would have to be capable of dominating me...so I guess its some invisible thing that happens that I could be attracted to.


I agree with that.  To me dominance is 90% in my head, though.  I have to feel dominated.  It's all about the mindfuck of it.  I have no idea what I'm trying to say.  Hopefully someone will understand.

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/8/2006 9:25:51 PM   
slavejali


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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/8/2006 9:25:52 PM   
Mikal


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Status: offline 		Female appearance, interesting personality, humour matching (or at least understanding) mine, shared kinks... that sort of stuff. I don't particularly care about race/weight, but I do like people around my height or taller. And older... I don't do anyone younger than me (as of yet, and I see no reason to change that).
 
Not sexually attractive (or attractive at all, for that matter): offensive odour. Foul language. General unkemptness (dirty teeth/nails/etc.). Dislike of animals (this does not include allergies... but people who genuinely don't like animals give me the willies). Probably the same stuff as most people, more or less.

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/8/2006 9:32:41 PM   
cloudboy


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Seems to me that HAMLET would walk out of this Bar Room alone and Othello would have to beat'em off with a stick.

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/8/2006 9:33:46 PM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		For me, it's pretty simple:

Someone who is creative enough to think of sexy things to do,
uninhibited enough to be ready to do them,
and fit enough physically to make them happen.

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/9/2006 4:12:28 AM   
LotusSong


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Status: offline 		Hmmm.. things I find attractive...
 
Large bedroom eyes that twinkle
A Tom Cruise-like smile with good teeth
Full head of hair.. and if it's platinum white.. the more the better :)
Moderate, toned build
Neat and clean ( if the straight guys only knew how to dress with the style the gay guys do)
A kind sense of humor.  (too much sarcasm is a turn-off)
Democrat with a Porche 911
 
Large wide feet.. GOTTA have 'em (polite cough)

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/9/2006 5:17:56 AM   
HalloweenWhite


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Status: offline 		Indeed I do. With a thing for pony-play.. Lol. All I need now is to learn russian and get the next flight to russia and all My birthdays'll come all at once. Easy .

Thank you "Collar Me" I don't need you any more; thanks to this thread, I not only know what I want, I even know where to find it!. I'll hire Myself out as weight training equipment at one of the gyms the athletes use. I'm the right size..

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/9/2006 5:47:07 AM   
Aileen68


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

What is it about a person that makes them sexually attractive to you?


Mentally...dominance, confidence, intelligence.
Physically...taller, younger, muscular, tattoos.

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/9/2006 6:43:40 AM   
Celeste43


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Status: offline 		About six feet tall, dark hair, dark eyes. Heavily muscled arms and shoulders. Some hair on his chest, I don't like men without any. Heavier than average weight, I just like big guys. Deep voice.

Educated, competent with his hands,  pays attention to me instead of checking out every other woman in the place. That last is a total turn off and won't get a second chance. Kind, caring, good with kids and animals. Very protective of those he loves.

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/9/2006 7:09:15 AM   
zumala


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Status: offline 		Interesting question now that I stop to actually think about it.  I've never been one go just oogle someone, so I think it's safe to say that appearance isn't my primary draw.  Personality matters most.
 
Manners, a sense of responsibility for their actions, open-mindedness, a sense of humor that meshes well with mine, shared interests, the ability to feel and exercise compassion when appropriate, faithful and devoted, someone who really loves animals, somewhat idealistic because I am, confident, not vain, highly intelligent without making their intelligence their primary focus, a lover of the outdoors and outdoor activities.
 
As for looks...  I prefer a man who is taller than me by at least four inches. I don't like skinny as a rail, but I'm not into muscle-builders either.  Just a strong guy who's solidly built and athletic.  I don't favor red hair on guys. I suppose sandy blonde or darker with light eyes, blue or green.
 
zuma

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/9/2006 8:24:43 AM   
amayos


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar
What is it about a person that makes them sexually attractive to you?


A person increases their sexual attractiveness to me with the following qualities:

• Height and weight proportionate
• Good overall health
• Refinement and intelligence
• A pleasing voice
• A pleasing face
• Depth and imagination
• An open mind

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RE: Sexually attractive - 11/9/2006 9:10:02 AM   
sublace


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Status: offline 		Well for me it takes a great smile, intelligence, assertiveness and a decent body.

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