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AAkasha -> Do physically "hot" male subs get more action? (11/10/2006 4:24:13 PM)
Male subs, do you feel that when you have to compete for the attention of femdoms that "more attractive" male subs (who may be players, jerks, have bad personalities or be bad news) get the lion's share of their time? With there being so many more male subs than femdoms, does it make it harder to stand out in a crowd? Have you found that at munches and in bdsm circles that femdoms will compete for the attention of 1 male sub who is new, novel, attractive and leave the other dozens of regulars and proven subs out in the cold? Akasha

sissifytoserve -> RE: Do physically "hot" male subs get more action? (11/10/2006 4:26:04 PM)
Yup....sissies get almost no play when compared to masculine subs. Fact.

gooddogbenji -> RE: Do physically "hot" male subs get more action? (11/10/2006 4:29:55 PM)
I think it simply has to do with good ol' supply and demand, in a different way than usual. If there are 5 Dommes, and 20 subs, and each Domme is only seeking one sub, then only one of four will get picked. Why go for an ugly one when a hot one is right there, and as desperate as all the others to get picked? It's a buyers market. Yours, benji

Mikal -> RE: Do physically "hot" male subs get more action? (11/10/2006 4:30:01 PM)
Where have you been playing sissify?

sissifytoserve -> RE: Do physically "hot" male subs get more action? (11/10/2006 4:36:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Mikal Where have you been playing sissify? By myself...as usual.

MmakeMme -> RE: Do physically "hot" male subs get more action? (11/10/2006 4:41:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sissifytoserve quote: ORIGINAL: Mikal Where have you been playing sissify? By myself...as usual. ~LOL~ ~sending sissify a sympathy card and purchasing one for herself too~

sissifytoserve -> RE: Do physically "hot" male subs get more action? (11/10/2006 4:44:33 PM)
I don't need your sympathy. Its reality. The numbers of "normal" outwardly masculine appearing sub males have a much greater possibilty of relationship with a domme than does a crossdressing male..statistically speaking. Instead of say......A "masculine sub" has a 20 to 1 chance ...The sissy sub has more like 200 to 1

Mikal -> RE: Do physically "hot" male subs get more action? (11/10/2006 4:44:53 PM)
Well, if you don't go to play parties, how do you expect to be played with????? Of course the Dommes are going to be playing with other people (whom you may percieve to be 'hotter') because YOU'RE NOT THERE!

sissifytoserve -> RE: Do physically "hot" male subs get more action? (11/10/2006 4:45:40 PM)
What play parties?

LotusSong -> RE: Do physically "hot" male subs get more action? (11/10/2006 4:50:28 PM)
Actually, for me, I do not seek any one type of male. I actually steer clear of the trophy subs. The sub has to be interesting in some way. A good mind, a kind sense of humor and a medium build. Since I stick within my own age bracket, I cut some slack to the silver foxes :)

Sissypinky -> RE: Do physically "hot" male subs get more action? (11/10/2006 5:04:33 PM)
As a subCD, I’ve had luck but it’s been a hell of a search. I did have a lot of GFs who were into it but they didn’t last. Even though they said they were into it I found that not to be true. They spoke to soon. Guess they didn’t know till they were in it. My family always gave me unwavering support because they have always known who I am and that my private interest are just that...yet several GFs and even friendships were indeed sundered beyond repair...as you might expect. Not because my friends individuals were incapable of understanding my interests in crossdressing/feminization/Femdom, but because the level of communication between manly-men does not have the same fluidity of thought concerning sexual intimacies as that of TG's or BDSM players.... And I had made those relationships when in a more masculine state of self... I’ve met a few less than understanding people and interestingly, though I HAVE gone through purge periods in my life...there's not one day that I ever considered that I should STOP being who I am - which is a sensual human, deeply connected for whatever reasons along the timeline, with submission, sissification, feminization, Female Supremacy...etc...because if I stopped being who I am then what would be the damned point of living at all? CD do have a good amount of luck but I’ve always stated to many that female girlfriends of crossdressers and sissies can't just be in the frame of mind in which they "...don't mind..." about dressing...She HAS to crave it in her life too...or you're just walking the plank in the dark, never knowing when you're going to drop off into hell...again...!

Mikal -> RE: Do physically "hot" male subs get more action? (11/10/2006 5:30:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sissifytoserve What play parties? Check your mail. I forgot that you were American... [8\|] Oops!

AAkasha -> RE: Do physically "hot" male subs get more action? (11/10/2006 5:31:00 PM)
I would especially like to hear the opinion of the "hot males" that get the cold shoulder from other male subs when they enter the turf. Akasha

gooddogbenji -> RE: Do physically "hot" male subs get more action? (11/10/2006 6:26:10 PM)
Yanno, I've been told I'm hot, and have been to many a munch where I have had Women hit on me. I think the key is to not be a dick about it, be nice to the other subs, no matter how inferiour(joke), and generally be social. Oh, and don't call them ugly. They don't like it. For the most part. I think that anyone, at any social gathering, will be shunned by other men if they're only interested in the women there. After all, they're shunning the other men. However, if that same person is there to make friends with anyone, not hitting on the wrong people, and generally respectful of the overall atmosphere, they should be okay. If not, it's the other guy who's the asshole. Long story short, it's a question of who starts being an ass. Yours, benji

imtempting -> RE: Do physically "hot" male subs get more action? (11/10/2006 6:26:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji I think it simply has to do with good ol' supply and demand, in a different way than usual. If there are 5 Dommes, and 20 subs, and each Domme is only seeking one sub, then only one of four will get picked. Why go for an ugly one when a hot one is right there, and as desperate as all the others to get picked? It's a buyers market. Yours, benji Miracles do happen, I finally agree on something your said...

gooddogbenji -> RE: Do physically "hot" male subs get more action? (11/10/2006 6:29:00 PM)
Well, statistically, it had to happen eventually; I do have over 3500 posts. Besides, I can always proclaim that the N word is actually a good thing tomorrow. Yours, benji

LotusSong -> RE: Do physically "hot" male subs get more action? (11/10/2006 6:59:07 PM)
Could it be this.... My understanding is that most CD's are heterosexual. It would stand to reason they would be attracted to heterosexual females. It seems to me you are already fighting an uphill battle by thinking a het woman will be attracted to a man in drag. If the ratio successful relationships of CD's to Femdoms are 500 to 1, what does this tell you? Maybe Femdoms are not a good source for a partner. I wish I had an answer for y'all.

sissifytoserve -> RE: Do physically "hot" male subs get more action? (11/10/2006 7:05:54 PM)
It's not good odds at all. Sometimes i wonder why the hell I even bother. Looks like i don't have a chance in hell.

Mikal -> RE: Do physically "hot" male subs get more action? (11/10/2006 7:08:34 PM)
Maybe hell just really really likes you... [sm=evil.gif]

Sissypinky -> RE: Do physically "hot" male subs get more action? (11/10/2006 7:10:28 PM)
your right 100% yet considering I have had luck in the past (just havent found the right one yet) I still have hope. Even het men and women have hard luck in finding theirs but for me and other CD it's harder. never going to give up though.

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