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ProtagonistLily -> RE: RUDE submissives (2/6/2005 6:50:47 PM)
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ITs amazing, Talk about RUDE, Most of you ASSUMED they were form emails, with No effort on My part,
I apologize for bringing form letters into the discussion. I was not implying that your notes were forms, merely I was expressing my own frustration with a part of the overall process.
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I spent 12 HOURS here writing emails
Clearly, you've put a lot of thought into this process. I'm not sure how familiar you are with the 'online' medium, but it's sort of a crap shoot. Not all the 'submissives' here are geniune, nor are all the Dominants. There's no way to vet either, and we are who and what we say we are simply by self identification. I know some folks real time from this site, but that's probably less than 1 percent overall. So, unfortunately for some 'submissives' this is an 'online' game and they just don't know any better.
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And I am not talking about what is owed me except Basic Courtesy, (you know, what Mummy and daddy obviously failed to teach very well)
Perhaps. But then again, that's your opinion. I don't begin to try to understand why I haven't been responded to. I assume that there's a reason, and fate's probably saved me a ton of headache by having these people pass me by.
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if One of the subs I trained ever spoke to someone the way Many here speak, She would be diciplined and Pretty strongly
Yes, but they aren't yours so the point is moot. You can't discipline any of the people who have decided, of their own free will not to return your gesture. And frankly, I'm not really seeing how your presentation here is driving your stock up as someone who a submissive would want to get to know better.
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I train My subs to show basic courtesy till someone shows they do NOT deserve it
Fair enough. However, one of the things that those of us who are domiant have learned (mostly the hard way) is that this medium carries with it almost none of the protocols of real life scene behavior. Many of us have learned to take much with a preverbial grain of salt. There are Dominants here I wouldn't associate with real time because of how they present themselves, as well as submissives for the same reason. This forum is in some ways the great leveler; if you can remain civil and respectful here, with the filter of annonymity, then chances are you will be treated civilly and respectfully. If not, then you probably won't get much action.
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SAD SAD SAD people
Well, if you say so. I came to CollarMe with an open mind. I exhausted the choices of the local submissives months ago, but I'm still here. I was open to making friends with other folks who I could share experiences with and learn from. So, my experience hasn't been as frustrating as yours has.
Lily
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