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RE: Male bottoms versus Male submissives- Mistress advi... - 11/15/2006 10:29:52 PM

BlkTallFullfig

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I can see how you are defining the term to mean consensual femdom relationships, so by your definition "female supremacy" is a perfectly good way to run a relationship or a household. But your definition is probably not the same as the more political and less consensual one that most people think of when they hear that word.

How do you feel about slavery within wiitwd than? I want a slave to love, command, and enslave... If the same connotations apply, we'd have to ask why I would want to own anyone, given recent history. I know that most people who itch at hearing/reading fem supremacy, are thinking "women who hate men, or think men suck in a bad way", but nothing could be further from the truth in the case of diginified dominant women who run female lead relationships in my opinion. M

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RE: Male bottoms versus Male submissives- Mistress advi... - 11/15/2006 11:46:23 PM

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i've read a lot of responses talking about the male subs who were so vehemently against female supremacy. to clarify my position and what i already stated, i personally do not believe that anyone is superior to anyone else. the umbrage i took from the OP was in his statements that any male slave/sub who doesn't believe in female supremecy can't be a true slave.

i say to each his/her own. i don't believe in it, my Mistress of nearly 6 years doesn't believe in it. We choose to live under a heirarchy. She's the dominant one, I am submissive and subservient to her will. character is in actions, not words. i am what i am.

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RE: Male bottoms versus Male submissives- Mistress advi... - 11/16/2006 7:15:07 AM

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Its all good till we are on the receiving line of all that education those lovely sub/slaves received via the fantasy world. Sometimes it's the first and only access they have to Femdommes; and then these lovely men receive harsh words from us because they know only what has been perpetuated over and over and no one ever says hey wait a minute, you do understand, that's mostly a fantasy world and not how most women in bdsm dynamics function in their relationships?

How many times in previous threads have we bitched and whined about men not looking at us as real people because of their constant indoctrination via those web sites that promote a certain style of domination? Yes anyone should be entitled to set up their dynamic as they see fit amongst all consenting adults involved, but it doesn't mean we need be silent if someone comes to this site and ask a question that affords an opportunity to dispel some falsehoods. I thought the OP mentioned he was getting his info from other sites promoting a style of domination, (fantasy style in my eyes) and asking if that's as it should be for all to be considered a true sub/slave or not. Seems people were trying to explain that but somewhere things here went askew.

Fantasy, "You are a little slut, I'm going to make you my bitch". Mad fun to play out

Believing "All men are inferior to you" Based on chromosomes, a penis? Um pass the medication please, someone is delusional.

I honestly have no problem with the fantasy, I've played it out many times. I know a woman that gets together with a group of women in Italy where they live out such a fantasy. And it is something I someday hope to attend myself. Put on a party of boys on their knees, women ruling camp for a day, weekend, week or whatever, I'm there, but knowing that its all fantasy and fun is the key. Some people actually believe their hype and that's when it becomes scary and something that needs to be put into perspective for those that have questions.

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RE: Male bottoms versus Male submissives- Mistress advi... - 11/16/2006 9:48:48 PM

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Oh goody! Another female supremacy thread!

Can't we just have a forum geared towards all the spineless males?

I mean seriously.

Btw OP...LOVE the line about "...all real male submissives...". Fucking classic!

Edited because I'm a dumbass.

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RE: Male bottoms versus Male submissives- Mistress advi... - 11/16/2006 10:13:41 PM

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ORIGINAL: joyinslavery

Btw OP...LOVE the line about "...all real male submissives...". Fucking classic!

see, i'm much more partial to the quote "Women Mistresses"....

i guess that would be to avoid confusing them with Male Mistresses. teeheee.

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RE: Male bottoms versus Male submissives- Mistress advi... - 11/16/2006 10:17:22 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Hercuckslave

quote:

ORIGINAL: joyinslavery

Btw OP...LOVE the line about "...all real male submissives...". Fucking classic!

see, i'm much more partial to the quote "Women Mistresses"....

i guess that would be to avoid confusing them with Male Mistresses. teeheee.

You know what, I think you're right!

Funny!

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