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RE: Looks or personallity? - 11/17/2006 7:42:49 PM

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Angel and I knew we loved one another based on our personalities before we had much of an idea of what one another looked like. We'd seen one anotehrs profile pictures, but that was about it. Real life, he loks nothing like that picture anymore. I was rather pleasantly surprised (thought he was scared to death Id hate him) and he said my pictures dont do me justice. Physcialy, we were attracted. But welll before we knew that, our perosnalities had clicked.

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RE: Looks or personallity? - 11/17/2006 7:59:26 PM

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Personality.

(But looks don't hurt).

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RE: Looks or personallity? - 11/17/2006 8:19:04 PM

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Yep, I gotta say a confident,intelligient man wins hands down over appearance...Tempting

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RE: Looks or personallity? - 11/17/2006 8:20:42 PM

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Have you noticed however that usually it is women who prefer personality over appearance?.

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RE: Looks or personallity? - 11/17/2006 9:02:07 PM

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I am just wondering what does it for you? The way a person looks or their personallity?

Both.

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RE: Looks or personallity? - 11/17/2006 9:08:05 PM

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definitely personality because looks will change as time goes by

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RE: Looks or personallity? - 11/17/2006 9:22:17 PM

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Personality, although it is pleasant when someone attractive has a nice personality as well. I do not assume that just because someone is attractive they suck...smiles. I will say of the two attributes personality is way more important... I did not have to make a choice personally, my Daddy is handsome AND he has a great personality.

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RE: Looks or personallity? - 11/18/2006 1:03:06 AM

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Chemistry! And that is very individual. It's physical and emotional and spiritual. Don't you ever just get a jolt of that? And you are riveted.

I tend to think that, when people are attracted to a certain type, they are unconsciously looking for someone specific, who is that type - either an individual they have known or one they are trying to find. They may not yet know the person they're seeking, but their intuition is guiding them, with their urges.

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For the first time in many months, H. felt an appetite rise up and stretch, in him, for something more than the barest, numb survival."

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RE: Looks or personallity? - 11/18/2006 2:24:41 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone35

I am just wondering what does it for you? The way a person looks or their personallity? I know looks help sure but if they are not great looking but they have a great personallity can that offset it for you?

My Master said after talking to me by phone he would have wanted me even if i was 800 lbs and looked like a troll i am not and do not. but he loves my personallity, and thinks i am pretty. I liked his personallity too and would have wanted him anyway he just happened to be very handsome also.
So what does it for you?

An ego, confidence, determination and respect are number one on my list. So personality comes first. If a man carries himself right and exudes confidence in himself and has a bit of that bad boy attitude I melt.

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RE: Looks or personallity? - 11/18/2006 4:04:51 AM

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When i was youner and out on the pull ha ha it was looks becasue i wasnt plannin on sticking around longer than a few hours and was very shallow lol But now its definalty personality and the ability to make me smile loads that does it for me. Though im am quite happy that my boy has both looks and personality

but it was his persoanlity that drew me to him before his looks did.

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RE: Looks or personallity? - 11/18/2006 4:36:03 AM

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This one is a bit like cake. Something that looks pretty doesn't always taste nice. However, the lumpy odd looking one can often have great taste & lots of hidden texture.
Sometimes tho you can get a great looking and great tasting cake. And sometimes that odd looking cake really is quite manky.
Also even tho I really like carrot cake, sometimes I just don't want it & would prefer at that point in time a crumpet for a change.

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RE: Looks or personallity? - 11/18/2006 5:29:30 AM

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if i think some one is really hot but he is a total ass then his appearance loses it appeal really fast

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RE: Looks or personallity? - 11/18/2006 5:37:24 AM

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I'm shallow, eye candy is eye candy no doubt about that. BUT..... if it's to go beyond pleasuring just my view, that chemistry has to follow through with personality. OMG, I just cant see myself ever submitting to some empty headed pretty boy and calling him Master. That fairy tail just isnt gonna happen!

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RE: Looks or personallity? - 11/18/2006 5:52:47 AM

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Personality is very important to me, but I also like a man with all his hair and front teeth, a job, and his own transportation. Believe it or not, I've actually been told my standards are too high lol. Looks or personality? I would have to say both.

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RE: Looks or personallity? - 11/18/2006 10:51:00 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone35

I am just wondering what does it for you? The way a person looks or their personallity? I know looks help sure but if they are not great looking but they have a great personallity can that offset it for you?

My Master said after talking to me by phone he would have wanted me even if i was 800 lbs and looked like a troll i am not and do not. but he loves my personallity, and thinks i am pretty. I liked his personallity too and would have wanted him anyway he just happened to be very handsome also.

So what does it for you?

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RE: Looks or personallity? - 11/18/2006 11:48:32 AM

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i'll have to say that although looks play some role, the personality of my chosen One will rule out anything else, i need a real Man, not some emptyheaded bobbletoy, oh and a nice ass, the butt has to be a good one and not look like a frog wearing a pair of pants.

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RE: Looks or personallity? - 11/18/2006 12:03:41 PM

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"whats the ugliest part of your body?......some say your nose....some say your toes.......
but I think it's your mind......I think its your mind"

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RE: Looks or personallity? - 11/18/2006 12:05:16 PM

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ORIGINAL: MadameMarque

Chemistry! And that is very individual. It's physical and emotional and spiritual. Don't you ever just get a jolt of that? And you are riveted.

Exactly. That's what gets catches my attention first, then physical attraction...but the most important is going to be personality.

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RE: Looks or personallity? - 11/18/2006 4:11:46 PM

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ORIGINAL: littleone35

I am just wondering what does it for you? The way a person looks or their personallity?

i believe for me it is a bit of both, that completes the entire package, apealing to , and engaging all of my senses and not just a few, that is important to me to have both my visual senses and emotional/spiritual energy and mind engaged and stimulated. For the long term, it is definitely personality. i have known some very good looking people, that looked ugly to me because of their ugly insides, and vice versa, the whole "beauty is in the eye of the beholder thang" applies.

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RE: Looks or personallity? - 11/18/2006 5:13:30 PM

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i can't put my finger on it. it has something to do with how they make me smile and how they look at me when i can't quite figure out what they are thinking. i think someone has to have some kind of cuteness or fantastic eyes but it is charisma beyond looks that gets me.

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