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RE: Get over yourself! - 11/19/2006 3:19:21 PM   
asilownsmyheart


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Status: offline 		My point, you can't help who you fall in love with, or how you want to make love to that person..  Gay men take heart.  As for me and Jesus, now were gonna get deep.  I AM the baddest cat in town in a theologicial sense.  The proof behind this statement can be found in this reality.  I am either God's best friend or His worst enemy.  You think my demons have been pussycats friend.  You have no clue. 

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RE: Get over yourself! - 11/19/2006 3:20:32 PM   
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RE: Get over yourself! - 11/19/2006 3:23:38 PM   
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ORIGINAL: asilownsmyheart

My point, you can't help who you fall in love with, or how you want to make love to that person..  Gay men take heart.  As for me and Jesus, now were gonna get deep.  I AM the baddest cat in town in a theologicial sense.  The proof behind this statement can be found in this reality.  I am either God's best friend or His worst enemy.  You think my demons have been pussycats friend.  You have no clue. 


I thought everything had been said.  Apparently, I forgot about the drug-addled, seemingly contradicting spiritual sentiment.

"When walking, always remember, not to walk, but to not walk."

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RE: Get over yourself! - 11/19/2006 4:09:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: asilownsmyheart

Thanks for the feedback everyone. I guess I did offer an observation rather than a question. Put another way. “Picking up a riding crop does not make you a Dominatrix any more than picking up a scalpel makes you a brain surgeon.” If Dommes, would learn there craft and study their men the world of BSDM would be a better place, and it wouldn’t have taken me 50 years to find my mistress.

If it took YOU 50 years, maybe the problem is not the Mistress's, maybe it's yours.

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So for a question then. What caliber of sub do you hope to attract? Some spineless, gutless, broken man. Or an intelligent man with a healthy character. What kind of man would answer some of these ads? Oh, well, there’s a lid for every pot…hope you find yours.


Not looking for any subs, but if i was, i wouldn't be looking for the ones whining on CM that no one likes them.

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RE: Get over yourself! - 11/19/2006 6:04:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		I believe your Mistress would be better served by writing a positive and enjoyable thread about how wonderful finding the right one could be, rater than trying to tel us how much you love her by insulting others in the lifestyle.
There are plenty of us that have not lost touch with our femeninity.  In fact, the grand majority of us use it to our advantage.  My femeninity is my greatest asset, when it comes to getting the attention of my pet. I enjoy romance, if not the stereotypical flowers and chocolate romance. Perhaps you are the one that needs to get over yourself, and realize that what you want and what you ahve found isnt what everyone else in the world wants.
If you want to proclaim your love for your Mistress, then do so. Positively, where it doesnt look like in order to make her look good, you need to make others look bad. You should be able to rais eher up without pushing others down to do so.

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RE: Get over yourself! - 11/19/2006 9:33:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: asilownsmyheart

My point, you can't help who you fall in love with, or how you want to make love to that person..  Gay men take heart.  As for me and Jesus, now were gonna get deep.  I AM the baddest cat in town in a theologicial sense.  The proof behind this statement can be found in this reality.  I am either God's best friend or His worst enemy.  You think my demons have been pussycats friend.  You have no clue. 


Remember: Pride/vanity is among the seven deadly. You big bad kitty you.

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RE: Get over yourself! - 11/20/2006 4:33:52 AM   
asilownsmyheart


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Status: offline 		That's funny thanks for keeping the humor of life alive.  It is so difficult to discuss sommething with someone who thinks they are sooooo clever.  My nemisis here on this post did not even realize I compared him to the crowd not myself to the Christ when I said, "The crown shouted "Crucify him."  You can never be taught if you think you have all the answers. 

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RE: Get over yourself! - 11/20/2006 5:47:16 AM   
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I'm a little lost too as to what has motivated such a post. Is it to try and make those who have Dommes jealous, cos he has the "best" one? Is that why it is here and not in the Mistress forums? Or is it an inordinately huge pride in his Pro-Dommes abilities than has caused him to want to share with other subs and slaves? I think not.
I would imagine most male subs believe their Pro-Domme is the "best", as many female (and male) subs/slaves believe they have the best Master/Mistress.
Whatever his motivation I have to question his choice to come to a forum and with his second post try and alienate the Domme population with his arrogance and assumptions. I akin it to walking into an Irish Bar and announcing that my proddie God is better than yours. Got to love the Irish  my grandfather returned to his 'motherland' again recently, he is 92 and kissed the stone! He swears 2 pints of guiness a day is what has kept him alive for so long


what is one doing with their play partners, if they do not believe that they are 'the best'?  you can't just submit to someone who doesn't earn their way.  and you will not have an interest in owning someone if they don't seem worthy of it.  the original poster, i believe, means mostly to discourage amateurish bluster, the kind of dumb bravado and manipulations that many superficial and/or inexperienced players often engage in, quite unknowingly.  perhaps he means to show (or rather, ram down the throats of) the dommes who behave so unthinkingly, as if brawn is all it takes to have power, that it is something of an art form, dominating someone.  that it requires skill, patience, and affection -- not just a desire to be on top, all the time.
 
however, i find it interesting-- this sort of argument can (and does) easily apply in reverse.  the number of dominant MEN who tend to message me, telling me off because i have my own mind (thank you very much), and attempting to seduce me from the word go, without even considering my personality (as i am a person, and i do deserve respect), is simply INSANE.  i had not visited collarme in over a year, until this evening, and still, i was getting those constant messages.
 
it's all very well and good to be keen on someone, but to just be belligerent and rude?  silly, and not worth a look, frankly.

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RE: Get over yourself! - 11/20/2006 1:47:00 PM   
asilownsmyheart


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Status: offline 		Thank you, I think.  It seems you are at least trying to get my point.  My orginal thought of "Get over yourself" comes to me when I see a post with a domme calling herself "Goddess this or that."  I always want to write "What are you the goddess that shits, get over yourself."    If God is on his throne He is not amused.  As a minister I worry about these women.  I have no problem calling my Mistress my Queen or even to consider her my earthly goddess, but that is for me to tell her, not for her to tell me.  As a minister I deal with a waste land of broken people over sexual issues, from some guy addicted to internet porn to some young pup feeling guilty because he cannot stop masturbating.  Woody Allen saved my life, "Can I do it until I need glasses."  I just want to help people.  I often get the reaction I got on this post. Mr. Diplomacy I ain't

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RE: Get over yourself! - 11/20/2006 1:49:31 PM   
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ORIGINAL: asilownsmyheart

That's funny thanks for keeping the humor of life alive.  It is so difficult to discuss sommething with someone who thinks they are sooooo clever.  My nemisis here on this post did not even realize I compared him to the crowd not myself to the Christ when I said, "The crown shouted "Crucify him."  You can never be taught if you think you have all the answers. 


I do my best *takes a bow*

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RE: Get over yourself! - 11/20/2006 3:24:43 PM   
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ORIGINAL: asilownsmyheart

My nemisis here on this post did not even realize I compared him to the crowd not myself to the Christ when I said, "The crown shouted "Crucify him."  You can never be taught if you think you have all the answers. 


It's always great to hear theologically-minded, flaky pseudo-intellectuals pontificate.........especially one that can't be taken seriously in any context.  The next time I feel like numbing my emotions with a bottle of uber-potent Kentucky bourbon, I'll have to scan over your post, just so I can know that there are less-desirable alternatives out there.


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RE: Get over yourself! - 11/20/2006 5:06:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: asilownsmyheart

My nemisis here on this post did not even realize I compared him to the crowd not myself to the Christ when I said, "The crown shouted "Crucify him."  You can never be taught if you think you have all the answers. 


It's always great to hear theologically-minded, flaky pseudo-intellectuals pontificate.........especially one that can't be taken seriously in any context.  The next time I feel like numbing my emotions with a bottle of uber-potent Kentucky bourbon, I'll have to scan over your post, just so I can know that there are less-desirable alternatives out there.



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RE: Get over yourself! - 11/20/2006 5:16:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		Who ordained you for the ministry, fella?  Come on and fess up.........it was Ronald MacDonald, wasn't it?

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RE: Get over yourself! - 11/20/2006 5:16:43 PM   
asilownsmyheart


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Status: offline 		You're a deep dude, I'll give you that.  Half the time I don't know what the hell you're talking about.  Do you honestly think you would have defended Christ in His day or been one with the crowd that shouted crucify him.  Crawl into your bottle of Bourbon and meditate on that.  You obviously consider yourself insightful, consider this, if God were to send an end time prophet, one last messanger to warn the world of coming judgment where would this messanger find his audience?  Where would he come from? Rome?  the White House? or a Kink Site?  I don't want you to hurt yourself, the answer is kink-site, God is so cool.  Let him who has ears to hear let him hear
I told you I'm the baddest cat in town in a theological sense, but instead of asking a serious, mature thought provoking question. You bottom feed by trying to be clever and show the world how witty you are. 

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RE: Get over yourself! - 11/20/2006 5:18:18 PM   
TreSwank


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Asking a "mature, thought-provoking" question wouldn't have been feasible in this particular instance, mostly because your original post had all the acumen, finesse, and eloquence of a bag of sawdust.  I seriously thought that the initial post was a joke, perpetrated by some angst ridden pre-teen kid, logged onto his dad's computer.

It almost reminded me of one of those episodes of Maury Povich, where some wayward teenage girl tries to justify her promiscuity in front of an audience of hecklers.  In this case, I was SOOOOO ready to heckle away.

I'll bet it pleases you to see yourself as a martyr, instead of a silly, half-baked, mad theologian with a couple kinks on the side.   I'm always ready to support folks with new and interesting points of view - but you......you take the damn wedding cake.

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RE: Get over yourself! - 11/20/2006 6:00:27 PM   
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ORIGINAL: asilownsmyheart

Half the time I don't know what the hell you're I'm talking about.


Fixed it for you.


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RE: Get over yourself! - 11/20/2006 7:25:13 PM   
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RE: Get over yourself! - 11/21/2006 12:44:23 AM   
asilownsmyheart


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Status: offline 		Have I ever had a girlfriend?  None that understood me.  That won't surprise you I know.  While I'm thinking about it I meant to tell you, I don't pay my Mistress to spank me.  I buy her gifts because I love her, the spanking is FREE.
Here I've been dreading the task of writting my thesis when all the while I've been writting it here for all the world to see.  I'm just sinner saved by grace, and yes with a couple kinks on the side.  That doesn't change the fact God is a personal friend of mine.  You're helping me grow, for that I am thankful.

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RE: Get over yourself! - 11/21/2006 12:56:17 AM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		If I may point out... were you so concerned with saving the souls of the poor girls who are putting themeselves in the Lords poor graces by calling temselves Goddess or whatnot... why did you fail to mention that at ALL until page 3?
What your point was or is for having started this thread has changed so many times, I wonder if YOU knew what you had planned.

DV

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RE: Get over yourself! - 11/21/2006 4:48:50 AM   
asilownsmyheart


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Status: offline 		You know, I really hadn't thought it through.  I was more interested in learning just how to submit a post.  I am not from the computer age.  Sometime I feel like Fred Flintsone visiting George Jetson.  If I would have known the hornets nest my post would have stirred I would have crafted it differently.  My first post, I think in the back of my mind I wondered if anyone really reads these posts.  Well at least I have my answer to that question. 
Interesting point about the girls putting themselves into God's hands as a goddess, however, I think I will retain my belief that He does not need their help.  Are they helping the poor smuck, or taking his money?  Loving him or threating him like a piece of trash?  Jesus humbled  Himself and became obedient, a sub/slave is more Christ like than a "Goddess" is Godlike
In addition I didn't get on this site for the purpose of  preaching, although it seems to be heading there.  I didn't join to judge, condemn or criticize.  I signed on mainly to understand myself better. 
I believe as well that if a survey were taken many on CM would admit that they left church because they Couldn't don't see how a Christian could have a kink, and the kink was to strong to battle.  It is these people I think I can help. 

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