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topcat -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/20/2006 6:40:16 PM)
quote: I told you that you had a nice butt in another thread You couldn't be- that town ain't gay enough for the two of you...

gooddogbenji -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/20/2006 6:41:24 PM)
Okay, fine, I'll cave. That was hilarious......... Yours, benji

topcat -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/20/2006 6:42:11 PM)
Sigh... Ain't he sweet...

LaTigresse -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/20/2006 6:43:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: topcat quote: I told you that you had a nice butt in another thread You couldn't be- that town ain't gay enough for the two of you... I dunno, have you ever actually BEEN to Atlanta???

LaTigresse -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/20/2006 6:44:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: topcat Sigh... Ain't he sweet... Puppy love.......

topcat -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/20/2006 6:45:19 PM)
quote: I dunno, have you ever actually BEEN to Atlanta??? Hotlanta? baby, before I got there it wasn't even warm...

Aileen68 -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/20/2006 6:47:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tiptopcat quote: I told you that you had a nice butt in another thread Hotlanta? baby, before I got there it wasn't even warm... Are we still talking about your butt?

gooddogbenji -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/20/2006 6:47:30 PM)
Are you gonna accuse everyone who replies to you of either being a liar or having bad taste? Yours, benji

topcat -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/20/2006 6:48:47 PM)
I have no Idea what I am going to do next... It's been a long day, and I am friggin delirious

thompsonx -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/20/2006 6:48:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen68 quote: ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji I think I just found a large bag of what the fuck. Yours, benji If you list it on ebay, I'll buy it. I've been looking for some good quality fuck for a while. Aileen: Are you still horney? I thought you solved that in the previous thread? OK go to ebay, I am there. I am easy but I make up for it by being cheap. thompson

KatyLied -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/20/2006 6:57:15 PM)
quote: You mean there is no honorary society of submissives with a gold card and a key to the Emerald City because I allow someone to beat me silly and boss me around? Wow! I thought this was like belonging to MENSA, but less geeky and more fun, what a shock! Well, if you lived in western PA you could join the not-so-secret society of margarita drinking subs, but alas, you live too far away.

CandleInTheWind -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/20/2006 7:05:06 PM)
honestly I have had it with SO called DOmly types that read slut rather than submissive.....well to those that align themselves with that title more power to you but this little lassie is down right choosey whio and when i will get neekid with and under what cercumstances....I have had more men write to me and say that we will see how we click sexually tthen we can talk about a relationship...my response as of late has been to give the number to a local call girl service and tell them that the girl would evaluate their ability and then report their ailities to me... and so this grand poohbah of domliness is not anybetter nor any worse than anyother man that has ran into this little lady... Although i think that the vanilla guys have caught wind of the lifestyle and have total misunderstandings of what it is that I am am into!!! I do not meet in a motel or in a hotel...I do not get nekkid,nor am i planning on being nekkid with anyone that i meet for the first time!!! and so That is my 2 cents orth!!

Mstr2you -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/20/2006 7:11:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse I still do not understand why trust is more important. I mean really, why would you be in any sort of relationship if you could not trust the person? It is for me...can't speak for anyone else. I wouldn't and didn't give any vanilla partners my entire person to run and control, including the ability to reshape my thoughts and emotions. So, for me anyway, it requires more trust in someone to be able to give my complete life over to him. Speaking to the OP, however, I don't think the "lifestyle" is more special than "vanillas." I do think my relationship to my Master is more special than any other relationship I have had, however. This may or may not be true for others. It's an individualistic thing, not a group thing. I think the only arguement one could put forward is that submissives into physical pain, caning or needles and the like, are obviously putting themselves at further risk, but I also think for those into harder physical play that risk is a great part of the turn on. There is fear just as there is fear when one jumps from a plane and we do it for the same reward, the same high and that dosn't come without risk, at least not that I have found. Some people ride thrill rides, some jump from planes, some climb mountains and some play it safe and its the same in the d/s world in my opinion. I think that the trust needed to allow someone to whip them is no different from the trust given when engaging in vanilla sex with a new partner. That vanilla guy may have aids, may be engaging in unsafe sex, may be into rough sex, may be a misogynist, same issue of trust and same possibility for having it abused. You do your homework and you use your head and you jump. Or not.

Squeakers -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/20/2006 7:16:12 PM)
quote: now your hurt and your angry and your done with all this I've been hurt, angry and done with all this but not because of someone else. It was because of my own insecurities within myself and the confussion of who I was, why I was and why the hell did I need this in my life. Of course this hasn't happened in many years. It arose most often in the begininng when I was learning and unsure of what I really needed in my life. I've given up trying to figure out why I am, I just am. quote: The idea that the emotions shared in a d/s relationship are more meaningful and more powerful than those in a vanilla relationship is just silly and condescending. I can perhaps agree with this to a point; sometimes D/s is overly romanticized; however, never ever in a vanilla relationship was I able to freely express my kink and my emotions with another as completely as I have in a D/s one. I agree any relationship can be meaningful and powerful but it depends on what you are willing to put into it. My most meaningful relationships have been D/s based because it was there I was able to be most comfortable in my own skin, submitting and reliquishing control to another person not to mention the very best sex I have had. Throughout my lifetime, I have learned and grown not only in D/s but as a person. I have discovered things about myself from reflections on the past and have set 'vanillia' goal for my future. I know without a doubt, without D/s as a big part of my life, I would not have ventured to where I have at this point and currently it's a point where I am comfortable and my future goals are obtainable. I know that for many they have been able to travel their own life journey's and have been successful and comfortable in their lives without D/s but for me I couldn't have because I am submissive, I will always be submissive regardless if I run across the plumber from Yonkers with a wife and no bank account. You do have some points that are completely valid if you look at it from one side. Maybe it's different for me because I've learned quite sometime ago to slow down and not make my life a desperate attempt to be submissive to someone and just be submissive. Once that happened, everything sort of fell into place. If I sound condesending and silly for my rambling....get over it. LOL sorry I couldn't resist 'get over it.' Thanks for the great post---it allowed my brain to function even at this late hour.

Mstr2you -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/20/2006 7:19:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CandleInTheWind I do not meet in a motel or in a hotel...I do not get nekkid,nor am i planning on being nekkid with anyone that i meet for the first time!!! and so That is my 2 cents orth!! in that case dinner is off signed, the grand poohpah of domliness

BitaTruble -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/20/2006 7:31:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Mstr2you Here's my point ( yes I think I have one even if you don't) The idea that the emotions shared in a d/s relationship are more meaningful and more powerful than those in a vanilla relationship is just silly and condescending. The dynamics are different and it may move faster and become more intense quicker but that can happen with any relationship depending on the circumstances and in the end it's just a relationship with all the highs and lows and risks and rewards and it is a mistake to think that a d/s one is any better than any other Just my opinion. There is a reason for it. D/s has all the components of vanilla plus the D/s component. Simple math, really. If A = vanilla, then A < A+1 Doesn't surprise me in the least that D/s is often viewed as 'more'. Celeste

gooddogbenji -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/20/2006 7:33:49 PM)
Except that in vanilla, you have two humans. In D/s, you have a Woman and an unworthy, pitiful, worm, who deserves to be shot for the smallest infraction. Yours, benji

BitaTruble -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/20/2006 7:40:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji Except that in vanilla, you have two humans. In D/s, you have a Woman and an unworthy, pitiful, worm, who deserves to be shot for the smallest infraction. Yours, benji Everyone has their crosses, benji, old dog. One day you're humping legs and peeing on the furniture, the next day you're fish food. Celeste

juliaoceania -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/20/2006 7:43:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KatyLied quote: You mean there is no honorary society of submissives with a gold card and a key to the Emerald City because I allow someone to beat me silly and boss me around? Wow! I thought this was like belonging to MENSA, but less geeky and more fun, what a shock! Well, if you lived in western PA you could join the not-so-secret society of margarita drinking subs, but alas, you live too far away. Well I bet our Mexican food is better here! (goes away and pouts about missing all the margaritas in PA[:(])

TemptingNviceSub -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/20/2006 7:45:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Mstr2you So the dom who told you he was the grand maharshi of dominance turns out to be a plumber from yonkers with a bossy wife and an empty bank account and that lovely submissive you called your pet turned out to be sharing time with the local minor league team and its mascot and it's mascot has four legs and barks and now your hurt and your angry and your done with all this. Get over it! I think there is an element of fantasy that is part of the d/s world and for some the fantasy is overwhelming the reality. Why would the men and women you meet in the kink world be any different from those you meet in the vanilla world? People cheat and lie and use and we all have filters we use to edit them out of our lives and sometimes they get in and we get hurt and we move on. That's life and you can either chance it or stay home, your choice. Here's my point ( yes I think I have one even if you don't) The idea that the emotions shared in a d/s relationship are more meaningful and more powerful than those in a vanilla relationship is just silly and condescending. The dynamics are different and it may move faster and become more intense quicker but that can happen with any relationship depending on the circumstances and in the end it's just a relationship with all the highs and lows and risks and rewards and it is a mistake to think that a d/s one is any better than any other Just my opinion. Obviously, most do not think any less different than what you have stated above in regards to WIITWD and vanilla...and the chances of being hurt.and I agree with this ....but with that said...being hurt in either situation...still simply ,just hurts...and to say BOO FUCKING HOO to those who have come on to ask why they were hurt or to get advice on how to deal with it, such a statement as BOO FUCKING HOO sounds rather heartless to say the least....you are in essence negating their feelings..So as such, to have a Dominant who would feel this way, would be to not trust this person with my mind, body or emotions, thus negating the communication and honesty that most Dominants seem to desire and command within a D/s dynamic...Tempting

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