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Aine -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/21/2006 9:44:55 AM)

Y'know....I've love to know what's in a post initially that makes it go [Awaiting Approval]. lol

Though I think I have an idea considering Whatshisface that always stirs the pot....seems like most of his these days say that.  *giggles*

I can just imagine the commercial that would go with that American Express slogan![:D]




mnottertail -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/21/2006 9:57:22 AM)

The [awaiting approval] are people under moderation, and it may be a very inoffensive post but once upon a time (usually several once upon a times) they had written something naughty........so they are given a number (a 1 in their is moderated byte in the user header) and watched closely, just like in prison.

Number6.

Be seeing you................. 




Aine -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/21/2006 9:59:17 AM)

Welp....now I know why a certain person gets that a lot. lol

I'm surprised most of us aren't [Awaiting Approval] lmfao




gooddogbenji -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/21/2006 10:00:54 AM)

Shit, Ron.  I didn't realize you were 6.

Actually, surprisingly, I'm still waiting to get collared by Mod11, and branded with [awaiting approval]

Yours,


benji




gooddogbenji -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/21/2006 10:01:58 AM)

Oh, come on, Aine.  You're a model of good behaviour.

And a model that leads to my misbehaviour, if you put any value on chastity.

Yours,


benji 




defiantbadgirl -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/21/2006 10:11:23 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Mstr2you

So the dom who told you he was the grand maharshi of dominance turns out to be a plumber from yonkers with a bossy wife and an empty bank account and that lovely submissive you called your pet turned out to be sharing time with the local minor league team and its mascot and it's mascot has four legs and barks and now your hurt and your angry and your done with all this.

Get over it!

I think there is an element of fantasy that is part of the d/s world and for some the fantasy is overwhelming the reality. Why would the men and women you meet in the kink world be any different from those you meet in the vanilla world? People cheat and lie and use and we all have filters we use to edit them out of our lives and sometimes they get in and we get hurt and we move on. That's life and you can either chance it or stay home, your choice.

Here's my point ( yes I think I have one even if you don't) The idea that the emotions shared in a d/s relationship are more meaningful and more powerful than those in a vanilla relationship is just silly and condescending. The dynamics are different and it may move faster and become more intense quicker but that can happen with any relationship depending on the circumstances and  in the end it's just a relationship with all the highs and lows and risks and rewards and it is a mistake to think that a d/s one is any better than any other

Just my opinion.



Actually I've found that there is less emotional attachment in bdsm than there is with vanilla. Many in the lifestyle seek play partners (friends with benefits) and would never allow their emotions to be involved when playing with their "toys".




PONYSEEKER -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/21/2006 10:37:57 AM)

Hey I thought you were suppose to be flirting?




gooddogbenji -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/21/2006 11:11:47 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

Actually I've found that there is less emotional attachment in bdsm than there is with vanilla. Many in the lifestyle seek play partners (friends with benefits) and would never allow their emotions to be involved when playing with their "toys".


And vanillas never seek friends with benefits (A vanilla term you used, to make it more clear to us what you meant, presumably because it is more common in the vanilla world than in ours)

And if you now tell me that a friend told you this, I will kill one of my fish.

Yours,


benji




Aileen68 -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/21/2006 11:17:01 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji


I will kill one of my fish.

Yours,


benji


Noooooo.  Don 't do it!  Don't kill the fish!




Aine -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/21/2006 11:18:14 AM)

*smiles and purrs at benji*

Model of good behaviour?  Wow...I've not heard that one in a while, and I think there might be a few here that would readily disagree.  *giggles*

One can't be opinionated without being crucified by at least one person around here.

*tries to picture benji in a chastity belt, then realizes she's already misplaced the "key"* Dangit.




BitaTruble -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/21/2006 11:25:46 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aine


One can't be opinionated without being crucified by at least one person around here.



Crucifixion scenes are totally hot. [8D]

Celeste




Aine -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/21/2006 11:36:33 AM)

One of these days I really want to go to a public play space and see one of those crosses used.  I'm curious.  




PONYSEEKER -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/21/2006 11:57:07 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aine

One of these days I really want to go to a public play space and see one of those crosses used.  I'm curious.  


But they are so easy to build you should just get one and try it.




Aine -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/21/2006 12:08:02 PM)

Would rather kick the tires before I buy the car, get my drift?




whisperedsighs -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/21/2006 12:19:47 PM)

quote:

 Side note...do you think anyone actually reads our posts here when we flirt or do they just skim right over?
We could probably get away with writing really fun things and no one would know. 


I would know!  I am the one who watches all!  Mind if I flirt too?  Being a voyeaur can get pretty lonely!




gooddogbenji -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/21/2006 12:53:26 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aine

Would rather kick the tires before I buy the car, get my drift?


So I can get some casual play out of you if I promise to become a no limits slave?

Yours,


benji




Bearlee -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/21/2006 1:00:02 PM)

 
Hey...I think public dungeons are WONDERFUL places to learn stuff.  Go...and talk to the Dungeon Master on duty.  After I went a time or two, I worked up the courage to ask for a sort of 'show & tell' by an experienced Dominant (under the watchful eyes of the DM).  It was great!




Taik -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/21/2006 2:31:46 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

Hahahahahaha...silly dog. You don't actually believe us when we say it doesn't?

Side note...do you think anyone actually reads our posts here when we flirt or do they just skim right over?
We could probably get away with writing really fun things and no one would know.



I do, and it's usually quite funny and amusing. Certainly brightens the day usually.

Taik




thompsonx -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/26/2006 12:55:22 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

quote:

ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

Actually I've found that there is less emotional attachment in bdsm than there is with vanilla. Many in the lifestyle seek play partners (friends with benefits) and would never allow their emotions to be involved when playing with their "toys".


And vanillas never seek friends with benefits (A vanilla term you used, to make it more clear to us what you meant, presumably because it is more common in the vanilla world than in ours)

And if you now tell me that a friend told you this, I will kill one of my fish.

Yours,


benji



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benji:
Are they big enough to cook? [:)]
thompson




Sinergy -> RE: Boo Fucking Hoo (11/26/2006 6:21:19 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

quote:

ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji


I will kill one of my fish.

Yours,


benji


Noooooo.  Don 't do it!  Don't kill the fish!


"Dont eat the green ones, they are not ripe"  Kevin Kline, "A Fish Called Wanda"




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