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RE: having to prove to guys you're a female.. - 11/22/2006 2:10:12 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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ORIGINAL: SamKeithsslave
And before you analyse me and say I shouldnt care what you say about others cos you are not saying it about me and what should I care anyway cos this isnt the 'real' world etc, I'll remind you I dont.

Hmm no I always operate on the premise that people should care deeply about what I say.

Indeed she may just have been venting- you seem to think that when I post my thoughts that I consider them to be absolute and fool proof.  While I certainly believe in what I say strongly, I don't make the mistake of thinking I'm omniscient- and if you really got to know my posts (as I suggested you do awhile ago), that would be pretty obvious.

But IMO someone who
a) gets so angry and upset about a total cyber stranger that they start an entire post about it
b) actually tries to placate the cyber stranger
c) willfully disobeys her master to talk to other male dominants

has got some serious insecurity issues which need to be addressed.

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RE: having to prove to guys you're a female.. - 11/22/2006 2:17:57 PM   
Emperor1956


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Ron:  I want a naked picture of you saying,
"Oh my God, Ron....What a Huge Stud you are!!!!!!!!!!!!"
(Swooning squeal is optional)


See that it is so.


Awww damn.  I replied to this one with the requested picture AND text BEFORE I realized it wasn't addressed to the entire thread.

Ron, I know that you'll be transfixed by that picture...but...uh....maybe you should delete it *GRIN*

Happy T-Giving, and have some Hotdish for me.

E

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RE: having to prove to guys you're a female.. - 11/22/2006 2:32:29 PM   
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1 He called you fake because he wanted to force you to do what he wanted
2 He only wanted to see you so he could masterbate
3 The local group he mentioned don't exist
4 There is no list of guys posing as women
5 You're not on that list
6 He's a B.S'er who wanted you to amuse him cos he's scared of the real world.


i have to agree with HalloweenWhite..  ignore the jerk!  Who is he to demand anything of you?   Reminds of the wankers who say "if you were really a submissive you would....."

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RE: having to prove to guys you're a female.. - 11/22/2006 2:41:05 PM   
SamKeithsslave


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

quote:

ORIGINAL: SamKeithsslave
And before you analyse me and say I shouldnt care what you say about others cos you are not saying it about me and what should I care anyway cos this isnt the 'real' world etc, I'll remind you I dont.

Hmm no I always operate on the premise that people should care deeply about what I say.

Yes, Ive noticed  

Indeed she may just have been venting- you seem to think that when I post my thoughts that I consider them to be absolute and fool proof.  While I certainly believe in what I say strongly, I don't make the mistake of thinking I'm omniscient- and if you really got to know my posts (as I suggested you do awhile ago), that would be pretty obvious.

Is that why you again said this? (see below)

But IMO someone who
a) gets so angry and upset about a total cyber stranger that they start an entire post about it
b) actually tries to placate the cyber stranger
c) willfully disobeys her master to talk to other male dominants

has got some serious insecurity issues which need to be addressed.

This certainly sounds to me as if your pretty sure of yourself and think you opinion is "absolute and fool proof" -  ahh well..............


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RE: having to prove to guys you're a female.. - 11/22/2006 2:48:57 PM   
LadySeraphina


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ORIGINAL: QuietDom
I felt that the best possible proof that the person behind the account was really the girl in the photo would be another shot of her, fully clothed, engaged in some ordinary activity. My reasoning is that a couple of 12-year-old boys can create a fake profile, using any old photo of some model from off the web, but they wouldn't have an ordinary, non-professional photo of the same girl, while the real person herself would have lots of them.

'She' never wrote back, but the profile disappeared in very short order, so the question remains unresolved. Does anyone really think I was overly rude in asking for another photo in the stated circumstances?


Personally, I have a great many shots, all edited, virtually all lit properly. I do not have a single 'everyday' photo. Why would I? I take shitty photos unless they are lit properly. Of course, that makes it sound like I have uber-edited photos (which I do) but I actually look exactly like them. It's just a matter of not being as photogenic as I wish I were.

I see your point, but there are plenty of women who won't keep crappy spontaneous pics, so you won't always have luck with that. You can usually tell a genuine person by their willingness to have casual conversation and chit-chat about their lives, rather than 'just' talk about the scene, or cyber play.

Just my two cents.

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RE: having to prove to guys you're a female.. - 11/22/2006 4:16:39 PM   
silverthorn7


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Status: offline 		rubyleu - common sense says that if a total stranger on the web starts demanding anything - you may want to consider it carefully before compliance. You do not know this person, you do not know their motives - and besides, a pussy photo would not prove your gender. It could be any pussy photo. Why cater to morons - even if you are a submissive. Being a sub does not mean you have to be a fool.

Silverthorn.

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RE: having to prove to guys you're a female.. - 11/22/2006 4:25:02 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		I just checked my mail and if you get a message from E and says its his big cock, check my picture, first........I copyrighted that bitch, squeal and all, I am gonna get me some of them Dominatrixes on my admirers list.

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RE: having to prove to guys you're a female.. - 11/22/2006 4:54:43 PM   
SunshineinVA


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Status: offline 		Pffft, lol!!  Total non-issue.  Remind him of his friend Rosie....


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RE: having to prove to guys you're a female.. - 11/22/2006 5:02:25 PM   
LadyHugs


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Status: offline 		Dear rubyleu, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
Lass, the only proof of being a female you need these days, are in certain areas, like sports and the like.
 
That said, I would also be mindful how your picture portrays you, as some women are blessed with masculine traits but, all woman.  So,
it is amazing how a tilt of this or that when taking a camera shot is profound.  I learned a lot watching "Next Top Model."
 
I also have a sense of humor with these individuals asking for a pussy and or ass shot.  I'd get a picture of a tabby cat or a buttocks/rear shot from an ass, donkey, zebra...and send those.  After all, they 'are' your pictures of [insert].  Either they will laugh or they'll go off.  If they go off--they aren't worth the effort, in my personal opinion.
 
Oh for those asking for nude shots, I had a lad do a 'shadow' on the ground and invisible.  Definately nude....nutt'n honey.  [Chuckles]
 
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs

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RE: having to prove to guys you're a female.. - 11/22/2006 5:08:27 PM   
DianeB269


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The block user button is your friend!!!!!!

< Message edited by DianeB269 -- 11/22/2006 5:10:41 PM >

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RE: having to prove to guys you're a female.. - 11/22/2006 5:15:53 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		Ive always asked if theyd prefer one of me, or if I can send them just any old pussy shot.  ASking for proof in a picture is just looking for wank material.  After all, how exactly is it proof? A ull body with face shot, maybe. However, a selected body part proves nothing more about me than my typing does.  I have known preop TVs who had stock pussy shots to send to men who they wanted to meet as women. Did it prove they were women? They werent, yet, though by that Dom's logic I suppose it did...

DV

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RE: having to prove to guys you're a female.. - 11/22/2006 5:16:19 PM   
sophia37


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Status: offline 		This is silly. Anyone could email people pussy shots. Fake pussy shots abound. This is just some hee haw writing you. Move it along sister is all I can say. Lots of fish in that sea.

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RE: having to prove to guys you're a female.. - 11/22/2006 5:18:31 PM   
MysticFireTopaz


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHugs
I also have a sense of humor with these individuals asking for a pussy and or ass shot.  I'd get a picture of a tabby cat or a buttocks/rear shot from an ass, donkey, zebra...and send those.  After all, they 'are' your pictures of [insert].  Either they will laugh or they'll go off.  If they go off--they aren't worth the effort, in my personal opinion.


That's what I do as well.  Many have a sense of humor about it.  If they go off on Me, I just send them some snappy comeback, then block them, LOL.
 
I did have an interesting e-mail from an extremely pushy sub this week, demanding a cam session immediately.  It wasn't because he didn't believe I was Female, but because he claims that photos are deceptive.  I basically told him to get lost.  I don't even own a cam, and am certainly not going to entertain a demand like that in a so-called letter of introduction.  Since I am seeking a real-time relationship, why would it behoove Me to have a phony photo, when the person will see what I look like when W/we meet in person anyway?
 
Lady Topaz

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RE: having to prove to guys you're a female.. - 11/22/2006 5:28:01 PM   
ownedgirlie


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ORIGINAL: rubyleu

Does anyone else get harassed by this? I wish i could post his name, but i dont think im allowed.. I should have listened to my Master and never reply to anyone that is not in our search criteria.. But im weak and i dont like to ignore others who write to me. Disobediant too i guess.


There is a reason your Master gave you that rule.  If you are too weak to obey him, then I think there is a bigger issue to address than some stranger wanting to get his rocks off by a pussy-shot.

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RE: having to prove to guys you're a female.. - 11/22/2006 5:31:16 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		Why not send them a cockshot?  That seems to work pretty good on the female profiles I got on here, after the cockshot I bet I don't get more than 20 wankers a week anymore.

OralBounty4U


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RE: having to prove to guys you're a female.. - 11/22/2006 5:40:09 PM   
unownedredhead


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ORIGINAL: mnottertail
quote:

ORIGINAL: RiotGirl
I've had alot of guys try and "attempt" to get naked pics of me saying one thing or the other.  

I want a naked picture of you saying,
"Oh my God, Ron....What a Huge Stud you are!!!!!!!!!!!!"
(Swooning squeal is optional)
See that it is so.
MasterChaucer


Hello Ron, you have made me smile again.  I know you are a huge stud.  The pic of a girls pussy would indeed prove beyond a shadow of a doubt she had the ability to send some shmuck a picture of a pussy.  would not prove she is a girl.  I think the only thing that proves a girl a girl is......a taste test!!! 

dina


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RE: having to prove to guys you're a female.. - 11/22/2006 5:54:56 PM   
petdave


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Status: offline 		Wow, no pity for the poor guy too hapless to find pictures of random snatch on the Internet without help? Tough crowd. 

Keeping in mind that everyone on the Internet must be assumed to be male (and, depending on what chatrooms you frequent, an FBI agent) until proven otherwise, i'd suggest a reasonably close-in picture (of yourself, not just disembodied goodies) holding a little sign that says "Hi, <domname>" would be a much better choice to the sincere. If you care that much, anyway.

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RE: having to prove to guys you're a female.. - 11/22/2006 6:32:23 PM   
LTRsubNW


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ORIGINAL: rubyleu

i cant believe this.. maybe i should wait to calm down to write this.. but i cant believe this one guy on this site, wouldnt even call him a Dom, asking me for pussy shots as proof im a girl.. He first writes to me asking me where is the 'logic' by me not showing. I replied to him saying collarme dont allow pussy shots. He thens says he can get them by email. Because i refused to do that, he says im a guy!! Says also a local group had a list of guys posing as girls and i was on that list!! 

now i do remember a few months back one guy from NY writing to me saying, if i dont give him his email adress, and cam for him, he will post me as a fake. i laughed it out, but im thinking back now.

This guy says that i could have handled well by giving his my email adress. I CANT BELIEVE THIS!!

Does anyone else get harassed by this? I wish i could post his name, but i dont think im allowed.. I should have listened to my Master and never reply to anyone that is not in our search criteria.. But im weak and i dont like to ignore others who write to me. Disobediant too i guess.



I'm sorry but, I will need pussy shots from you to prove you're a girl as well.

(Hey...the world's changed...live with it).

Now that I think about it....an ongoing, twice daily, 35 minute cam conversation...and...some cash.

(Cash has always been highly effective for me).

< Message edited by LTRsubNW -- 11/22/2006 6:34:35 PM >

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RE: having to prove to guys you're a female.. - 11/22/2006 6:38:45 PM   
Sinergy


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ORIGINAL: rubyleu

thats my problem, i let things get to me..




"Either you are in control of yourself, or somebody else is."  Peyton Quinn

My question to you is why are you letting some cyber goon alter your emotional state?

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RE: having to prove to guys you're a female.. - 11/22/2006 6:42:00 PM   
Sinergy


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ORIGINAL: unownedredhead

Hello Ron, you have made me smile again.  I know you are a huge stud.  The pic of a girls pussy would indeed prove beyond a shadow of a doubt she had the ability to send some shmuck a picture of a pussy.  would not prove she is a girl.  I think the only thing that proves a girl a girl is......a taste test!!! 

dina



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