losttreasure
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Joined: 12/17/2005 Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: KatyLied Some people need to believe that the lifestyle and those who inhabit it are special. And that being part of the lifestyle makes them somehow, more special. I think it's funny to hold those thoughts. And I find it amusing when people expound on it, as if vanilla/non-kink people are somehow lacking because of their lifestyle choice. Okay... logged in as myself now... Katy, I don't think anyone here is saying that being in the lifestyle makes someone better or "special". I agree that as a blanket statement, that is absurd. However... is it so strange that a man who is attracted to submissive women would find submissive women more attractive? Personally, I find dominant men more attractive. On the whole, I think they are sexier, more intelligent, and have a more balanced nature. Because of wiiwd, those things that attract me... those things that compliment my nature, are amplified. Does it mean that I think all dominant men are superior? That they are all sexier, more intelligent and more balanced? Oh, hell no. Nor does it mean that I think "vanilla" men do not possess those qualities, either. But, I think I can safely say that I stand a better chance of finding men who attract me on a lifestyle site, versus taking the chance of just accidentally coming upon one out in the "vanilla" world. *laughs* Well, I did.
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