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RE: how do I get Him to regain His Dominance. - 12/1/2006 12:20:52 AM

katie7

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Thank you all for posting replys with such wonderful advice.

It has been awesome advice. And a very eye opening and rewarding experience putting up my issue for you all to help with.
You have given me back the motivation which probably ( more than likely)contributed to the issue in the first place.
And over the last few days i have been putting some of it into practice.... I have been more mindful of competing my tasks to better standard than normal , More enthusiastic about my excersise programme, our haelthy eating plan... mindful of my submissiveness around Him...kneeling below Him when ever W/we watch movies. i have tried to be more mindful in my enthusiasm and more frequent in my requests to fellate Him.( which i never saw as a problem ) but i want to appear more keen and eager...
I have asked Him if there were any new toys He would like for Christmas. Started waring sexy lingerie while attending Him.
There has been a subtle, but noticeable shift in His demeanor.. ..Then , this morning as He works from home He started commenting and making remarks made about the things He'd like to do to me when W/we next have some time to ourselves
so here's hoping it will continue and thank you so much for your help.

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RE: how do I get Him to regain His Dominence. - 12/3/2006 9:31:38 AM

katie7

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just to let you all know that I had the most beautiful intense evening on saturday night,thanks to your help I have a beautiful sore rear ass legs feet stomach breasts yesshmmmmmmmm!!!thank you.... thank you...

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RE: how do I get Him to regain His Dominence. - 12/3/2006 10:52:24 AM

Petruchio

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As a dom, I suggest you tell him your needs.

And Emerald, for those of us who have a strong chivalrous background, it helps to know that punishment gives you pleasure.

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RE: how do I get Him to regain His Dominence. - 12/3/2006 12:15:25 PM

servussemper

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My Master used these exact words on me, "If you need something done, or if you have something to say be blunt about it, don't hint, as I am stupid I am a man, and I simply do not understand what women mean when they don't straight say it."

I am currently in your position also, and have learned a lot from reading the board, last week though I finally just spoke to my Master and sat down with him and he understood everything. I like you am a single mom of a three year old and well it's a hard job.

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