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RE: Needing your Help - 12/2/2006 4:36:06 AM   
SamKeithsslave


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ORIGINAL: eyesopened

i am absolutely attracted to bikers, long hair and hairy chests and i would have written back in a heartbeat had i been contacted *grin* 

Sir, i wouldn't have removed the bike pics, if that's what You are into then wouldn't You want to find someone who appreicates Your interests?  i have said before that i don't think a profile needs to be a full-disclosure statement but it should reflect what is important to You.


I am with you, if I were not already owed and fitted his ideal partner attributes and got an email I would have replied immediately also. Bikers are almost as yummy - oh ok they ARE as yummy as a man in uniform

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RE: Needing your Help - 12/2/2006 5:03:04 AM   
RedSavageSlave


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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

BTW, I am sooooo glad I did not judge you by one tiny photo of you in the "squashy", and instead relied on the kilt photo to guide me in the determination of your Domly quotient....Big Smiles Daddy!


Ok...all this talk of Synergy's pics made me have to go take a look...and while I think he looks "cute" in the kilted photo..personally, I was more impressed with the face close up by the water from the waist up LOL (nekkid face shots turn me on)

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RE: Needing your Help - 12/2/2006 5:50:16 AM   
daddysliloneds


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Status: offline 		you want the truth or a lie? 

being one of the girls that you contacted, not here, but on another site, i have to tell you that, no matter if a woman is looking for a one night stand or a long term partner, starting an initial contact e-mail addressing the person as 'slut' lacks class, but i already told you that in my reply to you;  perhaps others don't  want to waste their time even giving you that much.

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RE: Needing your Help - 12/2/2006 5:59:01 AM   
SamKeithsslave


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ORIGINAL: daddysliloneds

you want the truth or a lie? 

being one of the girls that you contacted, not here, but on another site, i have to tell you that, no matter if a woman is looking for a one night stand or a long term partner, starting an initial contact e-mail addressing the person as 'slut' lacks class, but i already told you that in my reply to you;  perhaps others don't  want to waste their time even giving you that much.


Ahhhh.............. well that answers the question I asked initially - ie "what did you say in your email?".
I love being called a slut, whore, bitch etc, but ONLY for my Master and usually only in the bedroom. Its not something he would have called me on our first communication.

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RE: Needing your Help - 12/2/2006 7:00:59 AM   
wandersalone


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Status: offline 		Yours is a question asked commonly, for example, this is a link to pretty much the same question being asked on the Ask a mistress forum - http://www.collarchat.com/m_707048/tm.htm

My own reason for not replying to first emails can include the following:
It goes into my bulk folder
One liners
Questions such as 'what's up?' (how do you answer that question?)
They haven't read my profile
They have read my profile and clearly have nothing in common with  me
Only looking for online
Married/attached
Significant difference in our ages
They are specifically looking for a white woman (don't laugh, guys have emailed me before stating this - maybe they thought I just had a really good tan!)
They address me as slut/whore/bitch in the introductory email
They order me to address them as master/god/his highness from the start
They order me to reply, add them to a chat program or do their housework
They send a naked photo
Their hard limit is Robbie Williams!

Wow, and I have come up with this list in only minutes....   as you can see, there can be a million reasons why a person does not email you back.  Don't fret over the people who do not reply, chances are they are not what you are looking for.


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RE: Needing your Help - 12/2/2006 7:08:14 AM   
juliaoceania


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ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69

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ORIGINAL: eyesopened
i am absolutely attracted to bikers,


Some just do not like bikers no matter how nice they really are due to stereotypes...shame

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By that logic you stereotype men and dislike them because you are straight? You can not be attracted to a certain thing and not dislike people that are a certain way...I mean I like elderly people over 100 and love talking to them, but I am not attracted to them... some women are not attracted to facial hair.

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RE: Needing your Help - 12/2/2006 7:23:14 AM   
KatyLied


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starting an initial contact e-mail addressing the person as 'slut' lacks class


This explains a lot.


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RE: Needing your Help - 12/2/2006 7:45:28 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		This type of thing has always annoyed me---

First letter out of the chute, the guy has  already started half coming and the girl  has  just been made aware of the fact  (or not) that the guy exists.

The I am wanting some filthy rotten disgusting sex with you thing is already implied in your talking to them in the first place, no need to press on with the issue. 

The I'm a nasty bastard shit has to be done in some context or it don't make sense, see?

By example; I send  a  letter to some  girl on this site and say, "If your mother could see you now"........Well even the brightest one is gonna  say. "WTF?".......

Now if she is smoking me like a benson and hedges 101 with 99 millimeters left to go, like she is on death row with the footsteps coming down the hall and I say,
"If your mother could see you now"  then she is gonna think about that sexually; and get really hot, because it is in context, understand?

Just tryin' to help,
Ron


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RE: Needing your Help - 12/2/2006 8:03:18 AM   
KatyLied


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I think that having a number on the site is fine when it is viewed as kind of a cool novelty. Beyond that, I don't see that it really means much.


Please don't call me slut until you've gotten to know me better.  


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RE: Needing your Help - 12/2/2006 8:43:08 AM   
juliaoceania


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quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

quote:

starting an initial contact e-mail addressing the person as 'slut' lacks class


This explains a lot.



Yes, everyone knows that when you call a woman you do not know "slut" it should be followed by "get on your knees".

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RE: Needing your Help - 12/2/2006 9:03:27 AM   
Sinergy


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ORIGINAL: wandersalone

Questions such as 'what's up?' (how do you answer that question?)



There are various ways to answer this question.

"Up is opposite of what up is in Australia, or vice versa"

"From a physics perspective, up is the direction 180 degrees from the way gravity pulls towards the center of mass."

"Up is the second key word in the sentence "How does a person completely fuck up their attempt to contact a stranger by using a short one line question."

"Up is the directions bubbles flow when you are drowning in your attempt to start a conversation with me."

I could go on...

Sinergy



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RE: Needing your Help - 12/2/2006 9:05:19 AM   
Sinergy


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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

quote:

starting an initial contact e-mail addressing the person as 'slut' lacks class


This explains a lot.



Yes, everyone knows that when you call a woman you do not know "slut" it should be followed by "get on your knees".


I apologize for strumpet's misstatement.

The complete sentence which should be used in such situations is...

"On your knees, slut, and smile like a doughnut"

If any words are better suited to dropping a complete stranger into a puddle of sumbissive goo, I have not heard them.

Just me, and yes, I am wrong.

Sinergy

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RE: Needing your Help - 12/2/2006 10:00:34 AM   
KatyLied


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I apologize for strumpet's misstatement.


Thank you.  

I think it should be on "get on your knees, cunt."


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RE: Needing your Help - 12/2/2006 10:45:46 AM   
alongrider


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Status: offline 		I do remember you,but I do not remember calling you a slut right out of the box.IF I did it was probably because your profile stated that you liked being degraded.BUT I still don't think I would do that.Again if I did it must have been an aberration.

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RE: Needing your Help - 12/2/2006 10:51:48 AM   
wandersalone


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Status: offline 		Ah thankyou so much for the examples re how to answer what is obviously a very complex question.

So Sinergy, what's up?

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RE: Needing your Help - 12/2/2006 8:18:17 PM   
timeoutgurlie


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Status: offline 		I only made it through the first page, so sorry if this has been said.

To me, asking for advice on your profile is utterly counterproductive.  This is what YOU have to say about yourself, why ask what may get you more replies?  Will you really be satisfied even if you are told step-by-step how to make a profile women will reply to 100% of the time?  Would it be satisfying to have replies to a profile that wasn't genuine and sincere in representing YOU?

I've never searched for anyone online, so I can't relate or sympathize with how difficult it can be, though I can somewhat imagine, but irl I know exactly how to manipulate a situation and land any man I want, I can assess him and know what it would take to captivate him, but do I?  Not any more, no.  In my very early teens of course I did, it was for fun, but I've matured past that for quite some time.  I can tell you why I did, because it's not at all fulfilling to gain someone's affection/interest through false pretenses.  It's hollow, empty, and devoid of meaning.

If you're truly seeking 'the one', be YOURSELF, even if that means you go long spurts without a single reply, because otherwise you'll find what you get is replies that are woth nothing. Best luck

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RE: Needing your Help - 12/2/2006 10:05:02 PM   
theRose4U


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ORIGINAL: alongrider

RedSavageSlave,

I understand what you say.I AM prepared for the brutal truth and do not argue with advice given.It is just that advice and opinions,And we all know about opinions don't we?lol


Opinions are like assholes, everyone's got one. Reality is that finding what you seek is about marketing and proper packaging as much as compatibility. Needle in a haystack is hard enough. Saying that needle has to be under 5', 95#, blonde with a fascination for suspension and knife play that lives within a 25 mile radius umm yeah...good luck with that.

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