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servussemper -> RE: Ignorance (12/3/2006 8:08:06 PM)
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It seems coming here was a mistake and if I had a choice hours ago I would of had the moderators delete this thread before it turned into a flaming thread of petty insults directed in to many directions to count. However, obviously it wasn't so after hours of watching post after post be posted I decided to get back to stating what my original issue was since obviously few understood it to begin with.
I didn't let "anyone" ruin my afternoon, but yes this person did put a thorn in my side by showing me that it is very obvious that few people have any respect for anyone in this day-and-age here or in person. My original post was referring to his opening message, I found it offensive where had my Real time Master of over two years said that to me it would of not been anything to me, but a strange man that does not know me from Adam, yes it did bother me a bit to know that people here think that just because subs/slaves are here we are just here to be taken advantage of or used.
My biggest issue being the fact that my profile is very specific and he did not read it. Now, I don't know how everyone else is, but before I go to send an email off to someone I don't know I usually read almost their entire profile to make sure that something that I say does not offend them or otherwise discourage them from writing back. Mostly because not only do I not want to come off as someone who is just trolling for people, but I want them to make sure and know that yes, I took the time to read their profile and I respected them enough to at least find out if we had common interests. If you can't do that why waste your time? It's pointless.
Maybe I was out of line slightly by repeatedly coming back at him with my posts but I did not let his words send me into a state of swearing, cussing, or otherwise belittling of him. I at least gave him that much respect as I would expect from anyone in my position. I chose my place in life and know that what happens on here reflects my real time Master and that, yes he will find out about it and if I do something that he finds isn't approved I will be punished. Do I believe I was wrong in allowing myself to continue to banter back and forth with this guy? Yes I was wrong, I should of never replied at all and should of ignored him off the bat but I made a mistake, people are people they do make those and unfortunatly I'm flesh and blood like everyone else.
Now in regards to the GG situation, he is a friend, he has no control over me on the internet or off. I role play with him in other realms that are not CM, and that is all and speak to him on MSN. He is just that though a friend. What he has done in the chatrooms and on this board is not for me to judge, but I will say that I don't think it is right for anyone to disrespect anyone in their own home. I myself am blind so I understand the coloring issue of text and understand that reading certain colors is impossible. But no he is not my Master he is a friend and that is that.
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"Not only is his grammar great, he's also doing a good job of wasting her time, being a troll, and otherwise an idiot.
I just got a little BS-potential alarm.
He's obviously not being taken seriously. So, he creates a new profile, pretends to be a girl (About the same intelligence) and post the OP, then agrees with himself, and debates. "
As for the gender bender thing, I do not have a penis and would gladly verify that if my Master allowed me to. Thank you Master Blackhaven for also verifying I do not have a penis as I was beginning to worry that possibly something grew while I was sleeping, and well I am sure my Master would of told me about that come morning. So no, I am not a dude, I am not someone just looking for attention, and yah, sorry nope...no cock here.
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"To the OP: Answering once is to get rid of them. Bantering back and forth is feeding their desire, that is probably what they were looking for. Usually, you can prettymuch tel who has and hasnt read your profile. Once you tell them to take a read, if they are still being stupid, just block. Arguing doesnt do anything, since tey are starting ost of the time to see if tey get a rise out of you... which they did.
DV "
Thank you Mistress
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"WHAT???? You''ve known her a whole 2 weeks, and already you help keep her in line? How long has she known her owner? A month?
Wow. Cyber at its best. "
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"I wish I could start to believe that but unfortunately I think that it's probably alot closer to say that we have a naive OP who is afloat in a world that she doesn't understand or have the life skills to deal with being guided by a "real life Master" who has her convinced that she needs to bow to someone online for some additional "training" and just to be on the safe side, she must have some clueless wonder who has a God complex incorporated into the mix to "keep her in line" when he's too busy to do it himself....because Lord knows that is the way that real submissives and adults do it. Now go take two aspirins and call me in the morning.
< Message edited by mistoferin -- 12/3/2006 7:04:28 PM >"
Not that I have to justify this to any of you but my Master has owned me real time over two years. The dynamic of our relationship is none of your business, and the training that we are seeking someone to help with is because we live in a small backwoods town that we can not do the things that we want to allow me to grow as a submissive or that we would be able to in a larger area.
Just for your information mist my Master does not have the time to be here everyday that he wants to be due to the fact he works 60 + hours a week or more and his hours range all over the place. So before you go commenting on other peoples "abilities" to train their submissives or their ability to Master perhaps you should realize that their life may not be as lenient for time as yours. When you consider in the fact of children, work, doctors, multiple roomates, and many other hinderances that certain relationships have to take into consideration.
Also, just to make a quick point thank you to everyone else that responded to my original questions after wading through the BS I think I might of actually got a few straight answers.
Though I am still trying to figure out why and where my post got highjacked as I wasn't looking for a pat on the head, or a you did a crap job I was just stating a opinion and you know opinions are like assholes everyone has one and everyone uses it.
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