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slave/rewards... - 12/3/2006 8:04:04 PM   
missjan


Posts: 123
Joined: 7/12/2006
Status: offline 		Good Evening,
I understand being submissive,
I am trying to understand being a slave.
What is your reward?
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RE: slave/rewards... - 12/3/2006 8:06:17 PM   
ownedgirlie


Posts: 9184
Joined: 2/5/2006
Status: offline 		My reward is I get to live as I was meant to live, which is true to myself.

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RE: slave/rewards... - 12/3/2006 8:06:24 PM   
Kalira


Posts: 954
Joined: 10/9/2006
From: Fort Wayne Indiana
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quote:

ORIGINAL: missjan

Good Evening,
I understand being submissive,
I am trying to understand being a slave.
What is your reward?


Service to Master.


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Facilius Per Partes In Cognitionem Totius Adducimur
We are more easily led part by part to an understanding of the whole.
Seneca

Damnant Quod Non Intellegunt

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RE: slave/rewards... - 12/3/2006 8:07:35 PM   
ownedgirlie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kalira
Service to Master.


No kidding, eh?  Knowing how content he is just rocks my world :)

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RE: slave/rewards... - 12/3/2006 8:08:57 PM   
DiurnalVampire


Posts: 8125
Joined: 1/19/2006
From: Nashville, TN
Status: offline 		Angel's reward for being a slave is knowing that he is cherished for his sacrifices to me.  He knows that he is important to me, and that I own him becasue I chose him above others.

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I will be your Dominate if you will be my submit - Fox

Snarko Ergo Sum
If you cannot change your mind, how are you so sure you still have one? -proverb

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VampiresLair

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RE: slave/rewards... - 12/3/2006 8:25:11 PM   
timeoutgurlie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

Angel's reward for being a slave is knowing that he is cherished for his sacrifices to me.  He knows that he is important to me, and that I own him becasue I chose him above others.


I don't feel 100% there quite yet with my partner, but this is the goal we're striving for, very sweet to read.

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RE: slave/rewards... - 12/3/2006 8:30:01 PM   
LaMspeach


Posts: 794
Joined: 12/4/2004
From: Philadelphia area, PA
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quote:

ORIGINAL: missjan
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What is your reward?



The comfort I feel in being owned. The security I fell in getting to be myself with the only person in the whole world that took the time to know the true me. The happiness I find kneeling at his feet and look up knowing I am cared for.

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"Only when the year has grown cold does one know that the pine and cypress are the last to wither"



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RE: slave/rewards... - 12/3/2006 9:47:29 PM   
BitaTruble


Posts: 9779
Joined: 1/12/2006
From: Texas
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quote:

ORIGINAL: missjan

Good Evening,
I understand being submissive,
I am trying to understand being a slave.
What is your reward?



I don't quite get this question. (Second question today that I'm just not 'seeing'.) I'm not rewarded for being a slave just as I'm not rewarded for being a woman or having brown hair. Being a slave feeds my beast .. if I don't feed my beast, I starve. I don't see getting nourishment which I require to sustain my very existance as a reward. I think of rewards as 'extras' .. things which go above and beyond the necessities for survival.

Celeste - who will have ownedgirlie 'splain this one to her later

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Rock, paper, scissors."

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RE: slave/rewards... - 12/4/2006 12:16:06 AM   
MmakeMme


Posts: 682
Joined: 7/29/2006
From: NC
Status: offline 		Being a submissive or a slave is not about "What am I going to get?" but rather "What do I have to give?" That deep-down total surrender is the reward.

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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions. ~~ Dalai Lama

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RE: slave/rewards... - 12/4/2006 12:30:21 AM   
MagiksSlave


Posts: 2768
Joined: 9/11/2006
Status: offline 		happyness
for the first time in my life to experiance happyness through searving Master as I was ment to. Beeing used as I was ment to be.

Magik's slave

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If you’re going through hell keep on moving
don't slow down
if you’re scared dont show it
you might get out
before the devil even knows your there.


-Rodney Atkins-



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RE: slave/rewards... - 12/4/2006 12:59:32 AM   
ownedgirlie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

quote:

ORIGINAL: missjan

Good Evening,
I understand being submissive,
I am trying to understand being a slave.
What is your reward?



I don't quite get this question. (Second question today that I'm just not 'seeing'.) I'm not rewarded for being a slave just as I'm not rewarded for being a woman or having brown hair. Being a slave feeds my beast .. if I don't feed my beast, I starve. I don't see getting nourishment which I require to sustain my very existance as a reward. I think of rewards as 'extras' .. things which go above and beyond the necessities for survival.

Celeste - who will have ownedgirlie 'splain this one to her later


No worries,  I'll fill you in

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RE: slave/rewards... - 12/4/2006 1:49:22 AM   
eyesopened


Posts: 2798
Joined: 6/12/2006
From: Tampa, FL
Status: offline 		Having never been owned my perception may be off but i see submissive v slave much the same as the difference between buying or renting your house.  There are different levels of committment and responsibility.

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No one is honored for what they've received. Honor is the reward for what has been given.

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RE: slave/rewards... - 12/4/2006 5:03:03 AM   
AquaticSub


Posts: 14867
Joined: 12/27/2005
Status: offline 		To make a bad joke: "It is not what your master can do for you, but what you can do for your master!"

Seriously though, my reward is simple. A pleased look and two words: "Good girl". That's all I need. I feel warm and cozy inside, with fluttering butterflies.

Edited to add: It's early in the morning and I'm sick. Sorry... I thought this was directed at both subs and slaves.

< Message edited by AquaticSub -- 12/4/2006 5:49:36 AM >

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RE: slave/rewards... - 12/4/2006 5:46:30 AM   
Celeste43


Posts: 3066
Joined: 2/4/2006
From: NYS
Status: offline 		Although we identify as D/s, this is simple. The reward for belonging to him is that I get to belong to him. I need this, thus by getting it I am fulfilling a need. The fact that our needs match is where compatibility comes in.

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RE: slave/rewards... - 12/4/2006 7:00:37 AM   
Elegant


Posts: 1024
Joined: 3/15/2005
Status: offline 		Personal fullfillment as a person.

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Elegant
~Slave To Master Archer

http://www.FantasiesInLeather.com

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RE: slave/rewards... - 12/4/2006 7:08:31 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie
My reward is I get to live as I was meant to live, which is true to myself.

Ditto.  One can only hope that we all give this reward to ourselves.

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"Sometimes my whore logic gets all fuzzy"- Californication

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RE: slave/rewards... - 12/4/2006 10:20:40 AM   
pinkkeith


Posts: 605
Joined: 11/26/2006
From: Illinois
Status: offline 		Slave and submissive will mean different things to different people.

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RE: slave/rewards... - 12/4/2006 10:52:18 AM   
sweetnurseBBW


Posts: 2464
Joined: 1/26/2006
From: North Carolina
Status: offline 		In Our definition my pleasure comes from putting his needs before mine. Rewards are things like me having another woman to be with me or things like that. Rewards can also be non-sexual things.  Depends on the relationship, it is just not because one is a slave or submissive.

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RE: slave/rewards... - 12/4/2006 11:45:32 AM   
impetuousone


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Joined: 11/27/2006
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MmakeMme

"That deep-down total surrender is the reward."


Absolutely!


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RE: slave/rewards... - 12/4/2006 12:17:38 PM   
MasterFireMaam


Posts: 5587
Joined: 3/1/2006
From: Charleston, WV
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: missjan

Good Evening,
I understand being submissive,
I am trying to understand being a slave.
What is your reward?



This might help. It's not necessarily true for everyone, but I've found that it's true for most slaves I know.

Heart of slave

Master Fire


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