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RE: slave/rewards... - 12/4/2006 2:31:34 PM   
shadevarr


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Status: offline 		MasterFire, that is a wonderful link. Thank you.

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RE: slave/rewards... - 12/4/2006 4:06:37 PM   
Sissypinky


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RE: slave/rewards... - 12/5/2006 1:43:01 AM   
eyesopened


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Status: offline 		Thank  Master Fire for the link.  it really helped me to understand myself a little better.  

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RE: slave/rewards... - 12/5/2006 5:47:29 AM   
MmakeMme


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ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

This might help. It's not necessarily true for everyone, but I've found that it's true for most slaves I know.

Heart of slave

Master Fire



Wow, Master Fire. I am not a slave ... ummm ... maybe I am and simply don't identify with that at the moment. ~mulling pondering mulling pondering~ Anyway! That is a most interesting resource. Thanks.

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RE: slave/rewards... - 12/5/2006 6:57:11 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

quote:

ORIGINAL: missjan

Good Evening,
I understand being submissive,
I am trying to understand being a slave.
What is your reward?



This might help. It's not necessarily true for everyone, but I've found that it's true for most slaves I know.

Heart of slave

Master Fire



Yes, Master Fire, Heart of slave put it very well. Coming into this lifestyle is where I first felt some peace in my heart, just knowing there were others like me and for me. Although I have never felt confusion, I have certainly felt that "black hole" in my spirit and after much introspection and reading and listening to others found the word to describe what I am....slave. It was a revelation like no other.

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RE: slave/rewards... - 12/7/2006 9:34:06 AM   
slavemaia


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

quote:

ORIGINAL: missjan

Good Evening,
I understand being submissive,
I am trying to understand being a slave.
What is your reward?



I don't quite get this question. (Second question today that I'm just not 'seeing'.) I'm not rewarded for being a slave just as I'm not rewarded for being a woman or having brown hair. Being a slave feeds my beast .. if I don't feed my beast, I starve. I don't see getting nourishment which I require to sustain my very existance as a reward. I think of rewards as 'extras' .. things which go above and beyond the necessities for survival.

Celeste - who will have ownedgirlie 'splain this one to her later


Glad you said this, Celeste, as i was beginning to get confused (happens easily). It appears the OPs understanding of being submissive and mine are different.  i actually experience being a slave as a blessing, a freedom that i could never find any other way. It's the challenge of being all i'm capable of being and the "reward" - Master - because He takes the time, the attention to see me, to train me into a more beautiful, loving woman. And this woman, that He's helped to grow, kneels at His feet in gratitude.
 
i think too often people are consumed with what they are getting rather than what they are giving. As a slave my focus is on overcoming my own selfishness (a lifetime process) and contributing to the well-being, joy, comfort, pleasure of my Master. Now as a woman who's lived by herself and for herself for many many years, this is not an easy thing. But it is divine when it happens.

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RE: slave/rewards... - 12/7/2006 10:15:07 AM   
missturbation


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Status: offline 		What is your reward?
 
A lollipop now and again.

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RE: slave/rewards... - 12/7/2006 6:25:45 PM   
Daddysredhead


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Status: offline 		My reward is His time and the attention He pays me.  He accepts me just as I am and has encouraged me to explore parts of me that I never wanted to admit were there.  By opening myself up to the possibilities of who I could become, it has given Him a great sense of happiness and satisfaction that He was the one to hold my hand during this time.  With Him holding my hand, I have found that kneeling at His feet is the perfect place for me to be. 

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RE: slave/rewards... - 1/13/2007 1:34:29 PM   
blinkingababy


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RE: slave/rewards... - 1/14/2007 5:25:33 AM   
sklavenhexe


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quote:

ORIGINAL: missjan

Good Evening,
I understand being submissive,
I am trying to understand being a slave.
What is your reward?



first and foremost, she is able to serve and take care of someone and doesn't have to make decisions on how to do it as it is just common knowlege to her and feels good.

feeling heavy steel around her neck that belongs to someone else is a dear reward.

that she is owned, and owned for this slave is part of being loved. if her Master didn't love her he wouldn't own her.

the soft sounds of her Master's breathing next to this girl when she is allowed to share his bed are a reward

a reward to this girl as slave is that her heart is not heavy anymore as it once was when she lived in a non-lifestyle world. she has someone to be there for her; for every single need she has. she might not get all her wants met, but all her needs are met.

she is doing for someone else all the time, and that person is always going to want her doing for him. he chose her to assist him in his life and that is a reward; that she was chosen; that she is wanted because of something she can do that just about anyone else in the world can do but her Master finds her very pleasing and beautiful in how she does it. that is a reward.  

"I love you girl" is a gift; not a reward in this one's opinion.

she is alive again now that she is recollared... she knows full well what it feels like to be a walking dead slave because she died when her first Master died and now she is alive again because she is obedient and collared; that is the greatest reward; to be alive again.

there are so many rewards that its hard to think of them all so she will stop trying before she gets a headache. lol

this girl wishes you well,
malaika

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RE: slave/rewards... - 1/14/2007 8:28:39 PM   
slavemaia


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Status: offline 		The reward is i get to be all of who i am. i don't keep a part of myself hidden any longer, not from me. The reward is i get to serve and give in ways that make my very soul smile.

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slave to love - - Chairman's maia

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RE: slave/rewards... - 1/17/2007 4:55:57 PM   
SlaveSubtoserve


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Status: offline 		so many including incredible peace of mind
feeling you have finally arrived at being what you were always meant to be
intense connection always there with Mistress
euphoria that accompanies being an important part of Her life and pleasing Her
emotional release from the physical releases of trusted bondage and physical submission

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RE: slave/rewards... - 1/17/2007 5:07:29 PM   
KnightofMists


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RE: slave/rewards... - 1/17/2007 5:39:11 PM   
leakylee


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Status: offline 		Just about every reply hit right on it. The article from MFM was really good. The biggest difference I can say is there is no reward for me truly. It was a privilege to be allowed to simply be who and what I am. At the core simple, not entirely simple, but really simple on alot of  me levels.

love and light
Lee

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RE: slave/rewards... - 1/17/2007 6:20:55 PM   
slavegirljoy


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For simply turning control of my life over to a Master, who is a man of integrity, honesty, intelligence, and thoughtfulness, i am given a safe and secure home to live in, where my Master makes all of the decisions for me, including the occasional decision to allow me to decide something and i don't have to worry about where or how i will live in this world.

i have a life that isn't scary and uncertain.  i have a life that has consistency and i never have to worry about what to expect from one day to the next: that my Master is in charge, that He will take care of me and keep me well and protected, what He requires of me and what the consequences are if i don't do what i'm supposed to do. 

i have a life with no pressures from having to worry about what to do or how to live.  my Master takes care of all of that for me.  i get to use my time and mind and energy for the things i am good at, such as, keeping the house clean and neat, preparing and serving tasty and nutritions meals, cleaning and ironing the clothes, pampering my Master, and being a dedicated, loyal and attentive companion to Him.

i think i have the better end of this deal.

slave joy
Owned property of Master David

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RE: slave/rewards... - 1/17/2007 6:44:53 PM   
asubman92808


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Status: offline 		A true submissive/slave doesnt think of the rewards.
He/she simply submits to his/her Mistress/Master.

< Message edited by asubman92808 -- 1/17/2007 6:45:18 PM >

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RE: slave/rewards... - 1/17/2007 6:47:36 PM   
bandit25


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Status: offline 		Please can we stop with the "true" fill in the blank?

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RE: slave/rewards... - 1/17/2007 8:32:22 PM   
darksdesire


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Status: offline 		I get to be who I really am and am loved for it.  I get to serve him. 

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RE: slave/rewards... - 1/18/2007 1:51:52 AM   
KnightofMists


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ORIGINAL: leakylee

Just about every reply hit right on it.


I consider my reply to be one of those that has "hit right on it"

what you don't?

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RE: slave/rewards... - 1/18/2007 6:37:30 AM   
asassylilslave


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ORIGINAL: missjan

Good Evening,
I understand being submissive,
I am trying to understand being a slave.
What is your reward?


Perhaps it is just me; but why would one 'need' a reward for doing something that they want to do?

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