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whisperedsighs -> RE: Fakes (12/10/2006 7:30:13 PM)

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ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

Well, maybe saying a freindly hello is not what they are after, as they are swamped as is, and getting no reaction triggers your "fake" detector.

Or maybe your definition of fake is off.

Or you're after something that only exists in 30% of the population.

Or you don't read the forums to know this is probably close to the 587,968,465,647th time this has been discussed (I'm sure LA will tell us a more precise number)

To sum up what I have said, I have just lost a whackload of respect for you.

Yours,


benji


I am under no obligation to respond to every email I get. 




TxBlkMistress -> RE: Fakes (12/10/2006 7:33:30 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: cuddleheart50

There are alot of male fakes on here too, I think they seek me out.


nah cuddle, I am the human pest strip for those.....LOL




gooddogbenji -> RE: Fakes (12/10/2006 7:34:22 PM)

That's what I'm saying.

I just thought that maybe it was that that set off the OP's fake detector.

Yours,


benji




gooddogbenji -> RE: Fakes (12/10/2006 7:35:56 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Mikal

Writing to me saying "F*ck me whore" is not respectful in my books. Neither is going on in crude detail about various degrading acts that the writer expects me to jump at and worship him for. Especially when these are the first emails sent to me by these people. Ditto for the one that stated that lesbians don't exist - they are just women who need a 'good cock' (whatever that is... one that pops out diamonds???) forced up their @$$.
 
What exacly do you find respectful about these messages? And why do you think I should keep them?
 
*bolded by moi


Don't take my messages so seriously, Mikal.  You know I'm only joking, kinda.

And yes, my cock does pop out diamonds, but only when a girl rubs it.  Do try, you can have all the diamonds that come out.

Yours,


benji

Edited to fix my quoting




whisperedsighs -> RE: Fakes (12/10/2006 7:38:22 PM)

I was agreeing with you!





kitriana -> RE: Fakes (12/10/2006 7:38:34 PM)

Personally, I delete without replying because I don't think my profile could BE anymore cut and dry even when I am looking for something, however, I constantly get tons of emails, the vast majority from people who write the same thing and don't qualify at all. Like now. My profile says I am not looking for any thing outside of friends, yet I get emails such as:

"I am a 43 year old submissive who is married, so discretion is a must. I would love to serve you. I live in Ireland but I can maybe meet you some day. I have cam and will give you my phone number for phone domination if you desire. Please Mistress I have longed to be dominated by someone of your beauty for a long time."

So no, I don't reply. I block that BS and delete it because I don't like illiterate people, and if you can't read the profile on the internet profile based community, you are either selectively illiterate or too into yourself to be a real sub.




WyrdRich -> RE: Fakes (12/10/2006 7:38:36 PM)

      Diamonds?!  Wow!  Mine just shoots pearl necklaces....




TxBlkMistress -> RE: Fakes (12/10/2006 7:38:55 PM)

Maybe since they are new, they are just trying to get their bearings and your emails are too overwhelming for them?  Or maybe since they are new they are not sure what to say....why not back off the freshmeat stuff, and give them time to get adjusted?

just a thought.




TxBlkMistress -> RE: Fakes (12/10/2006 7:41:30 PM)

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ORIGINAL: WyrdRich

     Diamonds?!  Wow!  Mine just shoots pearl necklaces....


The "Rev" would be proud....LOL[sm=biggrin.gif]




gooddogbenji -> RE: Fakes (12/10/2006 7:41:36 PM)

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ORIGINAL: whisperedsighs

I was agreeing with you!


And I with you.

Where's the problem???????

Yours,


benji




whisperedsighs -> RE: Fakes (12/10/2006 7:43:41 PM)

no problem, wanna pick a fight???  *meow*  *pfffthht* 

[8D]




whisperedsighs -> RE: Fakes (12/10/2006 7:45:54 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: TxBlkMistress

Maybe since they are new, they are just trying to get their bearings and your emails are too overwhelming for them?  Or maybe since they are new they are not sure what to say....why not back off the freshmeat stuff, and give them time to get adjusted?

just a thought.


I think this is a pretty accurate assessment.  When I first joined collarme, it was like my mailbox exploded.  I could barely read them fast enough let alone reply.




Mikal -> RE: Fakes (12/10/2006 7:48:31 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji
Don't take my messages so seriously, Mikal.  You know I'm only joking, kinda.

And yes, my cock does pop out diamonds, but only when a girl rubs it.  Do try, you can have all the diamonds that come out.

Yours,


benji

C'm here benji so I can smack your booty and tie you up. THEN we'll see how I can 'rub' you! [sm=evil.gif]




jdtallfem -> RE: Fakes (12/10/2006 7:52:38 PM)

Yes, you might want to try the ones that have been on for a month or two.  The new ones do get hit on the most.  After they've been on awhile then, if YOU'RE "real' you can really make a difference.  I feel like an editor sometimes, reading through the slush pile sometimes.  A kind one, since I do try and respond to everyone, even if it's in the negative.  But I've certainly had my disappointments, sometimes severe, in subs/slaves I had such high hopes in. It happens.  Part of the process.




bettie1959 -> RE: Fakes (12/10/2006 7:53:36 PM)

I think often times people are interested in the lifestyle or have the stirrings but are still unsure of what exactly it is that they want.  It is still unfamiliar and scary.  They create profiles, and poke around a long time before they feel ready to meet up with someone.  Maybe they think they are ready but then chicken out.  It's a big step.
I have been told I was fake when the profile stated that I had a partner and was just here to chat and make friends.  I guess if you cant offer what the other person wants, that person may think you a fake.   




Najakcharmer -> RE: Fakes (12/10/2006 8:42:18 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji
I just thought that maybe it was that that set off the OP's fake detector.


There's been a lot of new profiles lately that set off my "Nigerian scammer" alarms.  I doubt it's that high a percentage of the newbies, but it looks like there's certainly a significant number of them.

I've been having way too much fun with one of them.  Scam-baiting is kind of like the new Internet bloodsport and it's quite amusing.  And as long as he's wasting his time jumping through hoops for our amusement (see the Humor forum for the Nigerian scammer thread), he isn't successfully scamming real people.  By the time we're done with him, he may even be annoyed and humiliated enough to quit bothering folks on CollarMe and go get a real job.  [8D] 

But yeah, there's something to what the OP says.  I'm not talking in a judgemental sense of "oh, she's not a REAL sub because.....".  I'm talking about Nigerian scammers who are lying from the get-go to extract your money.




AquaticSub -> RE: Fakes (12/10/2006 9:30:26 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Powerman40

I got exactly the response I expected. and yes, I love fresh meat.




If you are spamming the new people, what do you expect?




gooddogbenji -> RE: Fakes (12/11/2006 9:16:23 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Mikal
C'm here benji so I can smack your booty and tie you up. THEN we'll see how I can 'rub' you! [sm=evil.gif]


You know what they say about verbal and nonverbal communication, right?  It sounded like a threat, but the words were the opposite.

Kinda like, "If you don't behave, I'll give you chocolate!"

Yours,


benji




Missokyst -> RE: Fakes (12/11/2006 9:56:51 AM)

Umm.... I think those anal beads made a wrong turn somewhere..
Kyst

quote:

ORIGINAL: WyrdRich

     Diamonds?!  Wow!  Mine just shoots pearl necklaces....




gooddogbenji -> RE: Fakes (12/11/2006 9:58:44 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Missokyst

Umm.... I think those anal beads made a wrong turn somewhere..
Kyst



How can it be wrong if it feels so right??????

Yours,


benji




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