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RE: How Far Do You Go With Exhibitionism? - 12/13/2006 10:23:09 AM

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While I was in newyork the friend at the time and I weregoofing off an she swatted me so I swatted her back right and we went around a few times playfully swatting, in front of the attending clerk, the lady just smiled and took it as two best friends goofing about. At one point in the dollar store we called her dom and I asked permission to spank her for her goofy ness and he said yes I may.

I bet a lot that goes on in those Dollar Stores is not represenative of society as a whole.

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RE: How Far Do You Go With Exhibitionism? - 12/13/2006 10:25:31 AM

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ORIGINAL: FelinePersuasion

While I was in newyork the friend at the time and I weregoofing off an she swatted me so I swatted her back right and we went around a few times playfully swatting, in front of the attending clerk, the lady just smiled and took it as two best friends goofing about. At one point in the dollar store we called her dom and I asked permission to spank her for her goofy ness and he said yes I may.

I bet a lot goes on in those Dollar Stores not represenative of society as a whole.

Playful swatting isn't a big deal. Vanillas do that all the time. I get far more concerned about those who feel they have the right to actually flog, spank, fondle and have sex with their partners anywhere they please.

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RE: How Far Do You Go With Exhibitionism? - 12/13/2006 10:29:23 AM

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What if you took a child to the Folsom Street Fair? In public, out in the open, and you can see floggings of naked submissives. We've seen it.

The expected is exactly what you get there. Does any adult not know what they will find when they go there? Would an adult take a child there?

Being outside does not equate to public. I mean I have done lots of kink outside with only those who wanted to be there present and without the possibility of strangers walking up. I would have absolutely no problem with playing at the Folsom Street Fair.

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RE: How Far Do You Go With Exhibitionism? - 12/13/2006 10:41:37 AM

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The other side of the coin is that if a parent takes a child into public, they take responsibility for exposing kids. It's not MY job to decide what your kids can and can't see. You take them in public, you accept what that might mean. that's why parentings not easy.

You can't keep your kids in a closet so as not to risk them seeing two people having sex on a street corner. This is why we have laws. I dont have any references in front of me at the moment, but Im pretty sure that public nudity and or public sexual acts are illegal in most areas, save for maybe nudist colonies or a nude beach, where parents could simply choose to not take their kids.

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RE: How Far Do You Go With Exhibitionism? - 12/13/2006 10:46:05 AM

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In reply to the OP:

Although exhibitionism isnt my thing....(tho it may be someday) I think its ok to be practiced in a kink club or somewhere that it's accepted. I think a person could very easily get their exhibitionist kink on in places that are set up for it.

I dont think exhibitionism should be acceptable in the general public though, because that pulls other people into your kink, without their consent. I guess thats easily argued, but that would be the way I view it. If done in public, you take away the rights of others who may want to walk to the corner deli, or take their toddlers to the park without having to be exposed to kinky or sexual activities. I dont think this should be legal any more than taking a shit off the street curb should be legal.

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RE: How Far Do You Go With Exhibitionism? - 12/13/2006 10:54:02 AM

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oh, I know, but when you're out of state there is something freeing about being able to goof off to minor degree's knowing you'll most likely never have to show up in those places again.* hehe* Like for instance I have to live here deal with people in my neighborhood I would NOT go parading down the road on a leash even if I wouldn't most likely , and I probably wouldn't swatt my friends in the stores* might though never know* be seen, but take me out of state, out of area, hell even just out of town, maybe lol.

Playful swatting isn't a big deal. Vanillas do that all the time. I get far more concerned about those who feel they have the right to actually flog, spank, fondle and have sex with their partners anywhere they please.
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RE: How Far Do You Go With Exhibitionism? - 12/13/2006 10:55:53 AM

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I don't think the problem is whether or not public nudity or sexual activities should be legal- most of us seem to agree on that. The problem comes about when we try to draw the lines- what is legal and what is not? Where? On that issue we have a range of opinions. For example, I have known of mothers who breast feed their own babies, but won't allow others to breast feed in the presence of their older children; and others (not just a few) who freak out when their kids are exposed to a belly button. That's why we came up with the 95% rule- if that many people are satisfied, to heck with the rest- they are the lunatic fringe.

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RE: How Far Do You Go With Exhibitionism? - 12/13/2006 10:57:55 AM

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And I am going to be unpopular for this, if someone did call the cops on people who were fucking or anything else look at me look at me obvious, on a playground or a park in full site of passing adults, I'd be like good for person, the couple in question are getting what they deserve.

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RE: How Far Do You Go With Exhibitionism? - 12/13/2006 10:58:34 AM

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I deleted this because I think Im borderlining on something that might be entering TOS violations.

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RE: How Far Do You Go With Exhibitionism? - 12/13/2006 11:03:07 AM

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I don't think the problem is whether or not public nudity or sexual activities should be legal- most of us seem to agree on that.

I think there was a big disagreement on that. Many thought it was okay, while some didn't. I didn't want anything sprung on an unsuspecting public.

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RE: How Far Do You Go With Exhibitionism? - 12/13/2006 11:08:33 AM

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Would an adult take a child there?

No, but we have seen children in attendance, so adults have done this. Do you agree with their reason?

However, as you say its an "expectation". If you're in a playground at 1:00 a.m. wouldn't your expectation be that there would be no children there?

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RE: How Far Do You Go With Exhibitionism? - 12/13/2006 11:14:57 AM

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The point of this thread is exhibitionism in places where it wasn’t expected and could be easily discovered. I, and a few others, thought this to be wrong because it is forcing something on the public. If we are going to get into whether something is likely or not to be seen, then we have a different argument. I would have no problem with someone fucking chickens at 1 AM on a playground. However, if someone is getting fingered on a playground bench at 1PM, where others are likely to see, I have a problem. Two different arguments, it seems to me.

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RE: How Far Do You Go With Exhibitionism? - 12/13/2006 11:15:52 AM

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Yes, adults have taken their off spring to the folsom fair, I talked to a guy there who had his toddler in tow, he said he kept an eye on the crowd ahead and blocked his son's veiw if he saw something to objectionable.

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RE: How Far Do You Go With Exhibitionism? - 12/13/2006 11:17:02 AM

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Would an adult take a child there?

No, but we have seen children in attendance, so adults have done this. Do you agree with their reason?

Do I agree with taking unmentionables to an event where flogging and BDSM things are going on?
HELL NO, I DON'T AGREE.

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RE: How Far Do You Go With Exhibitionism? - 12/13/2006 11:17:18 AM

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ORIGINAL: ExSteelAgain

The point of this thread is exhibitionism in places where it wasn’t expected and could be easily discovered. I, and a few others, thought this to be wrong because it is forcing something on the public. If we are going to get into whether something is likely or not to be seen, then we have a different argument. I would have no problem with someone fucking chickens at 1 AM on a playground. However, if someone is getting fingered on a playground bench at 1PM, where others are likely to see, I have a problem. Two different arguments, it seems to me.

You're both wrong, since public playgrounds are not open to the public at 1 am. Not in Jersey anyway. :)

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RE: How Far Do You Go With Exhibitionism? - 12/13/2006 12:00:24 PM

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Do I agree with taking unmentionables to an event where flogging and BDSM things are going on?
HELL NO, I DON'T AGREE.

And neither do I and we try to avoid them. However, I respect their right to do so and so must the police who are there in force.

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Marie Too: You're both wrong, since public playgrounds are not open to the public at 1 am. Not in Jersey anyway. :)

That's why I moved! You never know when you'll have a desire one night while strolling by a playground at 1:00 a.m. to take advantage of the 'monkey-bars'!

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RE: How Far Do You Go With Exhibitionism? - 12/13/2006 12:07:15 PM

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ORIGINAL: FelinePersuasion

And I am going to be unpopular for this, if someone did call the cops on people who were fucking or anything else look at me look at me obvious, on a playground or a park in full site of passing adults, I'd be like good for person, the couple in question are getting what they deserve.

I second that.

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RE: How Far Do You Go With Exhibitionism? - 12/13/2006 12:11:17 PM

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Would an adult take a child there?

No, but we have seen children in attendance, so adults have done this. Do you agree with their reason?

However, as you say its an "expectation". If you're in a playground at 1:00 a.m. wouldn't your expectation be that there would be no children there?

Deciding where to take a child where you know there will be adult activity is one thing. You are making a choice as a parent.

While a child probably wouldn't be in a playground at 1 AM it's place that is for children, not adults. While very unlikely it possible that a pair of parents might take a child who couldn't sleep to a playground at night to run off some energy. I feel that one should respect children's spaces as for children. So many young children, particularly girls, are becoming sexual. It's becoming impossible, particularly for low-income parents, to buy clothing for toddlers and middle schoolers that aren't miniture verisons of "Look, I'm a slut!" clothing. Let's try to keep something clean and non-sexual. It takes a village after all.

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RE: How Far Do You Go With Exhibitionism? - 12/13/2006 12:19:49 PM

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Let's try to keep something clean and non-sexual. It takes a village after all.

The issue I have a problem with is your absolute view on kids and sex- aka No Tolerance.

Sex isn't dirty. And denying kids education in THIS area is completely irrational.

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RE: How Far Do You Go With Exhibitionism? - 12/13/2006 12:34:35 PM

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Marie Too: You're both wrong, since public playgrounds are not open to the public at 1 am. Not in Jersey anyway. :)

That's why I moved! You never know when you'll have a desire one night while strolling by a playground at 1:00 a.m. to take advantage of the 'monkey-bars'!

And here I was all set to blame you for the stains on all the park benches in the Jersey area. lol.

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