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RE: It Ain't A Gift - 12/13/2006 7:39:06 PM   
Emperor1956


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crouchingtigress:  and if you think about it....a man that has a submissive woman, is such a happy man, i doubt he really cares all to awfully much what she calls her 'calling'.


You know, she's right?   I'm so fucking mellow these days, I don't care if its a gift or a calling, or whatever *GRIN*

And....vinegar and tomatoes?  Someone's preggers!

E.

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"What's for breakfast? What do you say, Piglet?"
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"It's the same thing," he said.

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RE: It Aint A Gift - 12/13/2006 7:43:02 PM   
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Well your journal tells U/us all about you... "I don't care about marital status or measurements or experience, these are not important to me. I do not promise a lifetime relationship, or any relationship for that matter. Anyone who does is a liar or a fool."

Ms. Lynn



Since you have chosen to post OUT OF CONTEXT from my journal here in fact is the full journal entry. I would say shame on you but you clearly have no shame.



I am beginning to wonder if this is mainly a fantasy for people here and that they are really not looking for a D/s experience or a D/s relationship, just the idea of one. Maybe their vanilla relationships have been lacking and they think they can find happiness here, but the reality is this is something inside you or it is not. You submit because it is who you are and because through your submission you find peace. ( and just as important it makes you hot and gets you off and that aint no sin)We all suffer from fear of the unknown, some take the leap and some stay home, I am looking for someone to take the leap with me. This is suppposed to be exciting and fun, not somber and boring.I do not promise a lifetime relationship, or any relationship for that matter.Anyone who does is a liar or a fool. How can we know until we get to know one another where it will go?

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RE: It Aint A Gift - 12/13/2006 7:43:11 PM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		I was actually sympathetic till I started reading how you respond to other people's comments.

Now I agree with whoever said you need to chill.

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ORIGINAL: Mstr2you

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My thought is that you need to chill.


My thought is you have no thought but thanks for your thought



I should say your attempt at thought.... but than is an attempt at thought in actuality a thought?

I will have to think about this



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RE: It Aint A Gift - 12/13/2006 7:43:21 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

Thank you, Aquatic... 

I was actually taking a rare stance of saying that michaelofGA was being unjustly harrassed by the OP at the beginning of this gloriously unfolding thread.  I didn't think it was necessary that the OP took this tone with him.  (I hardly fancy myself a simpleton either, bless your heart...  thus, line 3 of my signature...) 

I love the use of snarky to describe me at times.  aaahhhhhh.......  some days it takes so little to amuse me...


No worries. I think OP is being out of hand. He set the tone for the replies, regardless of his intent, by being disrespectful of those who chose their to view their submission as a gift. I am a submissive, but I give myself to my dominant.

I'm also rather snarky. If someone annoys me, I prefer to snark it and turn it into a form of amusement. Perhaps that's bitchy of me. Oh well. 

Aqua 

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RE: It Aint A Gift - 12/13/2006 7:45:34 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Mstr2you

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Well your journal tells U/us all about you... "I don't care about marital status or measurements or experience, these are not important to me. I do not promise a lifetime relationship, or any relationship for that matter. Anyone who does is a liar or a fool."

Ms. Lynn



Since you have chosen to post OUT OF CONTEXT from my journal here in fact is the full journal entry. I would say shame on you but you clearly have no shame.



I am beginning to wonder if this is mainly a fantasy for people here and that they are really not looking for a D/s experience or a D/s relationship, just the idea of one. Maybe their vanilla relationships have been lacking and they think they can find happiness here, but the reality is this is something inside you or it is not. You submit because it is who you are and because through your submission you find peace. ( and just as important it makes you hot and gets you off and that aint no sin)We all suffer from fear of the unknown, some take the leap and some stay home, I am looking for someone to take the leap with me. This is suppposed to be exciting and fun, not somber and boring.I do not promise a lifetime relationship, or any relationship for that matter.Anyone who does is a liar or a fool. How can we know until we get to know one another where it will go?



And you say you aren't a "Twue Matash"! After all, anyone who disagrees with you is called all sorts of names and subjected to insults. You are on the path to being the truest of the true.

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RE: It Ain't A Gift - 12/13/2006 7:46:39 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Emperor1956

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crouchingtigress:  and if you think about it....a man that has a submissive woman, is such a happy man, i doubt he really cares all to awfully much what she calls her 'calling'.


You know, she's right?   I'm so fucking mellow these days, I don't care if its a gift or a calling, or whatever *GRIN*

And....vinegar and tomatoes?  Someone's preggers!

E.


Nuuuu! I just had that scare!

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Without my dominance you cannot submit. Without your submission I cannot dominate. You are my equal in this, though our roles are different.-Val

It was ok for him to beat me but then he tried to cuddle me! - Me

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RE: It Ain't A Gift - 12/13/2006 7:46:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		I am telling all you m****f*****s right now, if this turns into a fatgirl thread, someone better tell me ... so I can snag a couple without having to read all this......I am looking for the quick in and out, thingie....no pain, just gain

If this stays below the radar, that's ok, I ain't gonna hold it against anybody.

But if everybody is swapping presents, just remember, it ain't a gift until I say it is a gift.

Mr.  Haines

LOLOLOL, and Merry Christmas and Happy New Year all you good folks at collarme.... I wonder what we will be talking about next year?  No-Limits Salves?  Discuss!!!!





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RE: It Aint A Gift - 12/13/2006 7:47:17 PM   
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michael michael michael you are such an irritant are you not?


so, i'm a brat...and proud of it...


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RE: It Aint A Gift - 12/13/2006 7:50:54 PM   
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Michael, I found you amusing and I've got some chocolate peppermint cake if you want a slice.


gimme gimme gimme




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RE: It Aint A Gift - 12/13/2006 7:51:31 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Emperor1956

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I spent the afternoon with friends, drinking hard liquor and boiling eggs, placing them in this plastic box to violate their natural shape from oval to square. -- catize


You, my dear, may have found the meaning of life here.  I am awed.

E.
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"If life gives you a square egg maker....make square eggs."


OK THIS is what got my first laugh of the thread~

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RE: It Aint A Gift - 12/13/2006 7:51:42 PM   
AquaticSub


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ORIGINAL: Devilslilsister

lol - i wouldnt say imma gift of pestiness cos i'm attention hungry.. more like i'm a snot.  i should take your advice and go bug some one i'm ignoring for attention.  Or call my Dom.. hmmm ::sigh:: which means i have to think and speak.. arg.. i'd rather be a pest to a group of strangers lol.

i've never been much into honey vinegar or vinegar in general.  Sounds good though.. i bet i could find some things to stick it on.  I just like balsamic vinegar as it goes good with my home grown tomatoes and herbs.  i stumbled on it.. havent branched out.... Think its okay to drink/eat vinegar all by itsself?  I'm starting to get curious if i actually need the tomatoes.  What do you usually use with your vinegars?



It's ok to drink vinegar all by itself. I do it all the time actually. I'm weird and love the taste of vinegar. I fill up a shot glass with white or apple vinegar and sip it while watching a movie.

What I generally do is I take a vegatable (normally cucumbers or celery) and let them soak in whatever flavor of vinegar I'm up for at the time (about 15 minutes or less) and then I eat them from the bowl they were soaking in. Quite tasty. I would advise keeping apple cider vinegar around as it is quite cheap and can be used on face blemishs.

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Without my dominance you cannot submit. Without your submission I cannot dominate. You are my equal in this, though our roles are different.-Val

It was ok for him to beat me but then he tried to cuddle me! - Me

Member:Clan of the Scarlet O'Hair

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RE: It Aint A Gift - 12/13/2006 7:53:07 PM   
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Michael, I found you amusing and I've got some chocolate peppermint cake if you want a slice.


gimme gimme gimme





Here you go! Homemade no less, with chocolate buttercream frosting! *Grins and gives him a big slice*

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Without my dominance you cannot submit. Without your submission I cannot dominate. You are my equal in this, though our roles are different.-Val

It was ok for him to beat me but then he tried to cuddle me! - Me

Member:Clan of the Scarlet O'Hair

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RE: It Aint A Gift - 12/13/2006 7:55:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

I'm also rather snarky. If someone annoys me, I prefer to snark it and turn it into a form of amusement. Perhaps that's bitchy of me. Oh well. 



LOL...  me, too

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RE: It Aint A Gift - 12/13/2006 7:56:22 PM   
michaelOfGeorgia


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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

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ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia

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Michael, I found you amusing and I've got some chocolate peppermint cake if you want a slice.


gimme gimme gimme





Here you go! Homemade no less, with chocolate buttercream frosting! *Grins and gives him a big slice*


yummy (devours the entire slice in one bit)


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RE: It Aint A Gift - 12/13/2006 8:02:44 PM   
jdtallfem


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Status: offline 		Heck, I don't know if it's a gift or not.
I do remember in my prodomme days in my teens and twenties when the subbies "gave" me lots of money and toys, lol.  Does that count?

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RE: It Aint A Gift - 12/13/2006 8:03:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Mstr2you

I am beginning to wonder if this is mainly a fantasy for people here and that they are really not looking for a D/s experience or a D/s relationship, just the idea of one. Maybe their vanilla relationships have been lacking and they think they can find happiness here, but the reality is this is something inside you or it is not.



More insults...your contradictions speak so loudly I can't hear what you are saying.


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RE: It Aint A Gift - 12/13/2006 8:06:51 PM   
susie


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ORIGINAL: Mstr2you

Since you have chosen to post OUT OF CONTEXT from my journal here in fact is the full journal entry. I would say shame on you but you clearly have no shame.



I am beginning to wonder if this is mainly a fantasy for people here and that they are really not looking for a D/s experience or a D/s relationship, just the idea of one. Maybe their vanilla relationships have been lacking and they think they can find happiness here, but the reality is this is something inside you or it is not. You submit because it is who you are and because through your submission you find peace. ( and just as important it makes you hot and gets you off and that aint no sin)We all suffer from fear of the unknown, some take the leap and some stay home, I am looking for someone to take the leap with me. This is suppposed to be exciting and fun, not somber and boring.I do not promise a lifetime relationship, or any relationship for that matter.Anyone who does is a liar or a fool. How can we know until we get to know one another where it will go?



Perhaps the reason you are finding it hard to meet people from here is because submissives are bright enough to not only look at a persons profile but to also read other postings that they have made. So much can be learnt about a person from their postings and the way that they respond to others.  

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RE: It Aint A Gift - 12/13/2006 8:16:28 PM   
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How many times do I have to read these words " submission is a gift". Fuck you and your gift. <post #1>
 
I did not tell anyone here to fuck off or chill the fuck out and I don't appreciate being insulted by you or anyone else.

Im done with you <post #36>


 
   No, maybe not fuck off or chill the fuck out .... just fuck you and your gift. Nice. Just the kind of post i'd not expect from a Dominant man, but rather from an immature guy who thinks he's all that and a cheap cup of coffee. How about, when you read the words, submission is a gift, you just skip that post? What does it really matter what another Dom/sub couple call their relationship to you, anyway?  Or is this just your attempt to increase your numbers of posts?  Good plan!

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RE: It Aint A Gift - 12/13/2006 8:18:44 PM   
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*********ANTI-FLAME GUARD FOLLOWING************

The following are the opinions of this sole poster, any and all views, are not to be deemed a tyranical dictate of what is possible. Though this poster believe his words are 100 percent the god spoken truth, he realizes others may wish to deny the wisdom laid forth, and he accepts that fact, as troubling as it may be.  LOL
*********END ANTI-FLAME GUARDING*****************

submission  is not a gift, it's a manifestation of a personality characteristic. Of course you can select who you submit to, but the dominant also has the right to reject your submission. He also can extend his dominance to you which you can reject.

If submission is a gift almost anything can be called a gift. My breathing is a gift to the trees(CO2). My shit is a gift to the little bacteria that feed on it in the sewer. My piss is a gift to the lakes. Well, of course you have to ignore the fact that I must do those things because it's a part of my biology. AND I LIKE DOING THOSE THINGS. Same as a submissive just is submissive, and likes that role. There is a desire to submit, that gives one, pleasure, when allowed to.

I'm not sure how doing something that gives themselves pleasure is a gift to the dominant. The dominant is also required for the submissive to feel pleasure, you can't submit unless you have a dom. The dominant is as necessary as the submissive for the "gift" to work. Try submiting to someone that doesn't want your "gift". I doubt it will have the same effect.

So, if submission is a "gift", then domination is a "gift". Rendering them equal. Because one can't exist without the other. I don't think they are a gift though, just a natural urge of different individuals that gives them pleasure.

But people tend to like to flower up things to make them sound deeper than they are. It really breaks down to, YOU LIKE SUBMITING, AND YOUR DOM LIKES DOMINATING. A gift isn't really required here for that to work.

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RE: It Aint A Gift - 12/13/2006 8:30:26 PM   
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ORIGINAL: susie

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ORIGINAL: Mstr2you

Since you have chosen to post OUT OF CONTEXT from my journal here in fact is the full journal entry. I would say shame on you but you clearly have no shame.



I am beginning to wonder if this is mainly a fantasy for people here and that they are really not looking for a D/s experience or a D/s relationship, just the idea of one. Maybe their vanilla relationships have been lacking and they think they can find happiness here, but the reality is this is something inside you or it is not. You submit because it is who you are and because through your submission you find peace. ( and just as important it makes you hot and gets you off and that aint no sin)We all suffer from fear of the unknown, some take the leap and some stay home, I am looking for someone to take the leap with me. This is suppposed to be exciting and fun, not somber and boring.I do not promise a lifetime relationship, or any relationship for that matter.Anyone who does is a liar or a fool. How can we know until we get to know one another where it will go?



Perhaps the reason you are finding it hard to meet people from here is because submissives are bright enough to not only look at a persons profile but to also read other postings that they have made. So much can be learnt about a person from their postings and the way that they respond to others.  


Actually I have met and become friends with a women I met here quite recently and yes even after she read all my horrible postings. I don't know at this point where it will go but I have hope and I hope she does as well, .

I had forgotten that journal entry was even there with my profile until someone posted it to this board..


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