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YourhandMyAss -> RE: Sir's Unbelievable Request (12/19/2006 12:32:18 PM)

As I consider myself bisexual, but I haven't had any fem partners in oh 4 years. None have presented themself hehe.

Anyway I agree the real issue is that he's insisting on something she's saidisn't ok.




AquaticSub -> RE: Sir's Unbelievable Request (12/19/2006 12:38:26 PM)

I think last time I slept with a woman was three years ago. My current dominant and my ex-finacee both allowed me to sleep with women but I couldn't do it. I'm a one-person girl. I like a little nibble on the side, some kisses and a grope but I can't go farther then that. I want my partner and no one else.

This really makes me wonder. Would he be content with just the photo or would he try to push things further?




MagiksSlave -> RE: Sir's Unbelievable Request (12/19/2006 12:44:03 PM)

What bothers me most is A) how old is she and B) even if she is over the age of 18 did she consent to her sending him his photo. it is NOT cool to involve others in your kink without their consent period and its sick that he is asking her to and offering her more time with him for it.

Magik's slave




heartfeltsub -> RE: Sir's Unbelievable Request (12/19/2006 1:17:08 PM)

Also wanted to add to my previous response that while two separate encounters one with me and then another at a different time with my twin sister (if she were willing, which she would not be) would not be strictly what i would call incestuous. It would however really stir up a lot of competition and insecurity issues. i don't know if a lot of sisters or twins are competitive, but it was just an additional thought to throw into the mix.




akisha -> RE: Sir's Unbelievable Request (12/19/2006 1:19:16 PM)

Just my feeling here but it kinda gives me a  "Bernardo & Hamolka" type vibe here. Might start out with a picture request, then a lets have her over for drinks, then oopps we went to far, kinda thing.

I might be totally off base here, but that's the kind of squeamish feeling i get from reading the OP




AquaticSub -> RE: Sir's Unbelievable Request (12/19/2006 1:38:09 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: akisha

Just my feeling here but it kinda gives me a  "Bernardo & Hamolka" type vibe here. Might start out with a picture request, then a lets have her over for drinks, then oopps we went to far, kinda thing.

I might be totally off base here, but that's the kind of squeamish feeling i get from reading the OP


Someone else mentioned Bernado and Hamolka. Do I want to know or will it scar me?




SusanofO -> RE: Sir's Unbelievable Request (12/19/2006 1:48:47 PM)

Paul Bernardo married Carla Homulka (sp?) who was equally (to me) as twisted as Paul, but in a different way. I saw a tv show about this, and he looks like a boy scout, physically speaking, and was an accoutant by profession - and appeared to be completely "normal", for all intents and purposes, when Carla met him. I thought she looked a bit sleazy (too much eye makeup), but she was very blonde, and young and they "fell in love". When they met, they were fairly young (in their twenties). But anyway -

They had a Dom/sub (or rather, Master/slave) relationship (or so she says) that caused her to allow him to rape (and kill) her little sister. She claims she was "under his spell" and "abused" and "didn't know him, really", etc.

He was a Master with homicidal fantasies who married Carla and things went on from there...she claims she "didn't really know him" until he beat her up on their honeymoon (which is definitely possible) but - she stayed with him and went on to let him kill and rape her little sister, because she was "his slave".
 
He told her he "wanted" her little sister (who was very pretty, but a lot younger. Not a baby, but a teen-ager). She claims she didn't know he wanted to kill her little sister, "just" rape her. Maybe, but still..it's a little weird, don'tcha think?  

One night, they kidnapped her little sister, and he chloroformed her, raped her, and went on to kill her. He says he "only did it because she accidentally woke up and he got scared". Gee, my heart's bleeding for him. Someone make it stop.

Her lawyer used the "battered woman" defense at her trial (they had separate trials) and she got a reduced sentence.

I dunno, maybe it's just me, but I think you gotta "draw the line" somewhere. This all happened in the 1990's. They are both currently in prison (he for life, she for who knows how long)...and their respective families are devastated.  

Of course, this situation is (probably) an anomaly. Many in the M/s world never let things get out of hand like this (or even have fantasies like this. Or, if they do - they realize they could not act on them, of course). But it never hurts to be cautious. The "I want to play with your little sister" request is too weird for me. I mean, I understand the attraction thing, intellectually, but - it's a little too weird for me. 




AquaticSub -> RE: Sir's Unbelievable Request (12/19/2006 1:56:39 PM)

AHHHH!!! I didn't want to know!!!

*Whimpers and pulls a blanket around her*


Edited to add: He does not deserve the title of master. He is sicko.




SusanofO -> RE: Sir's Unbelievable Request (12/19/2006 1:58:49 PM)

Yeah, it's pretty twisted.

- Susan




BlackKnight -> RE: Sir's Unbelievable Request (12/19/2006 2:08:17 PM)

Look ostridge,  Get your head out from the ground and listen up!  These are sick times filled with sick people, and if we don't pay attention This shit will get worse, and we will get railed for it.  Like the heavy metalers, the D&Ders......




AquaticSub -> RE: Sir's Unbelievable Request (12/19/2006 2:11:49 PM)

D&Ders? You'll be attacking the Masquarade next...




MagiksSlave -> RE: Sir's Unbelievable Request (12/19/2006 2:18:41 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

AHHHH!!! I didn't want to know!!!

*Whimpers and pulls a blanket around her*


Edited to add: He does not deserve the title of master. He is sicko.


((crawls under the blanket with Aqua and hides too)) sick n scary

Magik's slave




AquaticSub -> RE: Sir's Unbelievable Request (12/19/2006 2:22:18 PM)

Why... why why why do sick scary people use this lifestyle as an excuse?




daddysliloneds -> RE: Sir's Unbelievable Request (12/19/2006 2:29:16 PM)

sounds more like a manipulating little twit to me than a dom!  common sense should have answered the question for you; perhaps you both need a little help in that area?




MagiksSlave -> RE: Sir's Unbelievable Request (12/19/2006 2:29:17 PM)

conveniance

Magik's slave




justheather -> RE: Sir's Unbelievable Request (12/19/2006 2:42:34 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

quote:

ORIGINAL: akisha

Just my feeling here but it kinda gives me a  "Bernardo & Hamolka" type vibe here. Might start out with a picture request, then a lets have her over for drinks, then oopps we went to far, kinda thing.

I might be totally off base here, but that's the kind of squeamish feeling i get from reading the OP


Someone else mentioned Bernado and Hamolka. Do I want to know or will it scar me?


I just read their story on a crime story website. Apparently, her hard limit was him beating the crap out of her. That's when she went to the police.
I don't think these folks had a D/s relationship, I think they just had a sick relationship. It's easy and convenient for people to put the label on it after-the-fact.




akisha -> RE: Sir's Unbelievable Request (12/19/2006 2:46:24 PM)

Actualy it's way worse then just that. They killed her little sister on Christmas Eve. They didn't kidnap her they killed her in Hamolka's parents basement.She asphyxiated on her own vomit from the drugs they had slipped her. They went on to abduct, rape, torture, murder and dismember 2 teenage girls as well.

You can do a search on them, and there is also a Biography written about what happened.

By the way. Hamolka was released this summer on parole. She recived only 12 years, even though they discouvered she lied on the stand and her laywer " supposedly" helped hide evidence. They had video taped some of the torture of the other two girls and the tapes somehow got lost.

If you are interested in True Crime this is actually a pretty interesting case to read about.




AquaticSub -> RE: Sir's Unbelievable Request (12/19/2006 2:49:02 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: akisha

Actualy it's way worse then just that. They killed her little sister on Christmas Eve. They didn't kidnap her they killed her in Hamolka's parents basement.She asphyxiated on her own vomit from the drugs they had slipped her. They went on to abduct, rape, torture, murder and dismember 2 teenage girls as well.

You can do a search on them, and there is also a Biography written about what happened.

By the way. Hamolka was released this summer on parole. She recived only 12 years, even though they discouvered she lied on the stand and her laywer " supposedly" helped hide evidence.

If you are interested in True Crime this is actually a pretty interesting case to read about.


I really didn't want to know... *whimpers*




SusanofO -> RE: Sir's Unbelievable Request (12/19/2006 2:55:21 PM)

akisha is right: They killed two other girls (I'd forgotten about that part). She's out on parole? That hardly seems fair. But at least she did some time...

- Susan




littleone35 -> RE: Sir's Unbelievable Request (12/19/2006 2:58:00 PM)

I must say i agree with the rest dump this loser brfore things go any further.  I have only older sisters but i would feel the same way if someone asked me for a pic of them

Matt's littleone




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