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his2pet -> RE: I have a submission issue. PLEASE HELP!!! (4/20/2007 3:46:32 PM)

You are young and still learning who you are.  Look deeply into why you feel this way.  Each of us will have our own bad days but we also have our own history that inspires our reactions.  For myself a calming activity would not do.  My history prevented me from being able to exhibit emotion.  When I exhibit these issues it is because I have way too much unresolved emotion and no way to get it out.  I know that a serious whipping helps push me over the edge so I can release these feelings.  I always feel like a million dollars afterwards.  An achy million dollars but, a million dollars just the same, lol.  So look deep and talk with your mistress she may be able to help you identify the cause of your feelings and overcome them.

his2pet



leili -> RE: I have a submission issue. PLEASE HELP!!! (4/20/2007 4:39:48 PM)

well what i meant was keep your mouth shut if you have nothing but angry words, but talk to her about what is bothering you (without angry words) lol!



servilecat -> RE: I have a submission issue. PLEASE HELP!!! (4/20/2007 9:31:19 PM)

It's normal!  Calming exercises and nutrients may help.  I am horribly moody after sugar, allergy meds or too many carbs.

you can count to ten when you get frustrated or She can count to ten on your bottom.....See how that works?

i get frustrated, usually with myself and get as He says "pissy"   Daddy has a not so nice corner i get to sit in bound till it passes or i remember to be calm and think it through.



TexasMaam -> RE: I have a submission issue. PLEASE HELP!!! (4/21/2007 12:31:37 PM)

I think it's pretty common for a sub to feel resistant and unsubmissive from time to time.  You've had a lot of good suggestions posted here: relaxation, meditation, asking for a session for some release, struggling through the resistance to complete your chores/obligations, talking to your Dominant.  All great suggestions.

Here's Mine:
I'm a big believer in redirecting frustrations and aggravations.  Develop a creative hobby, drawing, craft, sewing, gardening, find an active hobby that requires more than sitting and reading or playing a computer game, something that draws on your inner creativity.  When you find yourself aggravated, frustrated or moody go spend some time on your hobby. 

In that world of creativity that you control, you can find the cure for resistance to the world of what another person controls.

TM



MansizeDOM -> RE: I have a submission issue. PLEASE HELP!!! (4/24/2007 6:34:39 PM)

Arastella Sweeheart

You need more training ... Submission also includes eliminating behavior that does not please your domme.. and also assess if rebellious behavior pleases yourself... the process of being conditioned to eliminate unproductive behavior should be a part of your submissive training...You mental nature needs to be in sync with your emotional nature and inner desire..More training to condition your reactions may be helpful...



BDOMsecret -> RE: I have a submission issue. PLEASE HELP!!! (4/25/2007 7:28:08 AM)

Aint that the truth BRNaughtyAngel !!  *hugs and an extra midol*



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