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ShadeDiva -> RE: Most unusual fetish....? (5/23/2004 9:52:21 AM)

Sure it's easy.

Thing is the most easiest things often cost the most of your soul.

The easiest way is IMO nearly NEVER the *right* way to go.

The price of what I'd lose of my humanity, my self respect, my ideals of what a dominant should stand for, what makes a GOOD dominant, is nothing that 600 bucks could ever remotely in any way buy back for me.

My values, ideals, ethics, and morals aside ... the mere fact that by deciding to do something I flat out know is boring and I do not WANT to do means that I am NO longer in control, but that my greed is and through my greed the person FEEDING that greed is the person in control - not me. I wouldn't be dominating that person nor would I be in control, HE would be, by sole virtue that I wouldn't do it unless I was BRIBED to. Which is exactly what that amounts to me. There isn't any power in that exchange, it's a false illusion, it's empty and insubstanstial to my way of thinking, thus, as a dominant who sole interest in domination comes from the POWER in the exchange, there is no POINT for me to do that.

Plus I refuse to allow money to dominate me or decide for me who I will dominate or spend time with, life's too short for that garbage IMO. I *certainly* won't let some dude control me using money he wags in my face like a carrot before the proverbial donkey like most of those types of guys do. "Here ya go Missus Shade, I have yummy cashola, jump through the hoops, jump! Tell me I'm dirty and icky! jump! no? well how about TWO yummy carrots?" Ugh! NO thank you! LOL! Not my style.

I refuse to be *bought*. Which IMO that would be exactly what it was. I'm far too power hungry and arrogant and snooty and bitchy to allow some dude to put a price on my head, my time, or my attention when I personally find no value in it on a personal level.

I don't need the money enough to sell myself in that manner, and when I weigh in the fact that I'm aiding him in keeping him away from what he REALLY wants and needs, then there is an additional karmic evil added into the mix, IMO.

I just can't do it in the end, and I wouldn't want to.

There's no amount of cash on this earth that's worth a part of my soul or heart or to add into a karmic debt, nope, no way.

~ShadeDiva



bladerunner5 -> RE: Most unusual fetish....? (9/2/2005 4:33:44 PM)

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ORIGINAL: UtahGoddess
Anyway.....I enjoy discovering new things. I was just curious as to what is the most unusual fetish/fantasy you have come accross? Have you been surprised lately or challenged to research?



I've got a borderline fetish for white cotton panties - on me, not necessarily on other people. It's part of my Ageplay thing, I imagine.

It's not a fetish, but I have a big thing for dental play. Not actual drilling, but having someone's fingers in my mouth, someone using a rubber-tip or metal probe, brushing my teeth for me, flossing me, that sort of thing. I've never seen a gag or bondage tie that was as effective as my partner wrapping my tongue in gauze and holding on. For me, it's partly about the sensations and partly about the trust involved - I don't invite just anyone to mess around in my mouth.

two more cents from
Bladerunner



NakedOnMyChain -> RE: Most unusual fetish....? (9/2/2005 7:06:50 PM)

Ah. I'd probably have to say the "bread squeezers". I've met one or two of them in my time. They get off from sqeezing bread products. No joke. I met one when I worked briefly at a local grocery store, but I've heard about several others. Hey, whatever makes them happy, I guess. They always paid for what they, ahem... squoze. Oh dear, this is starting to sound like "Clerks" with the guidance counselers.



MsPurrmeow -> RE: Most unusual fetish....? (9/2/2005 10:32:57 PM)

I wish I could come up with something to compete with the "squickier than thou" competition, but I can't. I have certain fetishes that may or may not seem strange to others, but I don't hear of them often.

Furry. (Ok, want to have an argument about whether it's a kink, a fetish, or none of the above, please feel free to open up a new thread.) When I dress for a "Fetish event", or even a play party, there are usually cat ears, cat-eyes, teeth, tail or paws. It's a thing. Not sure if I'm good at putting it into words or not, but if anyone cares to pursue further, I'll try.

Biting. Probably a big part of the above, but could be completely separate, too.

Bathing. Yep, bathing or showering. Very intimate, and very D/s, if done right.

Clean skin and hair. (That sweat/musk thing? I don't get it.)

Geeks. I don't know why, but there it is. (The technical, data-oriented types, usually INTJ's, too.)

Are they unusual? *shrug* but, they are mine, and I don't hear many people talk about them much.

Purr



tade -> RE: Most unusual fetish....? (9/2/2005 11:43:13 PM)

I have a thing for white ankle socks on women. It seems that is a common fetish for gay males, which is odd considering I'm a straight man. At least i THINK I am.. LOL



lustiwench -> RE: Most unusual fetish....? (9/3/2005 4:27:32 AM)

I knew a male sub that had a balloon fetish, but not the kind you may think. He liked to have his scrotum ballooned via an IV drip and saline solution. He actually showed me a couple of websites that sold the equipment to do it and complete instructions on how to do it.

How's that for squik? [:D]



tade -> RE: Most unusual fetish....? (9/3/2005 9:06:36 AM)

I would say that is "squikalicious". To each his own.

Tade



bladerunner5 -> RE: Most unusual fetish....? (9/3/2005 9:14:15 AM)

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ORIGINAL: tade
I have a thing for white ankle socks on women. It seems that is a common fetish for gay males, which is odd considering I'm a straight man. At least i THINK I am.. LOL


I have a thing for white crew (ankle) socks on men too. Knee socks, the long sport kind with the stripes at the top - major turn-off. Black socks - gotta know how and when to wear them or it's a big turn off too. Other colors? Most of the men I know don't know how to pair them up properly with the rest of what they're wearing. But white crew socks go with most anything casual, and they still look good (to me) when the guy is partially or completely undressed too.


Bladerunner



target -> RE: Most unusual fetish....? (9/4/2005 9:24:47 AM)

Hey Estring, try patching that guitar solo through a sound activated tens unit...



MissA -> RE: Most unusual fetish....? (9/4/2005 9:35:51 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: UtahGoddess

Hello everyone :)

I come into contact with a great many people...both Dom/me and sub alike. After 20 years in the lifestyle I thought I had pretty much heard of or come into contact with just about every fetish out there.

However....every once in a while someone will surprise me with something new. [:D] Last week I was approached by someone asking if I was familiar with a "balloon fetish". Well, here was something I had never heard of before! I was surprized to find so much posted about it on the Net!

Anyway.....I enjoy discovering new things. I was just curious as to what is the most unusual fetish/fantasy you have come accross? Have you been surprised lately or challenged to research?

Ms Sandi


Ms Sandi,
We may have met the same person. I talked with someone with a balloon fetish a while back and he was explaining it and saying what he really liked but hadn't found yet was a woman who could blow a balloon up until it popped but he said all the ones he'd met couldn't do it without getting scared. I think the next wierdest one IMOPO is "sploshing" (http://johndowd.blogspot.com/2005/06/sploshing.html) with things like baked beans and dinner entres...I could see maybe candy or cake or chocolate syrup but baked beans? lol

~Ms. A~



sting516 -> RE: Most unusual fetish....? (9/4/2005 2:34:57 PM)

ok...maybe it was mentioned and i missed it...what the hell is pussy golf?



sting516 -> RE: Most unusual fetish....? (9/4/2005 2:40:52 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: lustiwench

I knew a male sub that had a balloon fetish, but not the kind you may think. He liked to have his scrotum ballooned via an IV drip and saline solution. He actually showed me a couple of websites that sold the equipment to do it and complete instructions on how to do it.

How's that for squik? [:D]


Gotta say...it's something i've enjoyed immensely in the past. squick squick



skivvy -> RE: Most unusual fetish....? (9/4/2005 2:50:18 PM)

i've got a foot fetish. while it's not really unusual, it's mostly guys that have them. i don't really know of any other girls who like guys feet too. in fact, it isn't even on the interests list for women on this website. maybe i'm just weird [8|]



kisshou -> RE: Most unusual fetish....? (9/4/2005 3:40:53 PM)

I don't know if it counts as a fetish but I love seeing a man in a white button down shirt.

in cotton,
kisshou ;)



MsSonnetMarwood -> RE: Most unusual fetish....? (9/4/2005 4:57:05 PM)

quote:

Ms Sandi,
We may have met the same person. I talked with someone with a balloon fetish a while back and he was explaining it and saying what he really liked but hadn't found yet was a woman who could blow a balloon up until it popped but he said all the ones he'd met couldn't do it without getting scared. I think the next wierdest one IMOPO is "sploshing" (http://johndowd.blogspot.com/2005/06/sploshing.html) with things like baked beans and dinner entres...I could see maybe candy or cake or chocolate syrup but baked beans? lol

~Ms. A~


Many years ago, I had dinner with a sub that had a balloon fetish. I of course asked him to explain it to me. It had a lot to do with fear, being afraid of the blown up balloons, of them popping, etc. He had purchased jumbo balloons in the past that blew up several feet in diameter and found them very sexy and very scary. He also wanted to be made to hump the balloons.

Ok. So I still don't "get" it LOL

Variety makes the world go around.



OMEGA2WEREWOLF -> RE: Most unusual fetish....? (9/4/2005 5:58:21 PM)

I have a few fetishes, but my fetish for Mary Jane shoes seems to be the rarest. There are many out there with shoe fetishes, but seldom are they turned on by Mary Jane shoes.

Mary Janes, as most know, are the "little girl strap shoes." I require my playmates, male or female, to wear them with lacie ankle or knee socks/stockings, most often with an age play outfit or schoolgirl uniform.

My other fetishes are blood, particularly menstrual blood, female feet, female body hair, leather, masks, accents, and furry outfits.

Brightest blessings to you all and I luff ya.
Omega, instigator of play...aka Daddy Wolf.






wetshoe -> RE: Most unusual fetish....? (9/15/2005 9:31:49 PM)

i thought i had a wierd one. wet and messy shoes, but after reading this thread i feel so normal.

[image]http://www.abusedshoes.com/shoes/bitch-in-high-heels.JPG[/image]



RiotGirl -> RE: Most unusual fetish....? (9/16/2005 8:05:45 AM)

quote:

Sure it's easy.

Thing is the most easiest things often cost the most of your soul.


Funny, i have never heard anyone else "know" that and it can be the darnedest thing to explain, though you did really well. Bravo hon.

quote:

There's no amount of cash on this earth that's worth a part of my soul or heart or to add into a karmic debt, nope, no way.


very true very true.. and usually ppl find out things like this abit too late. When stepping into a situation, one never really thinks about the "unseen consequences" Bravo again. i think its so awesome you wrote this. and Even explained it well!!

As for fetishes....

i always thought the whole "sock" fetish abit wierd... seems like its "normal" tho

i always had a thing for the smell of gasoline. Not that it does anything for me sexually.. just love the smell.

As for WIERD fetishes...

hum.. i've heard of a few

Licking eye balls...
farting on ppl...
the whole vomit thing...

spoke to one guy and he wanted to watch me EAT, specifically cook a lobster and then eat it. While smoking a cigeratte..

had a guy years and years ago who tried sucking on my nose.. ayep.. weirdness.. making out with a guy and all of a sudden their mouth is on your nose and their tongue in wierd places.. ayep.. last time i saw HIM.

oh and the whole bible thumper thing
the fetish with librariers...

ahhh huuuuuuuum





krazysubbiekat -> RE: Most unusual fetish....? (9/16/2005 9:16:39 AM)

I once knew a man who had a desperation fetish. He liked to see a woman needing to pee. He wasn't into showers or anything...just the desperation.



MissA -> RE: Most unusual fetish....? (9/16/2005 11:43:11 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: RiotGirl

As for fetishes....

i always had a thing for the smell of gasoline. Not that it does anything for me sexually.. just love the smell.



I know lots of people (myself included) who like the smell of gasoline. I must say the price has curbed that fetish a bit - a little less enjoyable at $3 a gallon. [&:]

~Ms. A~



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