How Does One Disclipline a Dom?

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MmakeMme -> How Does One Disclipline a Dom? (12/27/2006 6:57:17 AM)
The dynamic in the D/s relationship is such that it gives the D the power to discipline His sub or slave in any way He sees fit. How have you, as a sub or slave, found yourself "disciplining" Him, either overtly or covertly? (And if you are the D or M type, have you found yourself on the receiving end of such "punishment"?) ~chuckle~

hejira92 -> RE: How Does One Disclipline a Dom? (12/27/2006 6:59:32 AM)
You're kidding, right?

Serenityy -> RE: How Does One Disclipline a Dom? (12/27/2006 7:09:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MmakeMme The dynamic in the D/s relationship is such that it gives the D the power to discipline His sub or slave in any way He sees fit. How have you, as a sub or slave, found yourself "disciplining" Him, either overtly or covertly? (And if you are the D or M type, have you found yourself on the receiving end of such "punishment"?) ~chuckle~ Hello mmakemme I would have to question why a submissive/slave would ever find it necessary to discipline their owner?

juliaoceania -> RE: How Does One Disclipline a Dom? (12/27/2006 7:14:08 AM)
No I do not discipline my dom by being manipulative covertly, nor do I seek to gain the upperhand over him in our dynamic overtly. The word "discipline" has many meanings though. If you were to ask a separate question, has he learned something from me? Well I believe he has, because he is not the type of person to keep someone in his life that has nothing to teach him, nothing to offer in wisdom or insight.

RedSavageSlave -> RE: How Does One Disclipline a Dom? (12/27/2006 7:17:14 AM)
It seems like you are asking which subs participate in passive agressive behavior with their doms. I dont think you will find many who will state they do this.

punchingbag4luv -> RE: How Does One Disclipline a Dom? (12/27/2006 7:22:14 AM)
I thought maybe she meant in the context of him doing something that goes against the intial agreement, but then she chuckled at the end so I have no idea now.

Standfast -> RE: How Does One Disclipline a Dom? (12/27/2006 7:35:47 AM)
"One" doesn't discipline a Dom; that job belongs to the Dom himself, before he can undertake to truly discipline anyone else.

onestandingstill -> RE: How Does One Disclipline a Dom? (12/27/2006 7:49:30 AM)
The only punsihment that in my opinion suits a Dom is one that comes from other Doms or self failure. His actions reap the results of his labor, and the seeds he plants produce the good or bad fruits of his efforts. He reaps what he sews. The sub has no way to dicipline a Dom or the authority to do so in my opinion. Her only recourse is to ask for release of her service to him and to move on if she disagrees with the way he leads her. suaznne

drawntothedark -> RE: How Does One Disclipline a Dom? (12/27/2006 7:53:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: onestandingstill The only punsihment that in my opinion suits a Dom is one that comes from other Doms or self failure. His actions reap the results of his labor, and the seeds he plants produce the good or bad fruits of his efforts. He reaps what he sews. The sub has no way to dicipline a Dom or the authority to do so in my opinion. Her only recourse is to ask for release of her service to him and to move on if she disagrees with the way he leads her. suaznne Nicely worded. I was thinking the same thing. As a submissive I have no right or desire to punish a Dom. The only thing I really have is the choice to leave or stay.

MaryT -> RE: How Does One Disclipline a Dom? (12/27/2006 8:17:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: onestandingstill The sub has no way to dicipline a Dom or the authority to do so in my opinion. The easiest way would be to ignore him. That would probably be the worst punishment for a submissive too, but it wouldn't make for a healthy relationship.

Kalira -> RE: How Does One Disclipline a Dom? (12/27/2006 8:53:25 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MmakeMme The dynamic in the D/s relationship is such that it gives the D the power to discipline His sub or slave in any way He sees fit. How have you, as a sub or slave, found yourself "disciplining" Him, either overtly or covertly? (And if you are the D or M type, have you found yourself on the receiving end of such "punishment"?) ~chuckle~ LOL it's not my place to decide on whether or not Master should be disciplined.

MmakeMme -> RE: How Does One Disclipline a Dom? (12/27/2006 9:55:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hejira92 You're kidding, right? ~big grin~ To a degree, yes, although not exactly. Your comment made me laugh to myself. Your sig is delicious.

MmakeMme -> RE: How Does One Disclipline a Dom? (12/27/2006 9:58:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Serenityy Hello mmakemme I would have to question why a submissive/slave would ever find it necessary to discipline their owner? Hello Serenityy. ~smiling~ I haven't an answer to your question although I find your point quite valid.

MmakeMme -> RE: How Does One Disclipline a Dom? (12/27/2006 10:01:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania No I do not discipline my dom by being manipulative covertly, nor do I seek to gain the upperhand over him in our dynamic overtly. The word "discipline" has many meanings though. If you were to ask a separate question, has he learned something from me? Well I believe he has, because he is not the type of person to keep someone in his life that has nothing to teach him, nothing to offer in wisdom or insight. ~smiling~ That is a very beautiful answer, julia.

MmakeMme -> RE: How Does One Disclipline a Dom? (12/27/2006 10:03:38 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RedSavageSlave It seems like you are asking which subs participate in passive agressive behavior with their doms. I dont think you will find many who will state they do this. Nope. I wasn't asking anything in particular, although I can see the propensity into which this thought can be read in the phrasing of the question.

MmakeMme -> RE: How Does One Disclipline a Dom? (12/27/2006 10:04:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: onestandingstill The only punsihment that in my opinion suits a Dom is one that comes from other Doms or self failure. His actions reap the results of his labor, and the seeds he plants produce the good or bad fruits of his efforts. He reaps what he sews. The sub has no way to dicipline a Dom or the authority to do so in my opinion. Her only recourse is to ask for release of her service to him and to move on if she disagrees with the way he leads her. suaznne Very nice! ~smiling~ Your thought into this matter is greatly appreciated.

MmakeMme -> RE: How Does One Disclipline a Dom? (12/27/2006 10:06:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kalira LOL it's not my place to decide on whether or not Master should be disciplined. ~laughing too~ Indeed.

ownedgirlie -> RE: How Does One Disclipline a Dom? (12/27/2006 10:51:13 AM)
~ Chuckles ~ I thought this was a joke, too. It is not my place to discipline my Master. He is disciplined enough on his own. If I ever felt the need to discipline him, and God forbid if he ever allowed it, we would not be what we are today. I can't even fathom it. I have handed him my life to manage...and now I'm going to "punish" him for not managing it as I think he should? Bah! I may as well not be his!

ownedgirlie -> RE: How Does One Disclipline a Dom? (12/27/2006 10:53:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MmakeMme quote: ORIGINAL: hejira92 You're kidding, right? ~big grin~ To a degree, yes, although not exactly. Your comment made me laugh to myself. Your sig is delicious. I grin when I see her sig line because Master has said that to me a lot. In fact, if my Master had a brother, I would think hers and mine were related, lol.

Mercnbeth -> RE: How Does One Disclipline a Dom? (12/27/2006 10:55:40 AM)
quote: How Does One Discipline a Dom? Wouldn't shouting out your safe word be considered "discipline"? In theory he/she is doing something they enjoy and you are stopping it. That would fall under the definition of discipline even if it is in the context of 'training' him/her to satisfy the submissive. It's similar to saying "NO!" to a puppy.

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