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Mistresses? What are your hearts desires for 2007?? - 12/29/2006 9:43:01 PM

MzMia

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Okay, I had to start the New Year questions.
Ladies? Mistresses? Domina's or whatever you prefer to be called:
What are your hearts desires for 2007?
What qualities are you looking for in a submissive in 2007?
What are you hoping happens with your current submissive in 2007?
How do you plan to facilitate this happening for you in 2007?
What are your BDSM desires/plans/hopes for 2007?

I am hoping, that I will finally obtain THE Ds relationship that I have
wanted for a long time.
I am hoping that this relationship once established, becomes a LONG TERM
RELATIONSHIP. I really do not want to look ever again.
I am going to put more effort in the process of developing relationships.
I am going to TRY to be more patient and understanding, especially in
the "getting to know you stage".
I am looking forward to 2007, and I am feeling optimistic and hopeful.
**Here is hoping you get your heart and BDSM desires in 2007***

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To Each His/Her Own
"DENIAL ain't just a river in Egypt." Mark Twain

What's your favorite fetish?
"My partner's whisper"--bloomswell

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RE: Mistresses? What are your hearts desires for 2007?? - 12/30/2006 2:01:27 AM

canupleaseme

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What are your hearts desires for 2007?
To stay as happy as i am now in my current relationship and get fitter.
What qualities are you looking for in a submissive in 2007?
kindness, a desire to please, all what he has now.
What are you hoping happens with your current submissive in 2007?
im hoping that our relationship continues to grow as well as it has been doing.
How do you plan to facilitate this happening for you in 2007?
by continuing to be the best mistress i can be.
What are your BDSM desires/plans/hopes for 2007?
I would love to learn some rope techniques and have my boy move in with me in the summer

Im looking forward to new year too 2006 seems to have been a hard year personally for me and im glad to see the back of it!!! Though i did meet my pertner so it wasnt all bad lol.
But i have a really good feeling about 2007 and i wish everyone a happy new year too

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RE: Mistresses? What are your hearts desires for 2007?? - 12/30/2006 5:02:21 AM

MzMia

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quote:

ORIGINAL: canupleaseme

What are your hearts desires for 2007?
To stay as happy as i am now in my current relationship and get fitter.
What qualities are you looking for in a submissive in 2007?
kindness, a desire to please, all what he has now.
What are you hoping happens with your current submissive in 2007?
im hoping that our relationship continues to grow as well as it has been doing.
How do you plan to facilitate this happening for you in 2007?
by continuing to be the best mistress i can be.
What are your BDSM desires/plans/hopes for 2007?
I would love to learn some rope techniques and have my boy move in with me in the summer

Im looking forward to new year too 2006 seems to have been a hard year personally for me and im glad to see the back of it!!! Though i did meet my pertner so it wasnt all bad lol.
But i have a really good feeling about 2007 and i wish everyone a happy new year too

Thanks for responding! I hope you get your heart's desires in 2007
Happy New Year!

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Namaste'
To Each His/Her Own
"DENIAL ain't just a river in Egypt." Mark Twain

What's your favorite fetish?
"My partner's whisper"--bloomswell

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RE: Mistresses? What are your hearts desires for 2007?? - 12/30/2006 7:37:03 AM

thetammyjo

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In terms of Ds outside of what I all ready have in 2007, I'm not actively looking though I'm open.

I will be finishing my dissertation in the fall then I'll be on the job market in spring and winter. I can't offer a permenant position to anyone else because I don't know when we'll be moving. The academic job market is very different from any other and only a fool would attempt to predict when or where the jobs will be from year to year.

If I could find a solid service focused slave who could help out around my house and free up my time to teach, research and write that would be great. I think all these qualities plus living close enough and being financially independent (there is no physical room in my house for another person) is an unlikely combination at this time.

In other parts of my kinky life I hope to really get out there and promote my writing and books. I've taken a few good steps with arranging some interviews and a reading plus setting up my own domain name for my website.

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And my LJ where I post fiction in progress if you "friend" me at http://thetammyjo.livejournal.com/

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RE: Mistresses? What are your hearts desires for 2007?? - 12/30/2006 12:57:19 PM

MysticFireTopaz

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MzMia

What are your hearts desires for 2007?

To find a loving, fulfilling, long-term relationship with a compatible submissive. Ideally, I would like to find the submissive I will collar for life, but of course W/we will spend quite a bit of time getting to know each other first.

As far as My other desires, I have written out a long list of goals for my health, career, finances, other relationshps, spirituality, and home that is far too lengthy to post here.

What qualities are you looking for in a submissive in 2007?

SINGLE AND UNATTACHED, intelligent, honest, loyal, somewhere close to My age, employed, open-minded, likes to try new things, has fairly compatible kinks, has at least some of the same vanilla interests I do, is looking for a long-term relationship and not just play, lives within 2 hours of Me or is relocatable, enjoys attending lifestyle events.

What are you hoping happens with your current submissive in 2007?

I don't own any submissives right now. There are people I play with from time to time, but W/we are not seeking the same things in life.

How do you plan to facilitate this happening for you in 2007?

I am going to persist in what I have been doing. I have met some very interesting people who were fairly close matches, but it just didn't work out for one reason or other. I will continue attending lifestyle events and always keep My eyes open. One day one of these will stick .

What are your BDSM desires/plans/hopes for 2007?

To learn as much as I can about the lifestyle and to share what I know. To meet even more interesting people in the lifestyle. Hopefully, to establish a relationship with that special one.

**Here is hoping you get your heart and BDSM desires in 2007***

Thank you, and I sincerely wish the same to You and all other lovely people on Collarme!

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RE: Mistresses? What are your hearts desires for 2007?? - 12/30/2006 12:58:48 PM

MzMia

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quote:

ORIGINAL: thetammyjo

In terms of Ds outside of what I all ready have in 2007, I'm not actively looking though I'm open.

I will be finishing my dissertation in the fall then I'll be on the job market in spring and winter. I can't offer a permenant position to anyone else because I don't know when we'll be moving. The academic job market is very different from any other and only a fool would attempt to predict when or where the jobs will be from year to year.

If I could find a solid service focused slave who could help out around my house and free up my time to teach, research and write that would be great. I think all these qualities plus living close enough and being financially independent (there is no physical room in my house for another person) is an unlikely combination at this time.

In other parts of my kinky life I hope to really get out there and promote my writing and books. I've taken a few good steps with arranging some interviews and a reading plus setting up my own domain name for my website.

Congratulations on your academic accomplishments!!
YEEEEEEEEEEE HAWWWWWWWWW
I love to see a well educated and smart Domina

I hope 2007 is all you wish it to be.
Happy New Year to you TammyJo

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Namaste'
To Each His/Her Own
"DENIAL ain't just a river in Egypt." Mark Twain

What's your favorite fetish?
"My partner's whisper"--bloomswell

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RE: Mistresses? What are your hearts desires for 2007?? - 12/30/2006 4:21:07 PM

thetammyjo

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MzMia

Congratulations on your academic accomplishments!!
YEEEEEEEEEEE HAWWWWWWWWW
I love to see a well educated and smart Domina
I hope 2007 is all you wish it to be.
Happy New Year to you TammyJo

Thank you.

Happy New Years to you, MzMia.

And Happy New Year to you all.

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Love, Peace, Hugs, Kisses, Whips & Chains,

TammyJo

Check out my website at http://www.thetammyjo.com Or www.tammyjoeckhart.com

And my LJ where I post fiction in progress if you "friend" me at http://thetammyjo.livejournal.com/

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RE: Mistresses? What are your hearts desires for 2007?? - 12/30/2006 8:29:39 PM

MzMia

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Hello MysticFireTopaz
What you are seeking sounds more than reasonable to me.
I hope you find the loving, fulfilling, long-term relationship with
a compatible submissive that you seek.
Good luck, and Happy New Year!

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Namaste'
To Each His/Her Own
"DENIAL ain't just a river in Egypt." Mark Twain

What's your favorite fetish?
"My partner's whisper"--bloomswell

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RE: Mistresses? What are your hearts desires for 2007?? - 12/30/2006 9:54:51 PM

MysticFireTopaz

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MzMia

Hello MysticFireTopaz
What you are seeking sounds more than reasonable to me.
I hope you find the loving, fulfilling, long-term relationship with
a compatible submissive that you seek.
Good luck, and Happy New Year!

Thank You, MzMia! Good luck and Happy New Year to You, too, and may all of Your heart's desires be realized in the coming year!

Lady Topaz

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RE: Mistresses? What are your hearts desires for 2007?? - 12/30/2006 10:00:00 PM

TxBlkMistress

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MzMia

Okay, I had to start the New Year questions.
Ladies? Mistresses? Domina's or whatever you prefer to be called:
What are your hearts desires for 2007?
What qualities are you looking for in a submissive in 2007?
What are you hoping happens with your current submissive in 2007?
How do you plan to facilitate this happening for you in 2007?
What are your BDSM desires/plans/hopes for 2007?

I am hoping, that I will finally obtain THE Ds relationship that I have
wanted for a long time.
I am hoping that this relationship once established, becomes a LONG TERM
RELATIONSHIP. I really do not want to look ever again.
I am going to put more effort in the process of developing relationships.
I am going to TRY to be more patient and understanding, especially in
the "getting to know you stage".
I am looking forward to 2007, and I am feeling optimistic and hopeful.
**Here is hoping you get your heart and BDSM desires in 2007***

What you said....lol

HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE!!! smooches

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RE: Mistresses? What are your hearts desires for 2007?? - 12/30/2006 10:53:14 PM

CalliopePurple

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What are your hearts desires for 2007?
I want to become more comfortable in my own skin and with my own duality.

What qualities are you looking for in a submissive in 2007?
If I decide to start looking, I'll want a girl who, first and foremost, has no problems acknowleding her submissive nature. If she can understand my moodiness, that's an extra perk.

How do you plan to facilitate this happening for you in 2007?
I want to do whatever it takes to like myself more, hopefully including getting back on Paxil. I want to try and post more in the serious threads here, to get to know more people offline as well as on, and to keep working on not being ruled by fear.

What are your BDSM desires/plans/hopes for 2007?
Learning shibari would be very fun. Also want more sex toys and to have somebody help me discover just how much of a masochist I am.

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hajimete kimi ni atta hoshizora no shita de.
Kimi ni tsutaetai todokanai omoi demo
boku no kokoro wa mada kimi o sagashiteiru.

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RE: Mistresses? What are your hearts desires for 2007?? - 12/30/2006 11:01:49 PM

MzMia

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Thanks for posting.
Good luck TxBlkMistress, hopefully this will be the
year you find that wonderful submissive you deserve.
Good luck to you also, CalliopePurple, I hope it all
works out for you!

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Namaste'
To Each His/Her Own
"DENIAL ain't just a river in Egypt." Mark Twain

What's your favorite fetish?
"My partner's whisper"--bloomswell

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RE: Mistresses? What are your hearts desires for 2007?? - 12/30/2006 11:23:30 PM

BlkTallFullfig

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Don't know why I've shied away from this thread thus far...
Lord knows I have desires for the new year.

quote:

What are your hearts desires for 2007?

To be courted by and share mutual love, passion, boredom, and everyday life with a monogamous, smart, strong, sub with slave potential gentleman.

quote:

What qualities are you looking for in a submissive in 2007?

Kind, humane, benevolent, generous, smart, communicative, passionate, trusting/trustworthy, hard working, obedient, etc...

quote:

How do you plan to facilitate this happening for you in 2007?

Working on all of the above qualities on myself, except the obedient part, lol.

quote:

What are your BDSM desires/plans/hopes for 2007?

Learn more of what I don't know in terms of play perhaps by watching or from a trusted friend.
Mostly though I hope to find groups more geared toward power/authority exchange relationships than groups which focus on switching and playing (S/M) for its own sake (not that there is anything wrong, it's just I'm not much of an exhibitionist, and enjoy the sex ending more than whipping to the blood).

M

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RE: Mistresses? What are your hearts desires for 2007?? - 12/31/2006 12:00:03 AM

SweetDommes

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What are your hearts desires for 2007?

To find a second boy, one who is faithful, honest, and genuine in his desire to serve rather than just get his rocks off by acting and role playing
To like my job better than I do right now
For Holly to like her job better than she does right now
For all three (four?) of us to be happy and healthy in general
To be able to take a real vacation together

What qualities are you looking for in a submissive in 2007?

Obedient, loving, faithful and honest, animal lover, cuddler, someone who doesn't need to be micromanaged, educated is a plus, someone that we can take out in public without worrying that we'll be arrested for anything (we've talked to some who really worried us in that respect - which is why we only talked to them), someone that my family will like, someone who doesn't mind doing all of the laundry

What are you hoping happens with your current submissive in 2007?

That we have more time for play, that he heals and stays healthy, that he quits smoking, that whomever we pick as a second boy gets along with him

How do you plan to facilitate this happening for you in 2007?

We will keep looking, pushing each other to be healthier, and trying to alleviate stress for each other as much as we can when we can

What are your BDSM desires/plans/hopes for 2007?

see all of the above - more time and ability to play, having a second boy, more toys would be nice

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RE: Mistresses? What are your hearts desires for 2007?? - 12/31/2006 6:02:00 AM

LadyIce

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I hope to finally find a local submissive that suits me. Most of the submissives that I have met so far, usually live hours away.
I seek someone who is compatible with me in a variety of ways. I enjoy a lot of outdoor activities and I want someone that is
physically fit and can keep up.
Happy New Year to you also Mia

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RE: Mistresses? What are your hearts desires for 2007?? - 12/31/2006 8:38:51 AM

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quote:

What are your hearts desires for 2007?
What qualities are you looking for in a submissive in 2007?
What are you hoping happens with your current submissive in 2007?
How do you plan to facilitate this happening for you in 2007?
What are your BDSM desires/plans/hopes for 2007?

Hearts desire: peace of mind, feeling loved, respected, appreciated. Knowing I have one person in the world who understands Me totally.
submissive qualities: kind, funny, respectful, attentive and intelligent. cute doesn't hurt :D
current submissive: the boy and I only see each other online and talk sometimes on the phone. I would love to meet him and hold him in My arms at least once, and then we could give each other what we really need.. a good, long, hard, merciless scene, with hours of cuddling after.
facilitate it: only Fate can help Me there.
BDSM desires/hopes/plans: I wish for a real life submissive man...who wants Me and only Me as his Mistress. Someone who is dedicated and devoted and who doesn't see Women as useless playthings. I want to increase My knowledge of the lifestyle. I want to try things I have never done before... like fisting, using a humbler. I want to continue to be the best Domina I can be..and I know I can only do that by learning more and experiencing more.

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RE: Mistresses? What are your hearts desires for 2007?? - 12/31/2006 8:44:48 AM

KaramelGoddess

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And happy New Year everyone!!!!
MzMia I hope you get all you wish for as well, Goddess knows we deserve it!! hehe

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RE: Mistresses? What are your hearts desires for 2007?? - 12/31/2006 9:23:44 AM

DiannaVesta

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Mine are like most… more healthy, more active, etc. This year I want to fulfill myself spiritually, emotionally and sexually. Somehow I want to merge my love and concern for the planet with my personal fulfillments.

So I have been researching, planning, building and evaluating to build a small eco village actually run by dominant spiritual and conscious women. Grow our own food, have our own by laws, rules, live off the land and seek as much pleasure as possible.

I have the land and I’m partly there. This year I will begin to lay the foundation.

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RE: Mistresses? What are your hearts desires for 2007?? - 12/31/2006 11:16:08 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MzMia

Okay, I had to start the New Year questions.
Ladies? Mistresses? Domina's or whatever you prefer to be called:
What are your hearts desires for 2007?

To be able to refocus on my own personal growth and continue to work towards my goals.

What qualities are you looking for in a submissive in 2007?

I'm not really looking but if one should happen along.....intelligence, honesty, spirituality, serious about a long term service oriented D/s relationship.

What are you hoping happens with your current submissive in 2007?

I do not have one.

How do you plan to facilitate this happening for you in 2007?

Help my family members resolve the issues that are taking so much of my time and energy. Stay focused and strong. Continue to nurture myself on all levels. Physically, mentally, emotionally, and most importantly, spiritually.

What are your BDSM desires/plans/hopes for 2007?

Continue to learn everything I can. Keep an open mind. Remind myself I do not have to compromise myself for anyone else's agendas.

< Message edited by LaTigresse -- 12/31/2006 11:21:35 AM >

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Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Mistresses? What are your hearts desires for 2007?? - 12/31/2006 11:37:35 AM

MzMia

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Thank you all for sharing, hopefully we ALL get our BDSM hearts
desires AND our personal desires also!
***Here is an early toast to a great and wonderful 2007***
Bring it on, we are ready!!!!

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Namaste'
To Each His/Her Own
"DENIAL ain't just a river in Egypt." Mark Twain

What's your favorite fetish?
"My partner's whisper"--bloomswell

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