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Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/3/2007 4:18:37 PM   
LadyLupineNYC


Posts: 618
Joined: 12/14/2006
From: NYC
Status: offline 		I am an experianced Domme but I can still be thrown for a loop when I open my email to get something like this:

"typical fat pig cant find love cuz shes so fat so she come on this site and says shes a dominant female....bottom line....so tired of wanna bes like u cunt"

 Now...I have never spoken to this guy (or any of the others who have emailed me similar insults- my personal fave is that I am too 'old'...at 30 *rolls eye*) and I don't think of myself as some thin model- quality goddess...but nor do I see myself as some one who has warented such anger.  Now I know I am not the only one who must get these sorts of emails...but I just have to ask: WTF?  I just block the senders but I would love to hear what some of you (Dommes and subs) have to say...To put this all in some context, I am on myspace (kink and non-kink profiles), and some other vanillia sites and I have NEVER gotten such emails.  I just have to get a better understanding of the psycology of this...

LL
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RE: Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/3/2007 4:20:46 PM   
thetammyjo


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Status: offline 		I've gotten one email like this since I've been on here. I think the person was doing one of two things.

Hoping to get attention -- which you have wisely denied him by blocking him.

Or wanking off while he wrote. Why that would be something to wank off to I just can't grok but I do know such things exist.

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RE: Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/3/2007 4:25:13 PM   
aimtopleaseyou22


Posts: 20
Joined: 5/11/2004
Status: offline 		i'm sorry to hear so many stories like this here.  i'm ashamed to even be of the same gender as those that do stupid things like that.  i wish they would all go away.

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RE: Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/3/2007 4:25:22 PM   
DianeB269


Posts: 1596
Joined: 10/30/2006
Status: offline 		Send me a message on the other side. I think this fuck has emailed me too.


Diane

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyLupineNYC

I am an experianced Domme but I can still be thrown for a loop when I open my email to get something like this:

"typical fat pig cant find love cuz shes so fat so she come on this site and says shes a dominant female....bottom line....so tired of wanna bes like u cunt"

 Now...I have never spoken to this guy (or any of the others who have emailed me similar insults- my personal fave is that I am too 'old'...at 30 *rolls eye*) and I don't think of myself as some thin model- quality goddess...but nor do I see myself as some one who has warented such anger.  Now I know I am not the only one who must get these sorts of emails...but I just have to ask: WTF?  I just block the senders but I would love to hear what some of you (Dommes and subs) have to say...To put this all in some context, I am on myspace (kink and non-kink profiles), and some other vanillia sites and I have NEVER gotten such emails.  I just have to get a better understanding of the psycology of this...

LL

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RE: Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/3/2007 4:28:36 PM   
belljar


Posts: 29
Joined: 11/16/2006
Status: offline 		I got one too. Something along the lines of me wanting an attractive and fit sub, but being the exact opposite, myself.
And some other insults.
Yeah I know I'm not fit. SFW? my prerogative as the Domme to want what I want.
No picture in his profile, I know men like him, he's likely ugly, fat balding etc. and yeah, Tammy's right, I bet he jerks off to it.

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RE: Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/3/2007 4:32:03 PM   
SexyRed


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Joined: 8/19/2004
Status: offline 		LadyLupineNYC,

Dommes and subs alike get unwarranted emails like that all the time. What I find more ludicrous than the kind you are describing, are the ones where a Dom approaches ME. We chat or email. I decide for whatever reason that I am not interested.

Said Dom, after telling me how gorgeous and sexy he has found me and my profile, THEN says, you fat bitch/pig/slut, etc. after being rejected. It is standard behavior for many men and it does not happen only on this type of site, it happens on vanilla sites as well.  I just delete and block and laugh.

Afterall, no one twisted their arm to answer our profiles anyway, we are not hiding and photos are up and descriptions are given.

Don't even try to unravel the psychology behind such behavior, just feel sorry for those dweebs who feel so insecure that the only way they can rescue their injured manhood is to throw out the "fat bitch" attempted insults.

P.S. You have great pics, be proud of them.

< Message edited by SexyRed -- 1/3/2007 4:35:48 PM >

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RE: Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/3/2007 4:33:15 PM   
windchymes


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Status: offline 		Or, a couple of giggling, pimply teen-age boys who hacked through the NetNanny security code before Mom got home.  The messages were so juvenile, I'm surprised any of you mature, classy ladies even gave them a second thought :)

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RE: Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/3/2007 4:37:15 PM   
MstrssPassion


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From: West Palm Beach, FL
Status: offline 		nothing new

go back a couple weeks & read the thread that was started
"Ya Don't Say" http://www.collarchat.com/m_704495/tm.htm



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RE: Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/3/2007 4:38:25 PM   
onestandingstill


Posts: 1335
Joined: 8/3/2006
Status: offline 		It's just a sad showing of how very many emotionally disturbed people there can be in the world.
Confused delusional people think they are the only view of the world that counts and that they have the right to go attacking complete strangers with their pent up hostility.

Their just dessert is you only have to deal with that pent up anger for a second and they unfortunately have to live with themselves and the drama they cause constantly.
I just count my blessings I'm not like that and can recognize that's no way to behave or live. I fall into the but for the grace of God I could have gone that way too theory.
Some people just do not process the pain in their lives in a healthy fashion, block them, pray for or pity them and move on.
If you let them get your button and push your temper up all you're doing is promoting their path.
suzanne


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RE: Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/3/2007 4:41:13 PM   
LadyLupineNYC


Posts: 618
Joined: 12/14/2006
From: NYC
Status: offline 		It is odd to me that I have no problem posting several photos of myself, but these are all emails from subs with no pics added.  Talk about hiding behind one's computer. 

I know that I am demanding, I know that I am VERY picky, but the reality is that I can be as I am in a market with a lot of subs (and Dommes as well) so there is just that much more interaction...not to mention that since I work at a Dungon part time *ducks from rotton tomates being tossed my way for being 'Pro'* I get to 'play' every week so I am just that much less in 'need' for a submissives...maybe they are just pissed b/c they are so socialy defucnt they don't have as many choices...

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RE: Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/3/2007 4:42:27 PM   
pixelslave


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyLupineNYC

"typical fat pig cant find love cuz shes so fat so she come on this site and says shes a dominant female....bottom line....so tired of wanna bes like u cunt"



Sounds to me as though you've just encountered a very angry man (even a boy perhaps?) who for some reason chose to vent his anger on you.  He may have written you at some point before and either you didn't reply or simply rebuffed him for not meeting your criteria; who knows?  If so, the previous post was likely sent under a different profile anyway.  There may also be something in your profile that particularly may have set this individual off (not that he isn't already "off" to begin with), and its unlikely that you'll ever know exactly what it is.  I'd suggest that you just try to let it go.
 
At times like this, I do my best to try to be a duck and just let the water roll off my back.   I know its easier said than done, but when it works, its nice to know it can help.
 
 - pixel

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RE: Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/3/2007 5:10:30 PM   
lalbobbilynn


Posts: 483
Joined: 6/11/2006
Status: offline 		my lil' old belief is that it seems to stem from lack of attention, thus resulting in a lashing out........ for some, any attention is far better than an empty email box....... poor souls....... no attention.
i to have been sent such emails. As a result, i spit out a touch of micro toxin in my Cm journal. A cover-all to those whom it may apply to. i did grow up with seven older brothers, giving me a clue as to how one should bluff a bit!!! Worked like gang busters........ was getting rather tired of swattting at those peky lil' nats!!!!

Ones body being fit or not is hardly the point..... ragingly obvious these sissys' (either male or female) are unable to compete on an intellectually stimulating level with You .......... the grandest playground their is, Your mind ....... no matter how ba-dunk-a-dunk Your back side is.

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RE: Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/3/2007 5:14:10 PM   
MsKenzi


Posts: 3
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Status: offline 		Wow, it's nice to know that I'm NOT the only one receiving random hate mail! =)

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RE: Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/3/2007 5:24:53 PM   
LadyLupineNYC


Posts: 618
Joined: 12/14/2006
From: NYC
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: MsKenzi

Wow, it's nice to know that I'm NOT the only one receiving random hate mail! =)


To be honest- that is one of the reasons why I authored this post...why sit there wondering alone when we can all laugh...I would LOVE to see some other similar nasty emails...

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RE: Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/3/2007 5:40:27 PM   
mellian


Posts: 211
Joined: 9/6/2004
Status: offline 		I remember someone messaging me who seem they were trying to prove something and saying offending stuff about and in general. In the following posts, she got pissy just because I pointed out how her "compliment" was offensive, and then accused me of being aggressive before putting me on ignore. Some people need to go outside more often.

-mellian


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RE: Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/3/2007 5:49:34 PM   
MistressDolly


Posts: 917
Joined: 8/24/2006
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyLupineNYC

I am an experianced Domme but I can still be thrown for a loop when I open my email to get something like this:

"typical fat pig cant find love cuz shes so fat so she come on this site and says shes a dominant female....bottom line....so tired of wanna bes like u cunt"

 Now...I have never spoken to this guy (or any of the others who have emailed me similar insults- my personal fave is that I am too 'old'...at 30 *rolls eye*) and I don't think of myself as some thin model- quality goddess...but nor do I see myself as some one who has warented such anger.  Now I know I am not the only one who must get these sorts of emails...but I just have to ask: WTF?  I just block the senders but I would love to hear what some of you (Dommes and subs) have to say...To put this all in some context, I am on myspace (kink and non-kink profiles), and some other vanillia sites and I have NEVER gotten such emails.  I just have to get a better understanding of the psycology of this...

LL


People who insult other people, particulary people they don't even know, are miserable souls.  They would like nothing more than make you miserable too, unfortunately.  Don't let them make their world yours.  Let it go.  Life's too short to waste your energy on people like that. 

You know You and that's all that matters. 

< Message edited by MistressDolly -- 1/3/2007 5:51:31 PM >

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RE: Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/3/2007 5:59:07 PM   
Carrianna


Posts: 273
Joined: 11/20/2006
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyLupineNYC

I am an experianced Domme but I can still be thrown for a loop when I open my email to get something like this:

"typical fat pig cant find love cuz shes so fat so she come on this site and says shes a dominant female....bottom line....so tired of wanna bes like u cunt"

 Now...I have never spoken to this guy (or any of the others who have emailed me similar insults- my personal fave is that I am too 'old'...at 30 *rolls eye*) and I don't think of myself as some thin model- quality goddess...but nor do I see myself as some one who has warented such anger.  Now I know I am not the only one who must get these sorts of emails...but I just have to ask: WTF?  I just block the senders but I would love to hear what some of you (Dommes and subs) have to say...To put this all in some context, I am on myspace (kink and non-kink profiles), and some other vanillia sites and I have NEVER gotten such emails.  I just have to get a better understanding of the psycology of this...

LL


I have had a couple from this site, one was from a bloke who wanted me to fly over to US, he was going to pay, then this and that, but when I did not answer as he choose or conform to his controling ways, he said it was only to strip me, hog tie me and hang me upside down!!  It made me laugh! 

Nice to know it is not just me...

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RE: Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/3/2007 6:05:23 PM   
devoT


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Joined: 12/27/2006
Status: offline 		Ladies, you need not concern yourselves overmuch. If I wasn't already taken, I'd certainly be first in the queue vying for your attention:-)

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RE: Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/3/2007 6:11:00 PM   
SweetSurrender06


Posts: 2
Joined: 7/24/2006
Status: offline 		Some people just seem to find personal gratification in belittling others.  Maybe it makes them feel better...maybe they hate women....more than likely, they just hate themselves and are very unhappy, small-minded people, who are envious of anyone who appears to be happy with themselves.  Maybe they do not have the courage to put themselves out there.  Maybe they lash out in such a childish manner because they lack the ability to express their negativity and inadequecies in a more positive way...then there is the more simple explanation....they are a$$holes, plain and simple.  Some people would rather get noticed with negative attention than no attention at all.  Whatever their motivation...they are truly sad individuals and do not warrant Yours or anyone elses attention. 

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RE: Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/3/2007 7:30:32 PM   
LusciousGoddess


Posts: 2
Joined: 2/3/2006
Status: offline 		I just happened to get such an email today.  I've been on this site off and on for 2 years now, and never had that issue.  It's a shame that people feel the need to open their mouths with no purpose other than to insult someone. 

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