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RE: Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/3/2007 7:35:21 PM   
DianeB269


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Status: offline 		I'll bet he has a very small penis too.

Diane

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ORIGINAL: LusciousGoddess

I just happened to get such an email today.  I've been on this site off and on for 2 years now, and never had that issue.  It's a shame that people feel the need to open their mouths with no purpose other than to insult someone. 

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RE: Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/3/2007 7:36:20 PM   
SweetDommes


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Status: offline 		We've been lucky - we haven't gotten one of those e-mails for at least 4 or 5 months now ... although I did have a "Dom" message me after abusing me for no reason on this side to abuse me some more. 

We have gotten ones ranging from we are fat and ugly, to we are really men, to the infamous "U R not dominant, kneel before me now, bich" ... and yes, that's a direct quote LMAO

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RE: Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/3/2007 7:38:52 PM   
MzMia


Posts: 5333
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Status: offline 		{{{Lady Lupine}}} Don't let it get you down.  I have noticed MANY males here both submissive and Doms
tend to have NO picture.  Take a look sometimes.  As someone else stated, there are many people here that are
not mentally stable.  Unfortunately, we can't keep them off this site, if they are banned, they will probably make
new names and come back.  At least you know now, it does not only happen to you.  It is very, very common on
this site, ESPECIALLY when you state that you are not interested.  Nice to see you jumping in and posting here!
Happy New Year,
Mia

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RE: Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/3/2007 7:43:47 PM   
DianeB269


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Status: offline 		I've gotten the, you are not dominant kneel before me now, bitch a few times.


Diane

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RE: Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/3/2007 7:45:54 PM   
DianeB269


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Status: offline 		And some of them look like they just walked out of prison yesterday.


Diane


quote:

ORIGINAL: MzMia

{{{Lady Lupine}}} Don't let it get you down.  I have noticed MANY males here both submissive and Doms
tend to have NO picture.  Take a look sometimes.  As someone else stated, there are many people here that are
not mentally stable.  Unfortunately, we can't keep them off this site, if they are banned, they will probably make
new names and come back.  At least you know now, it does not only happen to you.  It is very, very common on
this site, ESPECIALLY when you state that you are not interested.  Nice to see you jumping in and posting here!
Happy New Year,
Mia

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RE: Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/3/2007 7:48:49 PM   
LotusSong


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Status: offline 		I'm kind. I just figure their blow up doll rejected them. 

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RE: Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/3/2007 7:56:27 PM   
LadyLupineNYC


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LotusSong

I'm kind. I just figure their blow up doll rejected them. 


LMAO...I wish it were so simple...I learned very early in life to a) never judge some one else's trauma and b) never judge some one else's kink (assuming S,S&C, naturally)...I just wish others were as...oh, who am I kidding *scurries back to the 'what do you think about Gor' post"

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RE: Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/3/2007 7:59:37 PM   
Daddysredhead


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Status: offline 		I've gotten more nice than mean, but one especially nasty one said:

"You're cute for a fat chick.  I love fatties.  Too bad stupid ones like you are n*gger lovers."

I let it sit for a while, in a day or two, I had written a wonderful little expletive and hate-free reply, that left even me marveling at my flair for words.  *proud sigh*  *giggles*  Daddy read it and told me that I had earned an A+ in His book, and that He was amazed.  Oh yeah, I also blocked the buttwipe, but I felt goooood that I made my point first, and did it with finesse.  (Usually I don't feed the trolls, but sometimes I just have to put into practice line 3 of my signature.) 

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RE: Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/3/2007 8:14:01 PM   
Sanity


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From: Nampa, Idaho USA
Status: offline 		Sure, some men are total morons. I'll even admit that many of them are. But I have known many females with equally bothersome character traits, mental issues, and so on. I don't know what the percentages might be, but there is no benefit to be gained in this forum from gender-bashing either way.

quote:

ORIGINAL: aimtopleaseyou22

i'm sorry to hear so many stories like this here.  i'm ashamed to even be of the same gender as those that do stupid things like that.  i wish they would all go away.

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RE: Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/3/2007 8:55:30 PM   
SirKenin


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From: Barrie, ON Canada
Status: offline 		Why can you people not just accept that some people do not like obese people?  They are not jerking off to it, I promise.  They think you are repulsive, they are full of hatred and bitterness, and they are lashing out.  That is all there is to it.   I know you are trying to blow sunshine up each other's asses by telling each other that he is some HNG, but I assure you that is not the case. 

I will be 100% honest with you.  There are some pictures on here that I look at and go "I can not believe they had the nerve to post a picture of themselves."  Or I see some ugly beast and My stomach turns.  There is the truth.  I am not saying I am a model either, but I know what I like and what I do not.  That does not make Me an HNG.  Quite the opposite in fact.  Any stimulation I might have had is immediately lost.  It does make Me judgemental, and I admit it, but I would NEVER write them and mouth them off.  Ever.  I keep it to Myself no matter what.

Just ignore him/her.  If you do not, s/he will be back with another volley, and another, and another.

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RE: Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/3/2007 9:07:44 PM   
LadyLupineNYC


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SirKenin

Why can you people not just accept that some people do not like obese people?  They are not jerking off to it, I promise.  ...


Ah yes...the reality that people who identify themselves as slaves/subs are really just looking for something to jerk off too...silly me...might I recommend so such souls (www.pornotube.com or www.freefuckingmovies.com do the trick for free even); seems more effective than going through all the needless theatrics of BDSM.

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RE: Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/3/2007 9:16:39 PM   
SirKenin


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From: Barrie, ON Canada
Status: offline 		Well, there is always shitloads of porn everywhere you turn.  I mean, you can find porn for every possible taste imaginable, no matter how despicable some might view it.  Why waste your damn time writing some "repulsive" creature and telling them they are a pig (or whatever the hell insults they happen to be throwing around)?  When you think logically, it does not make any damn sense.

It just so happens that you found a bitter freak that thinks that you are a poster boy/girl for Trojan.  Ignore them.  To hell with them.  Who cares what they think.  For every jerk who writes you to say you look like the residue in the bottom of the toilet, there is another one that thinks you are an angel sent from heaven to bless their day with that little ray of sunshine.  Pay attention to them..

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RE: Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/3/2007 9:27:21 PM   
letmecollaryou


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Joined: 11/3/2006
Status: offline 		People who write  abusive emails just because their target is a submissive,are far far away from the basics of lifestyle.You can never start a relation with humilating words.With the result they get ignored or blocked.This is true that most of submissive people like to be humilated and they mention it in their profiles.It is here inexperienced/freshers take a wrong notion of it and they immediately start with an abusive email with the hope of getting attention.But let me tell them that is not the case.You have to build up a relation first and you have to impress your sub with your dominant/masterly skills.You have to make her crave for you.During the process of relation and confidence building,you come to know more and more about your sub and her requirements.Then a stage comes when she submits to you and there on she needs to be humilated in real not through emails.

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RE: Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/3/2007 9:27:40 PM   
Lorelei115


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From: Sin City
Status: offline 		~Fast Reply~

I think of it as a rite of passage. You're not SOMEBODY until you've managed to piss someone off enough to send you a unwarranted hate mail.

Yep its happened to me and its easy to say "It ain't worth your time to bother" but a little harder to put into practice. Stuff like that can hurt, especially if you are a sensitive person. People tell you to "grow a thicker skin" but thats often easier said than done. It helps to remind yourself that for every asshole out there, there are many more warm, kind, and loving people.

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RE: Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/4/2007 4:29:57 AM   
LTRsubNW


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quote:

ORIGINAL: belljar

I got one too. Something along the lines of me wanting an attractive and fit sub, but being the exact opposite, myself.
And some other insults.
Yeah I know I'm not fit. SFW? my prerogative as the Domme to want what I want.
No picture in his profile, I know men like him, he's likely ugly, fat balding etc. and yeah, Tammy's right, I bet he jerks off to it.



Niiiice.

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RE: Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/4/2007 6:25:28 AM   
smilezz


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Status: offline 		Quite honestly....it has nothing to do with you being a FemDom.  It's just some angry person behind the screen that enjoys seeing if he/she can get a rise out of another person.  That's it.

I get these types of e-mails also.......i am thinking that there are a great deal that do.  I smirk to myself, laugh, shake my head at times and click that handy dandy lil' button called delete..............then call it a day.

Happy Thursday to you.....

~smilezz~

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RE: Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/4/2007 6:47:09 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		I find the delete feature works remarkably well.

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RE: Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/4/2007 7:50:21 AM   
pahunkboy


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Joined: 2/26/2006
From: Central Pennsylvania
Status: offline 		in general there has been a decline of civilty, decurum. a boost in shoddy slovefullness.

Emily Dickens rules of etiquet must be passe now.

froyd might conclude the dude is blaming his small penis on the woman.

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RE: Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/4/2007 9:00:42 AM   
mgdartist


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Joined: 5/13/2006
From: irving tx
Status: offline 		ack, regrettable
Still I'd have witheld comment, as it was always as I was brought up to "consider the source" of any such chicanery. I've been to enough larger sites to know there is always this element, and agree it's likely attributable to one or more pseudo-"members" who, having reached the venerable maturity of early teens, and being weary and annoyed of their unsupervisory parents, the color TV and Playstation, had sought out greener pastures and virtual playgrounds, after "stumbling upon" some sites full of over-sensitive but naughty adults, after misspelling a google for a new dog collar (lucky us). Transferring their disgust for their actual carbon-based parental units, after the dual epiphany of their anonymnity, and 'the pen is mightier than the penis" from a rap song, now bless the less than deserving here who somehow remind them of "that bitch" (mom), with their verbal icbm's.
Presumably it's their use of language and intent, which sets them apart from say, any other male who hasn't learned the utter futility of contacting any females on this site, but I'm obviously just envious of the OP, and in fact anyone who gets actual mail from even denigratory admirers here. Nonetheless one must wonder why this peticular note isn't given the same focus the rest of us are accustomed to, having its authorship dispatched as if they don't exist.
Since I arrived at CM, I have seen the backlash and righteous indignation caused by some very negative personna's here, the poison they inflict on more sensitive members, and am amazed at the ripple effect. This coupled with a preponderance of men seeking mates, who've forgotten they already have one, seems to have the overall effect of fueling an overall resentment toward us all as men, which in truth has the overall result of confounding the main goals and purposes of all here who continue to seek, regardless of gender.

sigh, it's like I always say:
"damn kids messin with me..."
MGD


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RE: Random insults sent...WTF? - 1/4/2007 12:00:30 PM   
swtnsparkling


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Status: offline 		This sounds very similar too some thing  from a few months ago the OP was told she was ugly in an email-  started a thread about it / she got alot of attention


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