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RE: Doormats - Can we eliminate them? - 1/6/2007 3:04:31 PM

crouchingtigress

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my fav defintion of doormat:

a doormat is any one who does what i wont do
a brat is any one wont do what i will...

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RE: Doormats - Can we eliminate them? - 1/6/2007 3:07:22 PM

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you want to eliminate Doormats? Well damn.. how am I gonna clean my muddy feet before entering the house... We need Door mats damn you.... LONG LIVE THE DOORMATS... we walk on you, we leave our dirt on you... and when we are done with... we toss you way for a new one.

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RE: Doormats - Can we eliminate them? - 1/6/2007 3:09:34 PM

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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

you want to eliminate Doormats? Well damn.. how am I gonna clean my muddy feet before entering the house... We need Door mats damn you.... LONG LIVE THE DOORMATS... we walk on you, we leave our dirt on you... and when we are done with... we toss you way for a new one.

And as long as those fuckers exist, I'll never get trampled.

Yours,

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RE: Doormats - Can we eliminate them? - 1/6/2007 3:10:52 PM

LotusSong

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ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

So, I was browsing profiles this morning (This is gonna be a great story!) and I noticed something. Very few subs are doormats, and very few Doms want a doormat.

Is the "I'm no doormat," and "I don't want a doormat" thing a cliche? Or is it a necessary disclaimer to prevent small area rugs from invading your home?

Has anyone met a doormat in BDSM, or wants to meet one?

Yours,

benji

I thought I had met a doormat once.. but upon closer examination.. it was a doorstop.

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RE: Doormats - Can we eliminate them? - 1/6/2007 3:12:56 PM

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ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

And as long as those fuckers exist, I'll never get trampled.

You bet... Doormats for stepping... dogs are for kicking!!!!

Oh what a life... step on my door mat and wipe my feet clean and kick that damn dog as I walk into my castle.

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RE: Doormats - Can we eliminate them? - 1/6/2007 3:14:11 PM

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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

I thought I had met a doormat once.. but upon closer examination.. it was a doorstop.

you sure it wasn't a DoorKnob

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RE: Doormats - Can we eliminate them? - 1/6/2007 3:14:55 PM

crouchingtigress

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ahem...kom.....dogs are not for kicking.

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RE: Doormats - Can we eliminate them? - 1/6/2007 3:15:25 PM

gooddogbenji

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That's it. I'm going home to beat my wife and fuck my dog.

Yours,

benji

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RE: Doormats - Can we eliminate them? - 1/6/2007 3:16:28 PM

KnightofMists

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ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

That's it. I'm going home to beat my wife and fuck my dog.

are you sure you not going to round up some sheep first??? and have alittle lamb chop *w*?

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RE: Doormats - Can we eliminate them? - 1/6/2007 5:16:21 PM

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Whispers..if you're going to worry the sheep..be sure to wear a kilt to avoid that darn distraction the sound of zippers make..and..oh..btw..heres some mint sauce..

*chuckles* nice to know there are places outside of wales..where men are men and sheep are nervous..lol

(disclaimer: just a general comment..not in response to anyone imparticular lol)

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RE: Doormats - Can we eliminate them? - 1/6/2007 5:19:35 PM

mnottertail

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Without a DOORMAT there is no tomorrow. Where shall the son of man wipe his feet?

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RE: Doormats - Can we eliminate them? - 1/6/2007 5:29:44 PM

LTRsubNW

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Yes, but you have to have a reciept.

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RE: Doormats - Can we eliminate them? - 1/6/2007 6:17:54 PM

junecleaver

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I have a doormat with my name on it, does that sort of kind of count? I would gladly be a complete and total doormat for the right feet. =)

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RE: Doormats - Can we eliminate them? - 1/6/2007 6:49:16 PM

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FR..

I think this will be a pretty interesting topic to watch in light of the Obedience=Boring topic.

C~

Indeed it is.

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RE: Doormats - Can we eliminate them? - 1/6/2007 6:50:30 PM

ownedgirlie

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ORIGINAL: akbarbarian
That's an excellent definition of doormat. Mine is a little different, but I'm thinking yours added to mine says it better.

A doormat is someone who can't stop worrying about what everyone around her (or he) wants, including those she doesn't belong to. All this anxiety to please everyone means the owner has to compete with the unfocused desire to please anyone and everyone, which is really really bad when you want to control someone.

I tend to call that co-dependent.

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RE: Doormats - Can we eliminate them? - 1/6/2007 7:49:40 PM

MistressDolly

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quote:

ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress

my fav defintion of doormat:

a doormat is any one who does what i wont do
a brat is any one wont do what i will...

:) I like that.

Sometimes, once in a while, my "_____" who is not a frequent dormat, wants to be a foot stool, as I read or something. once in a while - - I'd say probably about once a month. And as he put in: "sometimes you feel like a foot stool, sometimes you dont.

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RE: Doormats - Can we eliminate them? - 1/6/2007 9:21:52 PM

Leonidas

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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

I'm always kind of saddened to see culturally acceptable forms of bigotry.

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ORIGINAL: Level

If a sub is from the middle east and wears a turban and likes heroin, does that make them an "afghan"?

That would be stereotyping. Biggotry would be "I hate those fucking turban wearing, heroin dealing afgans, and I'll be damned if I'd ever live within 10 miles of one". See the difference? Biggotry is hate or intolerance of another group. Stereotyping can lead to biggotry, or it can express biggotry, but they aren't the same thing. I doubt this post was motivated by, or intended to inspire biggotry. It was an attempt to be funny.

This post was brought to you by a partnership of the Lighten Up Foundation and People for the Correct Use of the English Language.

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RE: Doormats - Can we eliminate them? - 1/7/2007 3:43:28 AM

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I can give my word is was not motivated by bigotry; I appreciate your post, Leonidas, you pretty much hit the nail on the head.

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RE: Doormats - Can we eliminate them? - 1/7/2007 6:27:55 AM

amlonging

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quote:

ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

So, I was browsing profiles this morning (This is gonna be a great story!) and I noticed something. Very few subs are doormats, and very few Doms want a doormat.

Is the "I'm no doormat," and "I don't want a doormat" thing a cliche? Or is it a necessary disclaimer to prevent small area rugs from invading your home?

Has anyone met a doormat in BDSM, or wants to meet one?

Yours,

benji

benji...would you be my door man? then after I enter the door, would you happily spread out on my floor and create of yourself a lovely oval 8 X 10 in shades of pink in my living room so I might lay down and relax after a hard day of nursing?

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RE: Doormats - Can we eliminate them? - 1/7/2007 7:50:00 AM

MizSuz

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I know people who like to play at being doormats.

As for the "I'm not a doormat" statements, I usually consider it a gauge of someone who's been in the scene a little while, but not long enough to realize they are not what they are treated as and that they don't have to justify their preferences to anybody.

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