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LuvnHome4FemSub -> Kicking a slave out of your home with nothing at all... (1/23/2007 9:58:35 PM)

Hello everyone.
I have a question for the dominants on here.
 
If you took on the responsibility of a slave, and a few months down the road you found another you wanted more...would you throw the first one out of your home with nothing, having her (or him) ending up in a shelter?
 
This has happened to a girl that I have been speaking to for a while, and I find it horrendous.
 
I expect to set up a savings account where money is put aside each month for whoever comes to me. Then should I not be here for her she can fall back on this. Also, if things change, she has this to take with her to begin again.
 
Just my opinion. I look forward to your responses.
 



amayos -> Discarding a slave (1/23/2007 10:20:22 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LuvnHome4FemSub

If you took on the responsibility of a slave, and a few months down the road you found another you wanted more...would you throw the first one out of your home with nothing, having her (or him) ending up in a shelter?

This has happened to a girl that I have been speaking to for a while, and I find it horrendous.

I expect to set up a savings account where money is put aside each month for whoever comes to me. Then should I not be here for her she can fall back on this. Also, if things change, she has this to take with her to begin again.

Just my opinion. I look forward to your responses.


You have the right idea. Building up a release or emergency coffer is easy enough to do, and is beneficial to both parties.

Regarding the rest of your post, I don't understand why a Master would feel the need to discard his slave so brutally. It would not be too difficult to auction her or otherwise place her in the care of good hands.




LuvnHome4FemSub -> RE: Discarding a slave (1/23/2007 11:01:12 PM)

That is what I thought when I heard her tell me they told her to go. They could have at least bought her a bus ticket back to where she came from, or at least made sure she had money to take herself where ever she needed to go.



popeye1250 -> RE: Discarding a slave (1/23/2007 11:04:37 PM)

No! That is just cruel, selfish, and mean!
I agree with your O.P.



PrettyThingsPink -> RE: Discarding a slave (1/23/2007 11:35:06 PM)

I am curious and have a few questions.

How old is this slave?Does she have family?Did she work?

I do not mean to sound mean or heartless,but I do think she has a little responsability here too.You made a point about setting up an account with some money.She could have negotiated this before going with this guy.I just think that as adults we must always look ahead to the future.You know the saying.Hope for the best ,but prepare for the worst.I myself have learned this the hard way and am sorry the girl is going through this.



topcat -> RE: Discarding a slave (1/23/2007 11:39:59 PM)

Is she Nigerian by any chance?



LuvnHome4FemSub -> RE: Discarding a slave (1/23/2007 11:45:05 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: PrettyThingsPink

I am curious and have a few questions.

How old is this slave?Does she have family?Did she work?

I do not mean to sound mean or heartless,but I do think she has a little responsability here too.You made a point about setting up an account with some money.She could have negotiated this before going with this guy.I just think that as adults we must always look ahead to the future.You know the saying.Hope for the best ,but prepare for the worst.I myself have learned this the hard way and am sorry the girl is going through this.


She is 43. It all was negotiated before she went to the couple. She was to live in 24/7 slavery to them, and they in turn would make sure her living needs were taken care of. She cleaned the 3 homes they own, where family lives, every day. Took care of their children, whom she didn't know of til she got there, cooked, cleaned....all the domestics. This was all agreed to before she got there. It was all on paper and signed by all...which we all know holds no legal water, though it should hold integrity.
Would make even the most seasoned slave, or sub, very gun shy. Never mind the kind of mark it places on the ones who don't act this way in the guise of being dominant.
Hope I said that last part right. [:)]



LuvnHome4FemSub -> RE: Discarding a slave (1/23/2007 11:47:14 PM)

No, topcat, she isn't nigerian. She is an american woman.



firbank7 -> RE: Discarding a slave (1/24/2007 12:08:42 AM)

Hi, just want to post my six pennies worth (uk guy here, head above the parapet for now )
A couple of points.
1. You seem to have grasped the slave's position in a great deal of depth and calrity, so perhaps she is not destitute as she managed to spend time here explaining her situation to you.
2.  Surely she is not naive enough to believe that slavery is for life, she is 43 and enetered this contract 'late' in life so she must have had previous experience of the lifestyle
3.  Perhaps such masters should now be identified on a web site as being callous and uncaring. Then 'future' slaves wil know the benefits of entering into a contract with such a person.

Of course she could always venture to this side of the pond and receive a better treatment


Hides again under the parapet



PrettyThingsPink -> RE: Discarding a slave (1/24/2007 12:13:02 AM)

What is a parapet?

Hides again under the parapet

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BitaTruble -> RE: Kicking a slave out of your home with nothing at all... (1/24/2007 12:17:20 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LuvnHome4FemSub
 
If you took on the responsibility of a slave, and a few months down the road you found another you wanted more...would you throw the first one out of your home with nothing, having her (or him) ending up in a shelter?
 
This has happened to a girl that I have been speaking to for a while, and I find it horrendous.


 
This sounds a lot like a bad day time drama from someone hoping to elicit funds by way of sympathy. If she's in a shelter, how is she hooking up to the Internet? That costs money, no matter how you slice it.
 
Have you asked her any tough questions? What was she doing 8 weeks ago before she left behind her entire world to go live as a domestic in the home of people she didn't know, taking care of children who weren't hers? What brought her to the point where such a deal sounded so good to her that she didn't take the time necessary to really get to know these people and ensure that her life needs were going to be met.. if not by them, then by herself? Do you know this woman? Have you met her face to face or is this all online drama? If it's all online, what makes you take her at her word? Why is she believable to you and if you know her face to face and you know for a fact that she's in her dire straight, how come you're not helping her yourself? Is she a friend? I mean, she's spilling her guts to you for some reason, right?
 
I'd keep one hand firmly on my wallet if I were you. You're hearing one side of this 'story' after all. There may have been other issues, other reasons this woman got thrown out (IF she got thrown out).
 
Eh, I'm a skeptic though and menopausal.. what do I know? [8|]
 
Celeste



SweetDommes -> RE: Discarding a slave (1/24/2007 12:21:26 AM)

We threw our last boy out with nothing but what he came with ... and the few little gifts that we had given him.  He had no place to go that we know of, and I know for a fact that he had less than $30 in savings.  However, it wasn't for a new boy - it was because he was cheating on us. 

A situation such as you describe is something that only someone without a conscience would be able to do and still sleep at night. 



domiguy -> RE: Kicking a slave out of your home with nothing at all... (1/24/2007 12:37:24 AM)

The slave probably had it coming....Maybe they, the couple, were offended by her lack of hygiene....or perhaps after three months she had a grotesque weight gain and accidently ate one of the kids...Who knows what happened?

But at least it all worked out well for everybody....The town rallied around her, threw a big party and they all chipped in money and threw it into a basket....And there were was enough money raised that Mr. Potter couldn't do anything to her. She was so happy and she got to live with George and Mary for the rest of her life!

The end. (Of course it's much more likely that she died....but don'tcha just love a happy ending?)

out.

D.G.

p.s. Jesus please protect me from your followers.

p.s.s. of course they could have always dug a deep hole at the base of the parapet....and thrown down scraps of meat to their slave.



luv4softbutch -> RE: Kicking a slave out of your home with nothing at all... (1/24/2007 1:16:27 AM)

[8|]If a contract is taken to a notary and signed by all, why wouldn't it be legally binding?   Even verbal agreements are binding in small claims court.   At the very least they could have agreed on an amount if it didn't work out and had it notorized.  Three homes she cared (cleaned) for?  Even I could not do that alone everyday.  Why would she agree to all that.  There has to be more to the story..[8|]



Allurea -> RE: Kicking a slave out of your home with nothing at all... (1/24/2007 1:35:34 AM)

There are many reasons for a slave to be released. Are you sure you have the whole story, sorry Sir but it sounds like a scam to me. I've been taken for money before by these types of sob storys and have come to learn that although cruelty exists, there are also those willing to lie to get what they want. We each bear a certain responsibility for the things that happen in our lives be they good or bad. Who jumps from a plane without any form of safety net? Not even the most sheltered of us would throw our life away so unwittingly.



simplyangelic1 -> RE: Kicking a slave out of your home with nothing at all... (1/24/2007 1:46:19 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

quote:

ORIGINAL: LuvnHome4FemSub
 
If you took on the responsibility of a slave, and a few months down the road you found another you wanted more...would you throw the first one out of your home with nothing, having her (or him) ending up in a shelter?
 
This has happened to a girl that I have been speaking to for a while, and I find it horrendous.


 
This sounds a lot like a bad day time drama from someone hoping to elicit funds by way of sympathy. If she's in a shelter, how is she hooking up to the Internet? That costs money, no matter how you slice it.
 
Have you asked her any tough questions? What was she doing 8 weeks ago before she left behind her entire world to go live as a domestic in the home of people she didn't know, taking care of children who weren't hers? What brought her to the point where such a deal sounded so good to her that she didn't take the time necessary to really get to know these people and ensure that her life needs were going to be met.. if not by them, then by herself? Do you know this woman? Have you met her face to face or is this all online drama? If it's all online, what makes you take her at her word? Why is she believable to you and if you know her face to face and you know for a fact that she's in her dire straight, how come you're not helping her yourself? Is she a friend? I mean, she's spilling her guts to you for some reason, right?
 
I'd keep one hand firmly on my wallet if I were you. You're hearing one side of this 'story' after all. There may have been other issues, other reasons this woman got thrown out (IF she got thrown out).
 
Eh, I'm a skeptic though and menopausal.. what do I know? [8|]
 
Celeste


Actually, you can access the internet at most libraries for free.  All you need is an ID.  No money needed.



luv4softbutch -> RE: Kicking a slave out of your home with nothing at all... (1/24/2007 1:54:44 AM)

That is true....  but you can't go to sites like CollarMe or messengers  at the library...  it's not allowed... If I wanted to go and be with a mistress or poly family say like from here, I would make sure I had money in the bank to leave if I needed too before I made the change.  If my new family had a bank account for me then all the better.  But safe rather then sorry! 



simplyangelic1 -> RE: Kicking a slave out of your home with nothing at all... (1/24/2007 1:59:23 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: luv4softbutch

That is true....  but you can't go to sites like CollarMe or messengers  at the library...  it's not allowed... If I wanted to go and be with a mistress or poly family say like from here, I would make sure I had money in the bank to leave if I needed too before I made the change.  If my new family had a bank account for me then all the better.  But safe rather then sorry! 


It depends on the library.  I've been to some that have computers dedicated to adults and those you can access any site.  I've also been to some that share computers between adults and unmentionables and those have cyber nanny or some program on them.  But all computers that I've used in a library allow you to use any one of the various messenger systems out there.  This may not be the case in all libraries.  But has been the case in all those I've been to.



BitaTruble -> RE: Kicking a slave out of your home with nothing at all... (1/24/2007 2:01:28 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: simplyangelic1


Actually, you can access the internet at most libraries for free.  All you need is an ID.  No money needed.


That's a very good point. In fact, in MN at least, you don't even need ID, you can just sit down and start typing. I don't know if sites such as this one would be accessible, but I've never tried to access it from the library. I usually just go there for the books. :)

Of course, if I were down and out and in dire straights, I'd probably be out there pounding the pavement looking for a job and not spend my time at the library talking about my situation with strangers, but, that's just me.. and I'm still menopausal. ::chuckles::

Celeste



bandit25 -> RE: Discarding a slave (1/24/2007 3:24:36 AM)

Good one TC



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