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Why do men..? - 1/24/2007 4:37:21 PM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		Seems a good a time as any to ask since it is a topic someone brought up in another thread..
But, why DO men find it thrilling, or appalling to taste their own cum?
This is a serious question, not one meant to bash males, or proclaim female superiority in any way.

This is something I have noticed for years.  Women are expected to swallow cum.  Some guys out there enjoy seeing it wiped on our faces, want us to lick it off your bellies, ect.  Guys even encourage us to even taste ourselves.  It seems guys like females to experience and preferably to enjoy male and female juice.

So why do so many men run like heck when asked to tasted their own jism? 
If the thought makes you run, what is the reason?
If you do like it, have you ever considered what is the appeal?

*Curiously*
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RE: Why do men..? - 1/24/2007 4:40:08 PM   
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RE: Why do men..? - 1/24/2007 4:47:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		i don't get it either. i personally find the taste of my own juices erotic, as well as the taste of His, and of men's cum in general. maybe it has something to do with the issue of homophobia or homosexuality/being perceived as homosexual? (speaking of heterosexual men.) for example, most women have no problem tasting their own cum; most (heterosexual) women also have no problem being affectionate with other women. but many men have a problem tasting their own cum, and many (heterosexual) men shy away from affection with other men. just an observation.

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/24/2007 4:54:11 PM   
MistressYlwa


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Status: offline 		Maybe its just the type who contact me, but not had anyone protest when asked to do this.

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/24/2007 4:56:27 PM   
michaelOfGeorgia


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< Message edited by michaelOfGeorgia -- 1/24/2007 4:57:51 PM >

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/24/2007 4:58:23 PM   
hisannabelle


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ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia

i would, but that's just me


why? i'm not saying it's wrong imho by any means...i'm just curious. what about it turns you off?

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/24/2007 4:58:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well, I for one find male cum absolutely repulsive, and not a particularly big fan of some women's juice. So I really DO understand men's revulsion, and do NOT understand those form whom it is a fetish, but like all other fetishes, I accept it, and use it to my advantage of course.

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/24/2007 4:58:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		It would make me wonder if they ever tried it? Seems sort of unfair or such to expect your sub to eat and swallow something you avoid like the plague.

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/24/2007 5:00:24 PM   
michaelOfGeorgia


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ORIGINAL: hisannabelle

quote:

ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia

i would, but that's just me


because it reminds me too much of mayonaise and i HATE mayonaise...LOL

why? i'm not saying it's wrong imho by any means...i'm just curious. what about it turns you off?



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RE: Why do men..? - 1/24/2007 5:02:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		From my limited observations: all the men I know in person who don't want to do this have deep homophobic tendencies. This does not mean that if they don't like to do it that they're homophobic...it means that if they're homophobic, they're much more likely to not enjoy or like the behavior.

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/24/2007 5:04:00 PM   
michaelOfGeorgia


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RE: Why do men..? - 1/24/2007 5:08:54 PM   
demistress


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ORIGINAL: speednut

It would make me wonder if they ever tried it? Seems sort of unfair or such to expect your sub to eat and swallow something you avoid like the plague.

I have tried it.  Side note on something I haven't tried, and still expect: I don't drink piss, and I don't eat shit, doesn't stop me from expecting that of my slaves.

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/24/2007 5:16:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have tasted it, out of curiosity.  It wasn't unpleasant.  I'd rather have a beer though.

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/24/2007 5:17:53 PM   
michaelOfGeorgia


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Status: offline 		i've never even been curious about it. hell, i can't even stand the sight of it...much less wanna taste it.

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/24/2007 5:23:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		Many men want a woman to swallow his cum for many reasons just depends on the guy. For some its a sign of devotion, for others a sign of their dominance over her, particulary if they get it all over her face and in her hair. /shrug   I don't see the appeal.

Personally I think cum tastes awful and I will not swallow. If that upsets a guy well too bad he will learn to get over it or he can go sleep with someone else.

As a Mistress I use it as a form of humilation because for most men it is a humilating experience to be made to eat their own cum. My observation is most of them don't like the taste either but they do it to serve their Mistress. The same way a female sub serves her Master when he cums all over her face or swallows for him.

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/24/2007 5:28:20 PM   
mstrjx


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Status: offline 		I abhor taboo.

Wait, you completely misread that.  What I'm saying is that I wish to break down my (and others) sense of what 'seems' wrong.  Just because society feel something is wicked is probably all the better reason to try something.  Or, in some cases, bask in it repeatedly.

I believe it was one CM member who asked when when I had last, um, you know, what the OP is talking about.

My response.......

When was the last time I didn't?

That's breaking taboos.

What's yours?  Let's make that go away, too.

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/24/2007 5:33:50 PM   
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It's a physical substance coming from inside to the outside. We humans love symbols and attaching meaning to things and since those "inner substances" often come out during emotional/important periods in our life already, it's no wonder we build on that. It's a literal expression of emotion/achievement/moment in time.

And, depending on what else you believe, yes a piece of ourselves- DNA, energy, warmth, living, sharing. Why are subs SOOOO into vampire lore and fantasy? Also why we like giving locks of hair and saving baby's teeth. Physical symbols of the moment, physical symbols of giving ourselves over.

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/24/2007 5:41:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have tasted my own when after a bj she has give me a big sloppy kiss...AM I a cock sucker by proxy smiles...BH

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/24/2007 6:31:20 PM   
petdave


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Status: offline 		i just find it gross in general... would greatly prefer to be able to climax without any extraneous mess. Have no desire to decorate my partner with it, nor have i ever asked her to take it in her mouth. Have tasted it out of curiosity and found it unpleasant. Have no attraction to men, but don't consider myself to be homophobic. So i donno.

BTW, is that an album cover in your avatar? Looks cool

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RE: Why do men..? - 1/24/2007 6:53:17 PM   
Devilslilsister


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Status: offline 		Personally i find cum in itself disgusting.  i have issues with Master going down on me (and luckily he rarely does), i think OTHER female cum is GROSS... and to sum up how i feel about cum coming out of other men.. watching it on a porno a year ago had me puking in my garbage can.

Cum is just gross.

Except Masters.. for some reason i really like it....


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