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RE: Are you attracted to someones inner or outer beauty? - 1/30/2007 3:49:41 AM

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For myself it is Inner. I have been judged my whole life on my outer beauty ( or lack there of) it's hurtful. I'm a pretty dam great person to know given the chance. Any way feeling the effects of that I never judged anyone on the outter. I just cannot make a decison on just the outside with out seeing what is on the inside.Am I attracted to beautiful hot looking people, yes , I enjoy beautiful things.

My hub is not what one would say good looking- but dam if he isnt the sweetest- most generous-amazing man I have ever known, Had I made a decison on just his outside apperence I would of never gotten to know him. I look at him now and I see true beauty.

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RE: Are you attracted to someones inner or outer beauty? - 1/30/2007 4:27:27 AM

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Having given this question some thought, I am categorically not attracted to someone's inner self. I have never had the wish to disabowel someone because I was attracted to their ineds. I've only ever wanted to do that to one person and that was not because I was attracted to her.

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RE: Are you attracted to someones inner or outer beauty? - 1/30/2007 4:30:12 AM

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so many people's outter appearance hides their true self, but it's what's inside that truly counts. that's how some of the best people in the world tend to get overlooked. you could have someone that's absolutely perfect on the outside and be a complete monster on the inside.

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RE: Are you attracted to someones inner or outer beauty? - 1/30/2007 4:42:42 AM

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I don't know, they got guts and heart valves in there, I believe I will pass....

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RE: Are you attracted to someones inner or outer beauty? - 1/30/2007 6:35:14 AM

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And than there are those times folks are ugly on the outside and in, LMAO. M

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RE: Are you attracted to someones inner or outer beauty? - 1/30/2007 12:11:00 PM

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Inner beauty is an ideal trait in a partner though I find it hard to stay with someone based solely on how great of a person they are inside. A relationship can be difficult and/or impossible if you are not attracted to the physical traits of your partner. I don't dream of coming home to a unattractive, smelly woman just to have a good conversation. Sex is that much better when you are attracted to the physical beauty of the person.

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RE: Are you attracted to someones inner or outer beauty? - 1/30/2007 3:00:50 PM

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quote:

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A relationship can be difficult and/or impossible if you are not attracted to the physical traits of your partner.

Why would some one get into a relationship if they were not attracted to anything about the other person?

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I don't dream of coming home to a unattractive, smelly woman just to have a good conversation.

conversation? so is sex and conversation the only two things your interested in?

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Sex is that much better when you are attracted to the physical beauty of the person.

Can't have sex 24/7 so those days or maybe even weeks there is no sex, what the heck do you do with her? sit and stare

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RE: Are you attracted to someones inner or outer beauty? - 1/30/2007 3:14:55 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: swtnsparkling

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Sex is that much better when you are attracted to the physical beauty of the person.

Can't have sex 24/7 so those days or maybe even weeks there is no sex, what the heck do you do with her? Play americas top model?
Sex is only a slice of a relationship

Take up golf or go fishing. Weeks! why would my America's top model want to go without sex for weeks! have you been talking to her again? That bitch...Back to Nigeria she goes!

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RE: Are you attracted to someones inner or outer beauty? - 1/30/2007 3:23:00 PM

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oops sorry I was in edit when you posted

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