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RE: A crude question but a true curiosity.... - 1/27/2007 10:11:14 PM   
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RE: A crude question but a true curiosity.... - 1/27/2007 11:28:08 PM   
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Loves it!  I tell My girl to do anal play on Me... fingers, toys, strapon, (working on the fist)<grinz> etc...  she is following My direction at all times and knows how to please Me. 

But, it still comes down to personal preference and is not necessarily a part of the M/s dynamic, since I would enjoy these things with or without 'ordering' them to happen. 

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RE: A crude question but a true curiosity.... - 1/28/2007 12:22:14 AM   
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lol just read this just now on overheardinnewyork.com

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Chick #2: Trust me -- he wants it, but he'll never ask. You do it by surprise, and he'll, like, cum all over you.
Chick #1: It just seems nasty.
Chick #2: Yeah, it's nasty -- that's why guys like it! And I guess it feels good. I mean, boy dogs lick their own, right?

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RE: A crude question but a true curiosity.... - 1/28/2007 2:01:22 AM   
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Well, you've had more than a few dissenting opinions with enough meat to back up what they say, so I'll just say this....

Yeah, I sometimes rather enjoy a spot of the naughty, so to speak.  Pleasure is pleasure, no matter the form, as long as it's pleasing, yes?

I understand that some things creep people out.  You might find anything around your 'narrow passage' unsavory, some women don't like receiving oral pleasure.

Takes all kinds.

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RE: A crude question but a true curiosity.... - 1/28/2007 4:26:04 AM   
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quote:

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What percentage of Doms like stuff in their ass? I was having a discussion about hard limits, and it's one of mine. oh HEEELLLL no... but I just assumed that most Doms were that way. and the sub I was talking to said I might be wrong. I want to hear from the community at large..... help me win/lose an argument people.


The majority of subs and Doms (switches) I've had the pleasure to play with, are very much into anal play. Some had not experienced it before but were curious and once initiated, they want more.

Personally? Hell yes!

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RE: A crude question but a true curiosity.... - 1/28/2007 8:03:21 AM   
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Anal sex is associated with submission, so there is a definite cultural bias - "Fucked in the ass" is synonomous with "being taken advantage of" for example. It may be more the act of penetration itself, being associated with the female role, and so the aversion to it is going to be exponentially proportional to how superstitiously machismo the local male culture happens to be. Among theists, it's typically associated with homosexuality, even if it's between a man and a woman, again, based on  long standing atavistic superstition.

The bible only prohibits sex between men, it doesn't actually say anything about anal sex per se - the sin of Soddom and Gomorrah was idolatry, precipitated by an attempted homosexual rape. The whole business about sodomy is something that came about later, probobly adopted from the Romans, since early Christians were often gnostics, and practiced secret rites, which may have included Bonobo type orgying. In some gnostic mythologies, the resurrection of Lazarus was a gnostic initiation which included homosexual intercourse - Lazarus literally got his "eyes opened".

In truth, these superstitions probobly had some utility before the availability of modern hygenic practices and prophylactic measures in limiting pandemics of communicable diseases in densely populated areas, but it got a lot of impetus from the docterine of innate depravity through original sin, which seems to have instilled some pretty profound phobias about sexuality in general.

Deviod of this cultural baggage, it feels really good, and men have been doing it since time immemorial. It's almost always formally proscribed, and informally rampant - all it really boils down to is if you like it, do it, because these cultural superstitions are just that, abstractions, and it doesn't really mean anything, other than in strict terms of somatic stimulus - but  a lot of people get off on the breaking taboos, dirtiness, etc., part of it, which can add a measure of psychological stimulus.

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RE: A crude question but a true curiosity.... - 2/15/2007 3:00:27 PM   
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i am a dom that does things to my sub, nothing done to me unless i say so

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RE: A crude question but a true curiosity.... - 2/16/2007 9:06:54 AM   
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personel pref,, as for me  i dont even like haveing a prostate exam

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RE: A crude question but a true curiosity.... - 2/16/2007 9:14:58 AM   
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Two things I am ok with in my ass....1) your tongue...2) my poo.

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RE: A crude question but a true curiosity.... - 2/16/2007 9:17:52 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Exalaskan

What percentage of Doms like stuff in their ass? I was having a discussion about hard limits, and it's one of mine. oh HEEELLLL no... but I just assumed that most Doms were that way. and the sub I was talking to said I might be wrong. I want to hear from the community at large..... help me win/lose an argument people.


Again I think Ds is about authority not about activities.

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RE: A crude question but a true curiosity.... - 2/16/2007 9:43:33 AM   
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OOOOH good question! One I have always wanted to know the answer to.

In a lot of sex manuals, it is said a finger inside a man's butt feels wonderful to him. Like stick a finger or two as far as you can and rub back and forth. It massages the prostate.
Supposed to be especially pleasurable if done while giving him a blow job. Sucking him when he is standing, sucker is kneeling -- then reaching up under around back. I like the idea!

I have never had the nerve to try it!  
I want to very much, but have always been scared he would be offended or something.

Should a girl just go for it?

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RE: A crude question but a true curiosity.... - 2/16/2007 5:31:49 PM   
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hells no i don't want anythin up my ass. i want my stuff buried up someone elses ass. as often as possible

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RE: A crude question but a true curiosity.... - 2/16/2007 5:40:17 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Exalaskan

What percentage of Doms like stuff in their ass? I was having a discussion about hard limits, and it's one of mine. oh HEEELLLL no... but I just assumed that most Doms were that way. and the sub I was talking to said I might be wrong. I want to hear from the community at large..... help me win/lose an argument people.


I have experimented with stimulation of my ass by my ex and with a couple of submissives in terms of tongue and fingers up my ass.  One submissive knew just how to find my prostate and massage it while I was deep inside her and the times she did it on my command made my orgasm all the more pleasurable and forceful. 

As has been noted, there are all kinds of nerve endings there and stimulation of these nerves is exciting in its own manner.  Not something I would want done all the time but the occasional play along these endings is enjoyable.

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RE: A crude question but a true curiosity.... - 2/16/2007 5:54:31 PM   
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Whether it is me bent over and cuffed to a spanking table getting a strap-on up the wazoo or kneeling over a tied down sub and forcing her to lick where the sun don't shine, it's all good.  But then, I'm one of those evil switches, so I may not count in your statistics!

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RE: A crude question but a true curiosity.... - 2/16/2007 6:58:46 PM   
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I love both giving and receiving anal play.  I don't really see it as a dominance/submission thing.

- Jesse

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RE: A crude question but a true curiosity.... - 2/16/2007 7:08:24 PM   
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Part of it is simple homophobia. 

Part of it is the demonization of male sexuality in general.  Masturbating men are seen as "threatening" or "invasive," while masturbating women are seen as sexy (by both men AND women). 

Part of it is an odd trend among many het and pansexual groups to de-sexualize play parties - almost to the point of being prudish.

If the masturbating person is practicing good fluid control, is not harrassing others, and is not interfering in a scene, while worry about it?

- Jesse

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