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Denny17 -> RE: "What would you do to me?" (1/28/2007 9:55:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MzMia LOL I have come to accept most of the "submissive" men on here are do me's. Please don't flame me on this. I am entitled to MY opinion and that has been MY experience on collarme and other sites similar to this. I don't get pissed off any more, I just laugh. There is a reason I have not met anyone on here yet. Ma'am? I am here to serve you? What are you going to do to/for me? hahahahahahahahaha im not a do me submissive and i wont take a page to tell you. :there's a few die hard subs out here who want to do for you ladies and respect you ladies and who know you deserve to be treated like a lady

shamedmale -> RE: "What would you do to me?" (1/28/2007 10:20:56 AM)
i 100% agree with you, why do something you think might be degrading to yourself, people need to get a grip on themselves, your you, your not a fantasy fulfiller for someone else shamed

demistress -> RE: "What would you do to me?" (1/28/2007 10:51:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pixelslave quote: ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress Denny boys that swear and carry on negatively to a brother submissive as you are doing are not as attractive as the ones that can communicate their point of view with decorum. also you might want to stop saying you are desperate, because it makes you sound desperate.[;)] Thank you crouchingtigress. It appears you've said everything that needed to be said. I'm quite surprised to see it had no impact, despite it being posted by a Dominant Woman who has earned a great deal of respect among the members here as a result of her frequently very insightful and helpful posts on the boards here at CM. [&:] I'm truly disappointed to see the disrespect you have been shown as a result of your quoted post above. [image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m23.gif[/image] - pixel I have nothing but respect for Amy, and also for you Pixel, but to be honest, Denny really hit the spirit of the post more on the head. While I do not by any means condone the language he used, his outrage at those who waste my (and other domme's) time is actually appreciated. I am not looking for someone seeking to explore submission unless they're going to pay for the time I spend training them. I come to the forums to ask for and to give advice, I sometimes direct those with questions, or just starting out over to this side of the site. And FYI, I don't just hit "block" immediately. I very tersely tell them to read my profile, and sometimes I am gracious enough to link them to an example first session with me, but if they don't read my profile, aren't willing to take the time to read the session description, there is no way I'm going to personally and descriptively answer such a broad question. I have no problem being direct and answering direct questions, but that question is a sure sign of a lazy, self-centered person, which for me, is something a GOOD sub cannot be.

DiurnalVampire -> RE: "What would you do to me?" (1/28/2007 10:58:51 AM)
Being way late on getting in on this party: My response to the OP: They usually dont like my answer. I say (blanket response) that I cant answer that until I get to know someone. EVery sub or slave is different, and I cant know what I might or might not like until I know the perosnality I am dealing with. DV

LadyEllen -> RE: "What would you do to me?" (1/28/2007 12:48:30 PM)
Seems an apposite thread on which to wheel out my old favourite... Him; "Mistress, if I were your slave, what would you do to me?" Her; "Sell you" E

KaramelGoddess -> RE: "What would you do to me?" (1/28/2007 4:45:29 PM)
LMAO, can I use that one?!?!?! With kind regard, ~Kara

LadyEllen -> RE: "What would you do to me?" (1/28/2007 5:07:09 PM)
Hi KG - of course! I cant possibly claim it as mine anyway - its such an obvious one that someone somewhere must have come up with it before! E

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: "What would you do to me?" (1/28/2007 7:16:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: demistress Anyone else get totally pissed off when someone (even someone you've liked up to that point) asks this question? I admit I hate the "what would you do to me question" because 99.9% of the time it comes from someone wanting hot/kinky wank fodder talk on the computer, and I'm fairly boring in trying to connect with another typist on a computer. I will talk about anything with someone I consider a friend, but kink talk with random strangers has simply always indicated a fundamental incompatibility between myself and the man asking... The reason is that I'm not in this for the play factor; I'm in it for the relationship possibility, and the man who's primary focus is on what I would do to him is definitely not the right man for me. My profile includes those things that interest me, so as to indicate to the ultra hip kinkster who hangs around naked in chains 24hours/day that we aren't a match; and since domination and submission have little to do with what one would specifically do, I usually end the conversation at that point (of what would you do to me) or tell him to read my profile one more time before asking me the next question. M

undergroundsea -> RE: "What would you do to me?" (1/28/2007 9:34:37 PM)
When you ask someone what they will do, you are leaving it all in their hands. Wouldn't it be better to say, hey, will you do this to me? ;-) Cheers, Sea

undergroundsea -> RE: "What would you do to me?" (1/28/2007 9:41:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyEllen Him; "Mistress, if I were your slave, what would you do to me?" Her; "Sell you" Him: (licking his lips) so will I be put on an auction block where women will come inspect me as is done with cattle? And will I be sold for a humiliating low price? Her: Yes. However, I cannot guarantee the women part. You see, the auction is at a gay leathermen fundraiser. Him: <long silence> but if the auction was for women, and a woman bought me, what do you think she would do to me? ;-) Cheers, Sea

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: "What would you do to me?" (1/28/2007 9:47:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: undergroundsea Him: (licking his lips) so will I be put on an auction block where women will come inspect me as is done with cattle? And will I be sold for a humiliating low price? Her: Yes. However, I cannot guarantee the women part. You see, the auction is at a gay leathermen fundraiser. Him: <long silence> but if the auction was for women, and a woman bought me, what do you think she would do to me? Sea [sm=biggrin.gif] LOL. As for the question of "would you do this to me?", it's the next question once a woman refuses to effectively respond to the "what would you do to me?" [:'(] M

undergroundsea -> RE: "What would you do to me?" (1/28/2007 9:56:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig As for the question of "would you do this to me?", it's the next question once a woman refuses to effectively respond to the "what would you do to me?" [:'(] M But that question can be dismissed with a simple yes or no. I think they need to stick with open-ended questions and ask, how do you feel about doing this to me? ;-) Cheers, Sea

demistress -> RE: "What would you do to me?" (1/28/2007 10:23:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: undergroundsea But that question can be dismissed with a simple yes or no. I think they need to stick with open-ended questions and ask, how do you feel about doing this to me? How about responding: "I feel like I want to puke, are you into consuming roman showers?"

undergroundsea -> RE: "What would you do to me?" (1/28/2007 11:07:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: demistress quote: ORIGINAL: undergroundsea But that question can be dismissed with a simple yes or no. I think they need to stick with open-ended questions and ask, how do you feel about doing this to me? How about responding: "I feel like I want to puke, are you into consuming roman showers?" Now that could be construed as an answer to the first question: what would you do to them ;-) Cheers, Sea

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: "What would you do to me?" (1/28/2007 11:15:02 PM)
quote: Now that could be construed as an answer to the first question: what would you do to them ;-) Sea Why do I get the feeling you're getting a lil perverse pleasure in playing the bad boy/devil's advocate here sea? [sm=crop.gif] M

TxBlkMistress -> RE: "What would you do to me?" (1/28/2007 11:26:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyEllen Seems an apposite thread on which to wheel out my old favourite... Him; "Mistress, if I were your slave, what would you do to me?" Her; "Sell you" E lol....too perfect....hope you don't want royalties, cause I'm gonna have to steal that one....lol

TxBlkMistress -> RE: "What would you do to me?" (1/28/2007 11:30:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig quote: Now that could be construed as an answer to the first question: what would you do to them ;-) Sea Why do I get the feeling you're getting a lil perverse pleasure in playing the bad boy/devil's advocate here sea? [sm=crop.gif] M lol...just what I was thinking....baaaaaad little devil....lol

undergroundsea -> RE: "What would you do to me?" (1/29/2007 12:45:36 AM)
I admit to enjoying perverse pleasures. However, that is the extent of the admission I make ;-) Cheers, Sea

GirlyDevil -> RE: "What would you do to me?" (1/29/2007 9:07:56 AM)
I hate it when someone asks me this, and than they continue to ask why?? Kind of like a 2 year old. [:@]

pixelslave -> RE: "What would you do to me?" (1/29/2007 11:11:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: demistress I have nothing but respect for Amy, and also for you Pixel, but to be honest, Denny really hit the spirit of the post more on the head. While I do not by any means condone the language he used, his outrage at those who waste my (and other domme's) time is actually appreciated. I am not looking for someone seeking to explore submission unless they're going to pay for the time I spend training them. I come to the forums to ask for and to give advice, I sometimes direct those with questions, or just starting out over to this side of the site. And FYI, I don't just hit "block" immediately. I very tersely tell them to read my profile, and sometimes I am gracious enough to link them to an example first session with me, but if they don't read my profile, aren't willing to take the time to read the session description, there is no way I'm going to personally and descriptively answer such a broad question. I have no problem being direct and answering direct questions, but that question is a sure sign of a lazy, self-centered person, which for me, is something a GOOD sub cannot be. demistress, If you read my reply to your OP again I think you'll find that I wasn't suggesting in any manner that you respond to "do me questions" with anything specific. If you wanted a "rant thread", that's certainly your perogative. However, I don't think it helps anyone who needs to learn how to approach a Mistress, learn a whole lot of what they need to do - including the "how to's" and the "how not to's". [&:] Most men seem to respond to rants by moving on without reading them. If not, a certain word automatically pops into their minds that I'd rather not repeat, after which they dismiss the post, and then move on anyway. My point being, its my opinion, that to direct a man here to read the forums, doesn't serve a lot of purpose if they're full of rants, instead of usefull information presented in a manner that will be read and easily absorbed. [8\|] - pixel

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