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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

I have always thought segal was hot as hell.

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ORIGINAL: cjenny

*sits quietly while trying to pick off her Dry Clean Only label*

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

Uhm, that was sarcasm....I thought the acronmyn ASS was a dead giveaway but I guess not.

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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

Umm..
Isn't D/s without any BDSM (discipline, ect), just the plain old fashioned dynamic?
Why bother to consider it dominance and submission if you aren't adding any other portion of bdsm?
Why can't some nilla's be ok just being themselves?  There isn't a thing wrong with wanting to take a back seat to your mates decision.  AND people have been doing it for years, without needing to label it.
Kyst

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I am totally sickened by those who would try to create a division in something they profess to believe in.  Unfortunately most don't belong to One Higher Being and they refuse to be categorized as if this website and the sister website existed for nothing.....I tell you it sickens me.

Everyone jokes, everyone plays games with the N00Bs, everyone does not give the time of day to someone who is asking, like "please replenish the ranks", FUCK YOU, WHAT DO YOU KNOW!????.

I am getting sick of this entire fascade.  No one is asking the very plaintiffs of the most philisophical regions of the mind.  But yet no one wants to tell anyone what they actually think unless they are most extrapolated from the positive and isolated from the negative.

YOU ALL SUCK YOU MUTHAf**********erS.,

Step up before I really lose my nuts and chastise you all..... And I will until I am banned.

Obey1

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ORIGINAL: MasterGremlin

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ORIGINAL: SirKenin

N/nobody I/is P/putting L/labels O/on A/anybody.  S/someone I/is J/just T/trying T/to F/figure O/out W/where D/s F/fits I/into T/the W/whole P/picture.

And mocking my respect for A/all is how You would answer?

If You read carefully, You will notice that I didn't say A/anyone was putting labels on O/others.  

Sincerely,
minxy [:)]

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

it is not about you, a local group, a national group, or people with pitchforks chasing lifestylers around. Perhaps that sounds somewhat selfcentered to you, and perhaps it is... I just find other things more pressing for my time, like my unmentionable, my Daddy, my education, my job, my friends, my extended family.

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ORIGINAL: obey1

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

it is not about you, a local group, a national group, or people with pitchforks chasing lifestylers around. Perhaps that sounds somewhat selfcentered to you, and perhaps it is... I just find other things more pressing for my time, like my unmentionable, my Daddy, my education, my job, my friends, my extended family.

OMG I love the pitchforks!  It is so sexy and talks to the B/tD/s/S/m/M/m in ALLLLLL OF US!

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ORIGINAL: SirKenin

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ORIGINAL: MasterGremlin

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ORIGINAL: SirKenin

N/nobody I/is P/putting L/labels O/on A/anybody.  S/someone I/is J/just T/trying T/to F/figure O/out W/where D/s F/fits I/into T/the W/whole P/picture.

And mocking my respect for A/all is how You would answer?

If You read carefully, You will notice that I didn't say A/anyone was putting labels on O/others.  

Sincerely,
minxy [:)]

It is not respect.  It is noobishness.  I have respect for people, B/but I/i D/do N/not T/type L/like T/this.

And I am not a You.  I am a you.  I am not exactly royalty or God or anything.  I used to like capitalizing Me, but even that I got tired of after a while.  My suggestion is to lose the caps, because you are not proving anything nor demonstrating anything other than the fact that you are a noob.  K?

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ORIGINAL: MasterGremlin
So what you are saying is that following what my Master has told me to do and showing respect in the form I was taught is "noob"?  (whatever the hell that means).  Don't worry, I will refrain from showing respect to "you" since "you" obviously have none for me. 
Sincerely,
minxy

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ORIGINAL: obey1


Oh, geez.  So no labels, ever?  Damn!  That's the whole reason I got into this ASS/Wiitwd/BDSM because I have a whole package of post it notes that have no purpose!

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ORIGINAL: MasterGremlin

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ORIGINAL: SirKenin

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ORIGINAL: MasterGremlin

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ORIGINAL: SirKenin

N/nobody I/is P/putting L/labels O/on A/anybody.  S/someone I/is J/just T/trying T/to F/figure O/out W/where D/s F/fits I/into T/the W/whole P/picture.

And mocking my respect for A/all is how You would answer?

If You read carefully, You will notice that I didn't say A/anyone was putting labels on O/others.  

Sincerely,
minxy [:)]

It is not respect.  It is noobishness.  I have respect for people, B/but I/i D/do N/not T/type L/like T/this.

And I am not a You.  I am a you.  I am not exactly royalty or God or anything.  I used to like capitalizing Me, but even that I got tired of after a while.  My suggestion is to lose the caps, because you are not proving anything nor demonstrating anything other than the fact that you are a noob.  K?

So what you are saying is that following what my Master has told me to do and showing respect in the form I was taught is "noob"?  (whatever the hell that means).  Don't worry, I will refrain from showing respect to "you" since "you" obviously have none for me. 
Sincerely,
minxy

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

I do not get what you are upset about.

I do not get what you are so non-chalant about.

Who is this "everyone" you speak of? There is only one "us" in my life, my Dom and me, the rest of you really do not matter other than in some ephemeral way that all human beings matter to me.

So then why do you post here and even care about this community?  What is your interest in us?

There are many causes to take up the mantle for in this world, and how I express my sexuality just is not a mantle I want to take up. I would be more likely to take up the cause of Gay marriage than WIITWD, but that is just me.

See?  You give your opinion as well.  That is what we are all doing here.

People should live their lives in a way that pleases them, and they should not feel a compunction to replenish ranks as though they owe some obligation to you or anyone else. We do not owe anyone any part of our lives unless we have made some sort of direct commitment to that, and if people do not want to replenish ranks, they shouldn't have to.

6226 posts and counting sounds like a pretty long term commitment to SOMETHING to me.  How many of your posts have given any form of your opinion, WIIT-YOU-D, or some kind of ongoing commitment to help others either understand, or to underhandedly replenish the ranks of people who are seeking to gain more experience in our little 'mantle' of the world?

For some of us it is about our personal relationship and what exists there, that is our priority, not an external group outside of ourselves. ... it is not about you, a local group, a national group, or people ... I just find other things more pressing for my time, like my ...friends, my extended family.

I paraphrased here to show that you DO understand and get what I was upset about.  Whoever your friends or extended family are, they merit your time.  The implication of 'family' in the matter implies replenishing the ranks through extension, marriage, or inclusion.  It is too bad that after six thousand two hundred posts this concept eludes you.  Your actions speak louder than your words.  Whether or not it is 'important' to you, by being so prolific you accomplish something that you have no interest in accomplishing.

I have a Ds relationship, we play by engaging in BDSM and other extraneous kinks. It is not rocket science.