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RE: need help getting a slave - 1/30/2007 4:42:04 PM

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Jewel is having a buy one get one free sale.

Twins!!!! Sweet.

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RE: need help getting a slave - 1/30/2007 4:43:47 PM

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I may not be gaining any enlightenment here today but the entertainment factor is improving.

I agree!

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oh my god that was so wrong! .... again please!

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RE: need help getting a slave - 1/30/2007 4:45:05 PM

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I know a guy whose next door neighbors hair dressers mechanic's brother-in-law found one in a box of Cracker Jacks, but it took him forever to get the sticky popcorn outta her hoo hah.

*Falls out of chair laughing* Thank you I needed that laugh!

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RE: need help getting a slave - 1/30/2007 4:47:10 PM

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You betcha. Better hurry tho...once they are gone...they're GONE!

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RE: need help getting a slave - 1/30/2007 4:53:27 PM

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the problem im having is i cant seem to get a slave. how can i go about getting one

Check SlavesRUs?

Seriously though, you're 19. You need to figure out what exactly you want, you need to learn about WIITWD, read books like The Loving Dominant, Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns, Consensual Sadomasochism, The Topping Book and others...they will give you some basic understanding and help you discover what works for you. With few exceptions you don't just advertise for a slave and pick one right away. It's going to take time to both find what you're looking for and find one who's compatible and wants to submit to you. It's not all fantasy stuff. There's non-kink things to work out too. If you can find a TNG group in your area, that would help. Getting involved in the local bdsm community would provide friends and chances to learn things, etc., though most are 21+.

Also, as mentioned, filling out your profile with some about you and choosing a nic without horney in it might increase your chances of finding what you seek.

Just my thoughts on it.

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RE: need help getting a slave - 1/30/2007 4:56:23 PM

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I know a guy whose next door neighbors hair dressers mechanic's brother-in-law found one in a box of Cracker Jacks, but it took him forever to get the sticky popcorn outta her hoo hah.

Now that was hilarious! Thanks for the laugh.

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RE: need help getting a slave - 1/30/2007 4:59:13 PM

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When i was younger my grandfather took me to the woods and he put a cardboard box upside down on the ground. He then took a stick and tied a long string around it and propped the box up on one end with the stick and threw carrots under the box and we hid behind a tree until a rabbit went under the box. With a quick pull of the string the box fell over the rabbit and we caught it. i suggest you try the same thing but instead of carrots use a collar and hand cuffs. And when a slave crawls under the box to get them PULL YOUR STRING

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RE: need help getting a slave - 1/30/2007 5:46:47 PM

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When you send out pictures of your cock, make sure it has a ribbon with a pretty bow on it. Chicks love stuff like that!

Most definately!! I almost have enough cock shots to complete my book titled " The great cocks of the world"; This of course will be a nice big coffee table book in full color that will include the e-mail that they sent along with it.

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RE: need help getting a slave - 1/30/2007 5:53:57 PM

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You might also want to work on the confidence. It doesnt look good to a prospect to see you asking for advice on howto get a slave on here. If you are going to be controling someone, you need to figure out for yourself how and who to get and keep
There are no shortcuts... if there were thered be no single Dominants

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RE: need help getting a slave - 1/30/2007 11:40:50 PM

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OK OK I'll post a cock pic!!!

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RE: need help getting a slave - 2/2/2007 9:01:43 AM

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awee poor thing lmao Too funny

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When i was younger my grandfather took me to the woods and he put a cardboard box upside down on the ground. He then took a stick and tied a long string around it and propped the box up on one end with the stick and threw carrots under the box and we hid behind a tree until a rabbit went under the box. With a quick pull of the string the box fell over the rabbit and we caught it. i suggest you try the same thing but instead of carrots use a collar and hand cuffs. And when a slave crawls under the box to get them PULL YOUR STRING

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RE: need help getting a slave - 2/2/2007 9:35:15 AM

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OK you have been taking quite a beating here but there has been some worthwhile advice that I hope to add to.

Accept that the search could take a long time.

Ask yourself “why am I worthy” and hone those traits?
Why not?
Are you qualified for the position of dominant?
Do you have your act together?
Desire is not sufficient. What can you deliver?
Start there and don’t rush.
And now that you are old enough to do so. Shave.

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RE: need help getting a slave - 2/2/2007 1:23:06 PM

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Your problem is the same as the way you wrote this post. No style no class! Just I want.....What do you have to offer a slave for her service if you are going to find someone that wants to be in BDSM. Your only other option is to travel to Eastern Europe or Southeast Asia find some human trafficers and buy one.

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RE: need help getting a slave - 2/2/2007 2:13:20 PM

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HEY Do you have some addresses in E Europe or SE Asia where I can go to get one of those ladies!!???

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RE: need help getting a slave - 2/2/2007 2:19:16 PM

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the problem im having is i cant seem to get a slave. how can i go about getting one

I don't know about you but I am writing Scooterclause to get a clone of Twice.

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RE: need help getting a slave - 2/2/2007 3:51:24 PM

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Definitely ditch the nick.

You might to a read a couple books, The Loving Dominant, Screw the Roses, etc., and check out a local club. The Chicago area is has a thriving BDSM community from what I understand.

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RE: need help getting a slave - 2/2/2007 4:51:38 PM

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I am with Loki she is cool

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RE: need help getting a slave - 2/2/2007 7:09:41 PM

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While you are reading the basic books, going to munches,
improving your profile and meeting people, get some new
photographs taken.

The one on your profile makes you look stoned, drunk or
hung-over.

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RE: need help getting a slave - 2/2/2007 7:50:22 PM

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Dear hrnybrdgvwby, Ladies and Gentlemen;

Slaves like Masters just don't pop out of the air.

What I would like to know from you, why do you seek slaves to begin with?

What do you expect from slaves? And, I don't wish to hear some fantasy player that thinks slaves will support a teenager's lazy butt, that won't get off their butt and work, grow up and learn how to behave like a man.

What qualities do you have that would create a safe, healthy and comfortable place to serve, such as a home?

From what I can see, sex is on the brain and perhaps treating slaves like prostitutes, that you'll be a player and hurt these slaves in many different ways. Those with some knowledge, know full well its not all about sex. Its not all about telling people what to do. It has everything to do with honorable intentions and taking care of others, to include the slaves, sometimes take care of slaves before yourself.

Just some thoughts.

Respectfully submitted for consideration,
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RE: need help getting a slave - 2/2/2007 9:39:54 PM

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the problem im having is i cant seem to get a slave. how can i go about getting one

YES I have to agre. You need to start over on your profile ,pic and and just YOU IN general. If you want a good sub, You've got to be a good master. You'll get what you put into looking.That's the way it works on anything.

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