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RE: need help getting a slave - 2/3/2007 3:25:00 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		When I was new... I asked for help learning before I moved to considering owning someone. Had he asked for information on HOW to handle a slave, or where to go to learn about the lifestyle and such, then things might have been different.  However all he asked was how to find a slave.  There is no learning curve there.
If you want to learn, ask things that wil help you grow in the lfiestyle, and will help you in your skills.  THEN and only then, once you know a bit more about what you want or like, then you look to own.  AS Someone has said here before, you cannot master someone else until you have mastered yourself. (not sure where I heard that, but I know it was here)


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RE: need help getting a slave - 2/3/2007 3:44:09 PM   
mymasterssub69


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it seems OP wants everyone to do the work for him while he'll reap the rewards in the end. besides does anyone know what he's looking for in a slave?  has he stated if this will be a ltr or live-in? unless he's looking for minor UM to fall from the sky, he's getting no help from me.


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RE: need help getting a slave - 2/3/2007 4:12:37 PM   
tml721


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Status: offline 		Good, Master's Sub, then we won't hear froim you again. I believe you're reading too much into something that isn't even there!!!

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RE: need help getting a slave - 2/3/2007 4:13:02 PM   
RavenMuse


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quote:

ORIGINAL: tml721

I think some people need to get off the kid's back as well. He's young and inexperienced and I want to know what person here WAS NOT AT ONE TIME IN THE SAME PLACE!!?????


I can honestly say I was NEVER that stupidy dangerous... so NO I was NEVER in that same place. His entire attitude marks him as a train wreck waiting to happen... hopefully the responce here will be a wake up call and either send him back to vanilla and/or roleplaying in his moms basement OR, but I am less hopeful, get Him to do the work on Himself needed to NOT be comming at this from such a dangerous angle and attitude. He doesn't want a person, he wants a fantasy, a walking rubber doll, one that will SOON end up needing a puncture repair kit because He not only obviously hasn't the mind set to avoid the damage... but clearly doesn't CARE about learning how to avoid damage. The lack of effort, the approach and the question all point to someone totaly unsuited..... I've seen them before am I have never been wrong yet, not ONE of that type as surprized Me.... I wish I could say I hoped this one will... I can't


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RE: need help getting a slave - 2/3/2007 4:15:51 PM   
tml721


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Status: offline 		Ravenmuse, that was you then. This is someone else now.

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RE: need help getting a slave - 2/3/2007 4:22:10 PM   
DominaSmartass


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From: This month? Maryland
Status: offline 		With a profile and picture like yours I can't see why the slaves aren't falling over themselves to get to you...

Seriously though, you're 19...why should young women be ready to serve and obey you? I'm not saying you don't already have 12 years of bdsm experience under your belt, but if so, you need to demonstrate it somehow. There is no man of any age who can have your profile and expect to get any positive response. Do some reading, talk to people, go to real life groups, do anything to educate yourself about what mastery and slavery are about. Also, I would start out just trying to find someone you like and are attracted to to dabble in power exchange with.

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RE: need help getting a slave - 2/3/2007 4:29:07 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		tml, have you made this your private crusade? Let the OP say something with 4 pages worth of banter, he has been strangely quiet.
If he needs defending, let him come on and defend himself. IF he is apreciating some of whats being said, let him say so.  Hoever, until he comes back and says something somehow, I dont see where this thread is going to get. We dont know what he wants, becasue he hasnt said much

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RE: need help getting a slave - 2/3/2007 4:35:39 PM   
mymasterssub69


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Status: offline 		what a bloody wank

it was there clear as day - surprised you didn't see it


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RE: need help getting a slave - 2/3/2007 5:07:44 PM   
MadRabbit


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Status: offline 		I've made a few assassine posts, written a few things where I have later gone back and said to myself "What the hell was I thinking? I should have thought that one threw a lot better!" It was a bit of a hard pill to swallow when I got bitched slapped around this message board or another one. Unfortanely we have to make complete asses out of ourselves sometimes to learn anything. Rather than look at it is an insult or failure, I tried to look at it as an oppurtunity.

But thats just me. I come from 8 years in a buisness where you burn a 30 dollar steak and the chef hurls a saute' pan at you and reminds you of how much of a whore your mother is. Eventually, you stop learning to burn steaks. I dont wish anyone to go threw that and certainly dont want to be that kind of dominant, but I ended up with a pretty thick skin and not too bad of a forte of chef skills. (Though I dont think anyone needs 8 years of hell in the culinary underbelly to deal with the simple truth that people arent very nice on the Internet)

When I started to venture out into the BDSM world, my approach was "This is what I want, this is my goal, this is kind of the relationship I need....and I have absolutely zero idea what I am doing." I still really dont have a complete idea of what I am doing yet, but enough of a grounding to actually consider looking and trying.

So I dont really have any sympathy for him. It would be different if I was sure he didnt have the mentality of a frat boy with a bottle of roofies.

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RE: need help getting a slave - 2/3/2007 5:09:37 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		Here is the trick; make all your posts asinine, that way they can't fault you.




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RE: need help getting a slave - 2/3/2007 5:09:43 PM   
tml721


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Status: offline 		NO but it seems as though EVERYONE ELSE HAS!!!! Geeze I'd think 4 pages is enough of anything for anyone. apparently NOT!!!!

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RE: need help getting a slave - 2/3/2007 5:12:53 PM   
tml721


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Status: offline 		Besides, Its saturday night, I'm bored and have no sub to have fun with!! SUE ME!!!

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RE: need help getting a slave - 2/3/2007 5:15:04 PM   
gooddogbenji


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Status: offline 		Nope.  You can never call someone a jackass often enough.

And no, I was never quite so stupid myself, either.  Have seen lots, particularily online, but I was not one of them.

Yours,


benji

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RE: need help getting a slave - 2/3/2007 5:17:02 PM   
tml721


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Status: offline 		OK JackASS!!!

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RE: need help getting a slave - 2/3/2007 5:25:29 PM   
gooddogbenji


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Status: offline 		LOL

Although I have the strange feeling you did not mean it as facetiously as I did, but it was still funny.

Yours,


benji

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RE: need help getting a slave - 2/3/2007 5:42:16 PM   
tml721


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Status: offline 		of course not!! You put it out there so I took the bait!! I'm a sucker for that kind of stuff!! hehehe
why don't they send donkeys to college?? Cause no one likes a SMART ASS!!!!

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RE: need help getting a slave - 2/3/2007 6:25:12 PM   
gooddogbenji


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Status: offline 		Yeah, but no one likes a dum one, either.

So really, asses are just generally shit out of luck.

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RE: need help getting a slave - 2/3/2007 6:28:19 PM   
LaTigresse


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quote:

ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

Yeah, but no one likes a dum one, either.

So really, asses are just generally shit out of luck.

Yours,


benji


Depends on who you ask in that other thread.......and then there's the toothbrush


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RE: need help getting a slave - 2/3/2007 7:53:54 PM   
tml721


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Status: offline 		an ass is an ass is an ass!!! se la ve!!!!

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RE: need help getting a slave - 2/4/2007 5:43:15 AM   
puella


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Status: offline 		Just to contribute my own portion of assy behavior to this precious thread...

The French phrase is actually "c'est la vie", or that which literally translated means, that is the life (etymologically speaking, the word for the way and the word for the life are often entwined in various languages, though that has somewhat lost its relevancy in modern language).... It is often a rather wise practice to not attempt being impressive by tossing out phrases in languages you do not speak... One should always attempt to master the one they are most familiar with first.

And besides, the nick, the profile and the first question ever posted.... all indicate that this is just some kid looking to get his leg over as many easy chicks who will not require him to either be a good lover, at all responsible for his behavior, or a stimulating, encouraging and intriguing partner as he possibly can.  Hey, that's what it means to be a Dom, right?

I am getting crotchety in my old age.

< Message edited by puella -- 2/4/2007 5:45:22 AM >

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