LadyTantalize
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Although, I am in line with much of the thoughts of Elise Sutton, who is a Female Supremacist and who feels that many (not all, but many) men do have an inate need and desire for "love female authority". Possibly this need relates back to the womb or even infancy, and could even have serious mother-related or lack there-of issues involved with the reasonings, but I do think in many ways it can be true ---- that MOST men do have a desire to experience "loving female authority".
I have much respect for many of your posts LadyT, but that last statement, in my opinion, is completely inaccurate. I say that because:
1) I don't think that most submissive men want just any female authority but rather want to pick the woman they want to submit too, in which case only one woman is "supreme" to them, not the female gender as a whole
2) I don't think that most men are submissive. I don't think that most men are dominant. I don't know if there is a way we can accurately determine who is what in which context and determine a majority -- everything is simply speculation.
3) The Freudian mother-related issue (if you chose to buy into it) is counterbalanced by all the girls who didn't have a father figure and need a "daddy". So that would create an equal Male Supremacy league.
When a strong, sane and stable man submits to a woman, he submits to her and not the whole gender. A man that would submit to just any woman that comes along because she is "supreme" has some serious issues to deal with that span way beyond Freudian theories.
- LA
Thank you Lady Angelika. Possibly inaccurate conjecture, but also just My opinion!!! Maybe it's just a surmised semi-opinion based on My experiences where it seems that men of all walks... vanilla, sub, Dom, bottom, top, seem to contact Me and want to experience female domination in private due to hidden, yet very deep, inner desires. Anyway, again, this is just a personal opinion, as inaccurate as it may be!
Soooooo, some replies to Your thoughts......
1) I don't think that most submissive men want just any female authority but rather want to pick the woman they want to submit too, in which case only one woman is "supreme" to them, not the female gender as a whole.
I don't think I stated that they wanted to submit to just any woman walking down the street, did I? I just I feel that MANY (not all, possibly not even "most", but many men) do have these deep, inner thoughts or desires. And while many might not admit it, many DO have inner desires to experience a degree of "loving female authority" be it from their wife, mother, loved one, stranger, ProDomme or special some one.
2) I don't think that most men are submissive. I don't think that most men are dominant. I don't know if there is a way we can accurately determine who is what in which context and determine a majority -- everything is simply speculation.
True, 'tis all speculation but neither do I feel a man MUST be submissive or dominant, or even kinky to want to experience "loving female authority". Some in line with Female Authoritists thinking feel that it's much like the need for hibernation in animals, or migratory patterns of birds, it's innate. Hey, again I'm just going from My personal experiences and communications! It's across the board - all types, occupations, creeds, whatever - if I were to poll those who contact Me - it's a wide spectrum from submissive men with the goal of ultimate slavery, to kinky men wanting to submit only in a scene, to vanilla men who've had an "inner need" to be experience such, to dominant men who also experience such a need but cannot admit to such publically.... from power-brokers to slave-sluts to Male Doms even - they've all called. Granted, I'm out there publically, so they do contact Me of course. But, it's just been amazing to Me that even in a vanilla setting a man will make a comment (how does he know - am I wearing a sign?), or even some Male Doms who meet Me then contact Me privately later, some I've known years who then come out and say "Damn, I have to find out about these thoughts", men who are not submissive, anyway..... it's just been My experience to soooooooo many men seem to crave a woman, a special woman who can, even if just occassionally, give him some degree of "loving female authority". So, again, this is just My personal opinions here!!
3) The Freudian mother-related issue (if you chose to buy into it) is counterbalanced by all the girls who didn't have a father figure and need a "daddy". So that would create an equal Male Supremacy league.
Ummm, possibly for some. But, I feel men and women are very different in their subconscious - some men need a "mommy figure" and some women need a "daddy" and if such needs are lived in a mentally healthy manner, I've no problem with such rationale. And, for many, like the Goreans, there is a whole Male Superiority thing going on! And, might I mention I've had a few Gorean Masters contact Me also! *chuckle*
Again, when I mentioned that it's My personal opinion that "most men have an inner desire to experience "loving female authority" never did I say a man must be submissive nor must he submit to the whole female race. I merely muse upon My personal experiences that men from all walks of life, many who do not even consider themselves "kinky" nor submissive, do have this inner desire.
Thanks for the comments!! I do love it when opposing opinions can be shared in a constructive and positive manmer!!!!!
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Truly, Lady T.
Lady Tatiana Tantalize
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