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ABCs of being a submissive - 2/3/2007 11:19:46 PM   
slscsi


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Status: offline 		This girl ACCEPTS Your collar making You her Master

This girl BELIEVES in You,

This girl COMES to You of her own free will

This girl DEDICATES her life to serve You always and in all ways

This girl EMBRACES all that You will teach her

This girl FOLLOWS all rules set for her

This girl GIVES to You her heart, mind, body and soul

This girl HOLDS You in her heart and mind at all times

This girl IDENTIFIES herself as Your slave and only Yours

This girl JOYFULLY obeys her Master at all times

This girl KNOWS the truth and that she is Yours

This girl LOVES her Master with all her heart

This girl MOTIVATES thru her Master’s Will

This girl NOURISHES her soul through her Master

This girl OBEYS every order her Master gives her

This girl PROMISES she will always make Him proud of her

This girl QUIETLY awaits her Master’s orders

This girl RESPECTFULLY accepts all actions her Master gives and does

This girl SURRENDERS herself to her Master

This girl TRUSTS her Master with her whole heart

This girl UNDERSTANDS the repercussions of her actions

This girl VALUES her Master’s life

This girl WANTS to always WEAR his collar proudly and always please her Master

This girl X ’s her name off the available list as she is now owned

This girl YEARNS to belong to him forever

This girl ZIPS thru life knowing her Master loves her and owns her totally
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RE: ABCs of being a submissive - 2/3/2007 11:21:39 PM   
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RE: ABCs of being a submissive - 2/3/2007 11:32:27 PM   
Siona


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Status: offline 		Nicely done!

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RE: ABCs of being a submissive - 2/3/2007 11:37:46 PM   
BitaTruble


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Status: offline 		If only it were really that simple.

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RE: ABCs of being a submissive - 2/4/2007 12:02:00 AM   
cjenny


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Status: offline 		A little confusing for me, the topic was entitled ABC's of being a submissive yet it seems more a list for slaves. Masters are mentioned yet not Dominants. The reason for confusion is that there usually lies a difference between M/s and D/s relationships. Please I hope that doesn't turn this into what is a slave vs. what is a submissive, that is not my intent!


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RE: ABCs of being a submissive - 2/4/2007 12:03:56 AM   
Noah


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quote:

ORIGINAL: slscsi

This girl ACCEPTS Your collar making You her Master

This girl BELIEVES in You,

This girl COMES to You of her own free will

This girl DEDICATES her life to serve You always and in all ways

This girl EMBRACES all that You will teach her

This girl FOLLOWS all rules set for her

This girl GIVES to You her heart, mind, body and soul

This girl HOLDS You in her heart and mind at all times

This girl IDENTIFIES herself as Your slave and only Yours

This girl JOYFULLY obeys her Master at all times

This girl KNOWS the truth and that she is Yours

This girl LOVES her Master with all her heart

This girl MOTIVATES thru her Master’s Will

This girl NOURISHES her soul through her Master

This girl OBEYS every order her Master gives her

This girl PROMISES she will always make Him proud of her

This girl QUIETLY awaits her Master’s orders

This girl RESPECTFULLY accepts all actions her Master gives and does

This girl SURRENDERS herself to her Master

This girl TRUSTS her Master with her whole heart

This girl UNDERSTANDS the repercussions of her actions

This girl VALUES her Master’s life

This girl WANTS to always WEAR his collar proudly and always please her Master

This girl X ’s her name off the available list as she is now owned

This girl YEARNS to belong to him forever

This girl ZIPS thru life knowing her Master loves her and owns her totally



The list for dominants is thankfully much shorter.

This guy CAPITALIZES all the letters in the third word of every sentence.

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RE: ABCs of being a submissive - 2/4/2007 12:18:56 AM   
BitaTruble


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quote:

ORIGINAL: cjenny

A little confusing for me, the topic was entitled ABC's of being a submissive yet it seems more a list for slaves. Masters are mentioned yet not Dominants. The reason for confusion is that there usually lies a difference between M/s and D/s relationships. Please I hope that doesn't turn this into what is a slave vs. what is a submissive, that is not my intent!



Either way, I read that OP as a complete fantasy for cookie cutter submission. Oh sure, there will be some who can embrace all that stuff and because they do they are submissive: they've met the test of submission .. but there are many more who will read that.. and say, damn, I just can't do D, F, P and Q so I must 'not' be a submissive and they'll just give up and I find that sad. I'm a bit prejudiced because of the 3rd person nature of it as well and freely admit that may color my view of the piece as a whole, but over all, it's someone, once again, putting out 'a' way as 'the' way and that just doesn't work for me.

Celeste

< Message edited by BitaTruble -- 2/4/2007 12:30:54 AM >

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RE: ABCs of being a submissive - 2/4/2007 12:26:18 AM   
slavejali


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Status: offline 		My mom wrote me a birthday card like that once, using each letter of my name as the start of a sentence, I was really surprised at her artistic bent at the time and I was only about 10. She used it to give me advice to live by...nice hey :)

Anyways thats what your post reminded me of, some nice artistic expression, good for you



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RE: ABCs of being a submissive - 2/4/2007 1:00:38 AM   
eyesopened


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Status: offline 		While i admire the OP's creativity and think what He wrote is lovely, there is a part of me that thinks "gee...i can only be submissive IF i have a Master?"  i am submissive always, it's a part of my core, who i am.  i do not have a Master.  i AM still, submissive.

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RE: ABCs of being a submissive - 2/4/2007 4:50:38 AM   
Squeakers


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

If only it were really that simple.

Celeste


I second that

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RE: ABCs of being a submissive - 2/4/2007 5:43:22 AM   
sub4hire


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BitaTruble


Either way, I read that OP as a complete fantasy for cookie cutter submission. Oh sure, there will be some who can embrace all that stuff and because they do they are submissive: they've met the test of submission .. but there are many more who will read that.. and say, damn, I just can't do D, F, P and Q so I must 'not' be a submissive and they'll just give up and I find that sad. I'm a bit prejudiced because of the 3rd person nature of it as well and freely admit that may color my view of the piece as a whole, but over all, it's someone, once again, putting out 'a' way as 'the' way and that just doesn't work for me.

Celeste


I believe much of the same.  It is a bible for someone to live alone and never find the person they are seeking.  Nobody would fit every category.  So the search would go on and on with one disappointment after another. 
Especially when the person handing it out claiming the submissive has to be perfect is more than likely going to be the most undesireable person there is on the planet.
Seem's most dominants who want perfection are the furthest from it themselves.

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RE: ABCs of being a submissive - 2/4/2007 5:56:17 AM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		I will never refer to myself as "this girl", that sounds more like slavery than submission.

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RE: ABCs of being a submissive - 2/4/2007 6:00:43 AM   
KeirasSecret


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From: central NH
Status: offline 		Is this an ad or is there actually a submissive involved in this?

Be well,

< Message edited by KeirasSecret -- 2/4/2007 6:01:06 AM >

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RE: ABCs of being a submissive - 2/4/2007 6:01:38 AM   
mymasterssub69


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From: Chicago, IL
Status: offline 		this girl doesn't follow your thinking.  this girl is not a "girl" but a daughter-submissive to a loving, caring Daddy-Dom who doesn't make fantasy rules like this

someone needs to get his head out of the clouds and come back to reality.  it's doms like you who use "girl" when messaging me don't receive a reply back and get blocked.


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RE: ABCs of being a submissive - 2/4/2007 6:13:42 AM   
toservez


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From: All over now in Minnesota
Status: offline 		I echo what much has been said that this is an M/s list and not a D/s list and it is just not that simple. The list comes off as one of those theory living not reality living lists that people put up in blogs to show their infinite wisdom, more of a mission statement then a functional guide.

“This girl ZIPS thru life knowing her Master loves her and owns her totally” – This is pure flight of fancy. Life is so much more complicated then look I am owned nothing bad or anything to worry about now.


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RE: ABCs of being a submissive - 2/4/2007 6:21:36 AM   
Badkitty0810


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Status: offline 		I'm with mymasterssub69.  Those so-called "Doms" or "Masters" who are foolish enough to refer to me as "girl" quickly find out that this kitty has claws. That's assuming I even bother to respond to their nonsense and don't just block and delete. 

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RE: ABCs of being a submissive - 2/4/2007 6:49:20 AM   
dawntreader


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quote:

ORIGINAL: eyesopened

While i admire the OP's creativity and think what He wrote is lovely, there is a part of me that thinks "gee...i can only be submissive IF i have a Master?"  i am submissive always, it's a part of my core, who i am.  i do not have a Master.  i AM still, submissive.


i agree with you and would add this:
 
So much of D/s, M/s, and Bdsm is "outside of the box" thinking for me personally that i just refuse to put myself in another paradigm.
 
 my hope is that i have found someone that only requires my submissive nature and the rest of our relationship will be as limitless and as undefined as our imaginations...
for me, that works better than the abc's...those are for gradeschool and spell check :-)

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RE: ABCs of being a submissive - 2/4/2007 7:02:13 AM   
onestandingstill


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Geeze a hard crowd here!!
Congratulations on your new girl.
It's a cute post, and I liked the ABC's. Did she do this for you, or you wrote it for her?
suzanne


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RE: ABCs of being a submissive - 2/4/2007 8:27:18 AM   
missturbation


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Status: offline 		Taken for what it is, a piece of creative literature it's great.
 
Hate to think how critical some of the posters here are of other fictional writing.

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RE: ABCs of being a submissive - 2/4/2007 9:23:48 AM   
mymasterssub69


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quote:

ORIGINAL: missturbation

Taken for what it is, a piece of creative literature it's great.
 
Hate to think how critical some of the posters here are of other fictional writing.


i'm very critical of my own work of the bands i review. feedback is always welcome since they are posted on the radio station's website.


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