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RE: ABCs of being a submissive - 2/5/2007 3:20:33 PM

mymasterssub69

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read misstrubation's reply to me on page 1

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RE: ABCs of being a submissive - 2/5/2007 4:44:58 PM

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ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

Sometimes, it is. Just let go.

Master Fire

Let go of what? My own ABC's which Himself and I spent 12 years building and tweaking?

My ABC's

Accountability, for my words and deeds
Being true to myself so you can
Count on me
Daily making an
Effort to
Foster the
Growth of our relationship as Master and slave. I promise to try to be your
Helpmate and your
Inspiration when you need it. I'll
Join your path, leaving my own and I won't let fear or doubt
Keep me from striving to better the person I am and can be.
Little things won't stand in the way, nor get me down
Maturity
Nurturing
Obedience
Patience
Questioning always, can I do this better and please you by so doing?
Realistic goals reached by hard work with moments of
Silly thrown in to keep balanced
Transparency and honest communication
United, our
Vision clear as we
Walk hand in hand,
Xenophobic to the rest of the world and their way. All that counts is
Your way, now my way, too.. You are the
Zephyr - my wings have sprouted and you lift me with soft strength, gentle guidance and I am more than I would have been without you.

Let go?

I think not.

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RE: ABCs of being a submissive - 2/5/2007 4:53:38 PM

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Well, I guess I'm not true. I'm not always joyful to go wash his clothes, or a lot of other things. More than that, I am not supposed to pretend to be joyful or any other emotion. I'm supposed to tell him where I really am including all the unpleasant feelings that people have.

I'm also not supposed to sit there quietly for hours on end while he gets involved in stuff he'll regret having done. I'm supposed to interrupt him.

Guess that means he's not true either. And that 'this girl' stuff just comes across as so silly.

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RE: ABCs of being a submissive - 2/5/2007 5:38:23 PM

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i like Celeste's 'ABC's' much better.

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RE: ABCs of being a submissive - 2/6/2007 2:00:32 AM

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Bita, That is an awesome ABC list.

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RE: ABCs of being a submissive - 2/6/2007 2:04:45 AM

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Your not thinking the OP meant his abc list of submission is directed towards any of us are you? I sure didnt take it that way.
I just thought it was a cute clever little list made up and shared not that it is supposed too be "the way"
His list = fluff
Bita's = relationship

< Message edited by swtnsparkling -- 2/6/2007 2:07:21 AM >

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RE: ABCs of being a submissive - 2/6/2007 2:30:16 AM

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This is the first thing you posted on page 1

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mymasterssub69
this girl doesn't follow your thinking. this girl is not a "girl" but a daughter-submissive to a loving, caring Daddy-Dom who doesn't make fantasy rules like this
someone needs to get his head out of the clouds and come back to reality. it's doms like you who use "girl" when messaging me don't receive a reply back and get blocked.

Reading this I see you took that list personally- why? it was not meant that way. No where does that list state it is the real or true way of things or that any of us should view our submission the same way or call ourselves girls.

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read misstrubation's reply to me on page 1

Page 1 miss. did not reply to you it was a general reply about all the criticism on the original post. Page 2 miss. does respond to you with much that same - wondering why you were so harsh.
Again- if he wants his sub to referre to herself as "this girl" or view her submission this way- so what. Why get your panties in a twist

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RE: ABCs of being a submissive - 2/6/2007 9:29:43 AM

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I can't stop giggling, all I could think of was the Op was having gender issues. Clearly a male profile posting "This girl"....

Anyway, I thought it was cute although, I'd rather see wulfchild or benji make a list, or just stick with Bitta's.

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RE: ABCs of being a submissive - 2/6/2007 10:02:51 AM

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*sighs*

never mind - if you were looking at it from my eyes and pov you would understand. being harsh is such an understatement - being truthful and blunt is my way of voicing of my pov. your way is your way. i don't expect you to change ...neither should any of you.

i suppose only i could read between the lines. oh well...

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RE: ABCs of being a submissive - 2/6/2007 1:23:00 PM

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i suppose only i could read between the lines

IMO- What ever you think you read "between the lines" You put there yourself .
You placed hidden meanings there.
Being blunt and truthful are wonderful things but before one is so blunt I think they should understand what they read.

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RE: ABCs of being a submissive - 2/6/2007 1:29:25 PM

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not worth wasting anymore breath with you - i did completely, fully understood what i was reading and expressed my opinions as such.

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RE: ABCs of being a submissive - 2/7/2007 11:43:05 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

*sighs*

never mind - if you were looking at it from my eyes and pov you would understand. being harsh is such an understatement - being truthful and blunt is my way of voicing of my pov. your way is your way. i don't expect you to change ...neither should any of you.

i suppose only i could read between the lines. oh well...

I wonder why you feel you have the right to inflict your blunt cruelty on another person?  Granted we all the right to speak our minds, but I dont think we have the right to be deliberately harsh and cruel towards another. Is that what your new Daddy likes about you? Does your new Daddy teach you to be harsh and cruel to others?

In the past, when I was in a D/s relationship, I was expected to be polite and respectful in general to others.  That reflected on my Master - the more civilized, the more polite, the more respectful I could be showed I was maturing in all ways.  Having hissy fits or being cruel to others, and telling them they need to get a thicker skin, would have been very frowned upon.

Perhaps as you mature a bit you will find ways to express yourself without being harsh, cruel and so crititcal. Being honest and blunt isnt a license to be cruel and harsh. Im quite blunt and honest yet I have learned to temper my words so that they dont hurt or criticize.

And perhaps YOUR POV is NOT the be all end all way of looking at the world LOL We ALL have POVs and our POVs are channeled through different filters, experiences, angles, maturity, etc.   Have you ever gone inward to explore why you need to express your POV in such harsh, critical, ways??? Do you not consider that one can be honest and direct without being cruel and harsh???

Tough "love" without compassion is just cruelty...

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