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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 1:56:58 PM   
SolarisRider


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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 1:58:03 PM   
dollparts85


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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 2:01:19 PM   
kittensmailbox


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its wet and icky?


Umm a shower is wet too.... And there are some WONDERFUL icky things in life... To be honest i really do not think you know what you want.... your profile says you are a 21 year old sub, but a few messages back you said it is not about submitting....  i also think that you need to get in tune with your own body....  Good luck to you....

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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 2:03:57 PM   
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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 2:04:18 PM   
SolarisRider


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Status: offline 		I'd agree with kitten ... speak to your therapist and take your time to explore yourself before looking to comit to anyone ... especially some guy getting off for free without a thought for what you want.

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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 2:04:48 PM   
dollparts85


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Status: offline 		I'm not submitting with him...he's not a Dom...but if I was with a Dom I would...but that would be different...I'm not into that right now...I'm looking for something different at the moment...I'm just looking for someone for age play...not bdsm...

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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 2:05:53 PM   
kishasub


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Status: offline 		My advise is to heal first, work with your therapist make friends with people who like you for you and not want to use you and forget about the sex stuff till your in a more emotionally stronger place then learn to give yourself pleasure so when you finally venture out and have a real time relationship be it BDSM or vanilla your not be "grossed" out.
My 2 cents anyway
I wish you well dollparts

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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 2:06:13 PM   
dollparts85


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Status: offline 		I took Prozac a few years back..didnt work...now I take Effexor XR, Wellbutrin XL, Geodon and Topamax for my mental health medications.

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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 2:07:57 PM   
cjenny


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Status: offline 		Yes people can have this low a self esteem. I am willing to bet that the meds also make a huge difference in the enjoyment of sex. Too many medications have sexual side effects as most of us know, especially those that are used for emotional needs. It is possible that it is so hard to cum, that one grows disinterested in it but still needs closeness. If one is unused to sex altogether I imagine that would make for a daunting combination.

dollpart, if you end up using the internet as a primary source of human interaction it is going to wind up being much like your phone-dude. You are going to end up hurt at some point. That happens here or in the outside world & it happens to everyone. If you are so isolated that this is your world then you are in for more hurt & you seem to be fragile. I don't think a BDSM site is what you need to be truthful, I think you need something more along the lines of a PTSD chat site or online support group.

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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 2:09:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		You should look for an much older guy...Maybe in his 70's or 80's...It might allow you to participate in a  longer conversation  before he is able to "get off " and hang up.

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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 2:09:46 PM   
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Does anybody else get the impression she's not listening, doesn't care, isn't over 21 or is looking for attention or a therapy session?

To OP: You have a lot of serious "issues" going on in your life... I don't honestly think this phone sex relationship is going to help you get healthy right now. IMHO

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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 2:10:32 PM   
SolarisRider


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Status: offline 		true ... that'd certainly help ... but there again ... if it's the kink that interests you ... explore it ... but at your pace for your own enjoyment.

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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 2:10:44 PM   
dollparts85


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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 2:12:03 PM   
dollparts85


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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 2:13:19 PM   
kittensmailbox


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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 2:17:33 PM   
kittensmailbox


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quote:

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I don't think they would like me asking questions about phone sex...LOL


OMG, they ask question about everything... Tell You what instead of beating everything we say, grow some balls and ask him yourself.... But since you seem to already know EVERYTHING about life it might pointless for you to even call him again.....

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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 2:19:55 PM   
SolarisRider


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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 2:20:05 PM   
dollparts85


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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 2:22:29 PM   
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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 2:22:52 PM   
kittensmailbox


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SolarisRider

are those claws?!


You are right, sorry.... i get a lil hyper having to repeat myself...  ~puts her lil claws away....

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