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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 1:15:17 PM   
dollparts85


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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 1:16:47 PM   
texancutie


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Status: offline 		Then tell your therapist, no reason to be too embarrassed to tell him or her.  If you don't share things in therapy, it's not working.  Also, work on not being so dependent on this fantasy person.  Widen your support group as well.  By support group I mean friends and so on.

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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 1:20:13 PM   
DianeB269


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ORIGINAL: dollparts85

I don't want to be alone for the rest of my life :( I want to get married and have a family some day...



Then you should quit jerking off and get off the phone and get a life.


Diane

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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 1:26:01 PM   
SolarisRider


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Status: offline 		I've known chatted with a few people online who have been through horrific experiences - with enough support you'll be able to get over what's holding you down. I'm not sure if this guy is a help (an understatement some may feel!).

I agree with texancutie ... tell you therapist ... they need to know the full facts to know what they're dealing with.

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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 1:26:01 PM   
dollparts85


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Status: offline 		I'm trying real hard :( I go to a group therapy for social phobia but I don't talk there cuz its too scary...but my therapist says its good for me just to go...and I go to therapy and I take my meds and sometimes I even go out and check my mail and stuff all by myself...I'm doing lots better...

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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 1:29:35 PM   
dollparts85


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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 1:30:10 PM   
DianeB269


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I'm trying real hard :( I go to a group therapy for social phobia but I don't talk there cuz its too scary...but my therapist says its good for me just to go...and I go to therapy and I take my meds and sometimes I even go out and check my mail and stuff all by myself...I'm doing lots better...



Group therapy isn't gonna do shit for you. You gotta go out into the real world and
see what's out there..
BTW, How do you have sex with a telephone??????


Diane

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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 1:32:10 PM   
SolarisRider


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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 1:33:35 PM   
dollparts85


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< Message edited by dollparts85 -- 2/11/2007 1:35:10 PM >

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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 1:36:59 PM   
kittensmailbox


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ORIGINAL: dollparts85

If like...a guy...hangs up...after he cums...I mean like...literally 5 seconds after he cums, he hangs up...every time...is that normal? Am I being used? We do it every night...and I like him a lot...I just...I dont know if he really cares about me at all...or if he's just using me to get off...normally he does all the talking and stuff...but now he's making me repeat dirty things and I really don't want to but I want him to like me so I have to...he said he wont talk to me anymore if I don't...does it sound like he's using me?


Yes sweetie, it does sound like he is using you...  Are you giving the chance to cum??? If not, then i would it is a HUGE yes... LOL tell him to call a 1 900 number if he just wants to use someone, that what they are there for....

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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 1:38:04 PM   
dollparts85


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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 1:40:54 PM   
DianeB269


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ORIGINAL: kittensmailbox

quote:

ORIGINAL: dollparts85

If like...a guy...hangs up...after he cums...I mean like...literally 5 seconds after he cums, he hangs up...every time...is that normal? Am I being used? We do it every night...and I like him a lot...I just...I dont know if he really cares about me at all...or if he's just using me to get off...normally he does all the talking and stuff...but now he's making me repeat dirty things and I really don't want to but I want him to like me so I have to...he said he wont talk to me anymore if I don't...does it sound like he's using me?


Yes sweetie, it does sound like he is using you...  Are you giving the chance to cum??? If not, then i would it is a HUGE yes... LOL tell him to call a 1 900 number if he just wants to use someone, that what they are there for....


Or charge him $4.99 a minute.


Diane

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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 1:41:37 PM   
kittensmailbox


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I don't care about cumming...I don't even try...I don't want to...


Ok then, why do you care if He is using you??  If you are submitting to him, then you are doing your "job"... Maybe that is how He wants you to submit to Him...

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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 1:42:30 PM   
SolarisRider


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Status: offline 		I think it'd be good for you to spend time with your therapist. From what you've said it seems like you need to take things slowly, I'd encourage you to widen the circle of people you speak with.

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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 1:43:08 PM   
kittensmailbox


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ORIGINAL: DianeB269

quote:

ORIGINAL: kittensmailbox

quote:

ORIGINAL: dollparts85

If like...a guy...hangs up...after he cums...I mean like...literally 5 seconds after he cums, he hangs up...every time...is that normal? Am I being used? We do it every night...and I like him a lot...I just...I dont know if he really cares about me at all...or if he's just using me to get off...normally he does all the talking and stuff...but now he's making me repeat dirty things and I really don't want to but I want him to like me so I have to...he said he wont talk to me anymore if I don't...does it sound like he's using me?


Yes sweetie, it does sound like he is using you...  Are you giving the chance to cum??? If not, then i would it is a HUGE yes... LOL tell him to call a 1 900 number if he just wants to use someone, that what they are there for....


Or charge him $4.99 a minute.


Diane


LOL, $4.99, that cheap, but a great idea!!!!

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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 1:49:21 PM   
dollparts85


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Status: offline 		he's not a Dom...I don't want someone who is using me...its not about submitting...I just think cumming is gross...

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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 1:50:27 PM   
swtnsparkling


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quote:

dollpart85
I don't even get off with the phone sex...I just pretend to   


so your lying too.
You need to grow up

(edited to fix lieing LOL)

< Message edited by swtnsparkling -- 2/11/2007 2:24:58 PM >

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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 1:53:50 PM   
dollparts85


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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 1:54:01 PM   
kittensmailbox


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ORIGINAL: dollparts85

he's not a Dom...I don't want someone who is using me...its not about submitting...I just think cumming is gross...


You think it is gross????? What is gross about it????

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RE: Question about phone sex... - 2/11/2007 1:56:07 PM   
dollparts85


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