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sexyone4you -> RE: Why so many overweight women in BDSM? in viewing photos it seems like there is a significantly.. (2/11/2007 12:40:35 AM)
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ORIGINAL: sensualmagirl
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ORIGINAL: sexyone4you
Okay, I started reading this thread ready to shove a spit into touchthesky & roast him (as I found the idea of fat people eating the skinny ones quite amusing), but instead I would rather just clarify a few things for him. I am a big girl. Wearing an 18/20 (at least on bottom because big girls like me have huge GG tits), 2-3 sizes larger than the "average" woman who wears a size 14, I came into this lifestyle right after an ugly breakup (for those curious he was a big guy). I had finally come to terms with what I wanted sexually, and I have found the lifestyle to raise self-esteem in many people - large, small, hung like a horse, hung like a fire ant, short, & tall. I have become comfortable with my body, and I assure you that I am NOT hear because I can't get a date or someone to fuck me.
The short-sighted idea that every fat bitch is ugly disturbs me. As a BBW, I am beautiful, inside and out, which at this point I can say doesn't apply to some of the people who have responded to this thread thus far. I have played with some of the sexiest men I have ever met, and, yes, they were sexy by even the most stringent cultural standards. Larger men tend to "let off" when it comes to being ugly because they are overweight, as many have that sexy "teddy bear" quality. Here is a wake up call to all the people that think fat women are ugly just because they weigh more than 125 pounds: Both men & women (not all but a large majority) like thick girls. They like nice tits & a round ass they can grab onto. They think big girls are sexy.
It's easy to say that overweight people are in the lifestyle because they want to be used as a sex toy & are less likely to be in a relationship. That implies self-esteem issues. How many slender women do you know with low self-esteem? You say that there are all kinds of skinny bitches on dating sites. What does that say about skinny people? Doesn't that tell you that there are more slender people not in serious relationships? You noticed this, yet it didn't strike you the same way on here. I am curious as to why.
very well put, well, I might not have called myself a fat bitch, I prefer "curvy" actually, but, I agree with what you had to say[sm=applause.gif] I'm hoping that the comments about fat women can't get a date is purely satire, because, I haven't gone without a date (or 2 or 3) since 1992....
I apologize if I offended anyone with the "fat bitch" comment. My mouth does get me into trouble. The fat women not being able to get a date came from someone else though. I was just responding to it.
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