MsCfromMelbourne -> RE: Why don't doms like sissies? (2/19/2007 6:25:47 PM)
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I am probbaly just making the same point as everyone else, but here's advice for genuine cross dressers looking for love: If you asked me to speculate whether in theory I would like sissies, then the answer was NO. Men in dresses are not a turn on. They are not as pretty as women and I am not a lesbian anyway. I have even gone so far as to say in my past profiles that CDs are a hard limit - I don't do blokes in frocks. Frilly women's knickers are Ok but that;s where I draw the line. BUT then......... I fell in love with someone who happened to adore dressing up, so I decided I could "tolerate" it BUT then........he really needed help looking good (and was too polite to ask), so I decided I could participate a little. Slapping make-up on a guy and picking his clothes wasn't the turn off I expected. BUT then.....when we got home from dinner with other Dommes and my sissy maid had made me really proud.......well its a funny thing ..... but having sex with a guy tied up in a maid's outfit and suspender stockings is actually bl**dy good fun!!! So there you go. In life, kinks that you think will never appeal to you, can turn out to be wonderful with the right person. And equally your favorite kinks can fall flat if the other person is just not into it. It took a while, and I swore I would never, ever end up with a cross dresser, but one finally got under the radar. It can be done if you are SUBTLE about it. Big blokes in frocks is not an immediately appealing kink. Moral: its not your dress or your kink that matters, its your personality. Are you an appealing, grateful, loving sissy or an unappealing, selfish drama queen??
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