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The worst punishment for you specifically? - 2/16/2007 9:03:25 AM   
wyldsubmissive


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Status: offline 		I recently  read the post on here about a submissive's biggest fear. That sparked a question within my own self.

What is your worse personal punishment? A majority of girls might say abandonment but mine is something much more physical.

As a person specifically I -thrive- on touch. I literally need human contact. If I don't get it I break down and hard. (It happened last night and I haven't told m'Lady yet.) I need touch like I need air. As a slave I need to be touched by the person I submit to. And when they don't touch me I start running through every bad thing I've done that could merit such action.

So, as they say: I'll show you mine if you show me yours. 
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RE: The worst punishment for you specifically? - 2/16/2007 9:06:13 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		That would have to be not being able to be with Master.    I was recently in the hospital and i was in ICU and i could not see Master that was the worst. After i got out he visited me and they made my world right again just to see him.

Matt's littleone

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RE: The worst punishment for you specifically? - 2/16/2007 9:10:55 AM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		For angel, its to know he has disappointed me.  There is no punishment I have ever done that has had a worse effect than simply telling him that he did not live up to my expectations.  Since our entire relationship centers around the love and acceptance he so desperately needs, this is what scares him the worst.

DV

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RE: The worst punishment for you specifically? - 2/16/2007 9:18:55 AM   
AquaticSub


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Status: offline 		The worst thing that Valyraen has ever threatened me with was to make me write out grammar rules and diagram sentences. Just mentioning that he might do it and I'm instantly on my best behavior. *grumbles about English majors*

Still, I think the worst thing that he could do to me would be to leave. To just get angry with me and leave and not tell me where he was going. I'm pretty sure I'd be a sobbing mess until he came back and petted my head.

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RE: The worst punishment for you specifically? - 2/16/2007 9:20:30 AM   
Devilslilsister


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Status: offline 		probably having my punani bitten.  Except he's never done that as a punishment.  The punishments i fear most are the ones where i'm tied up, hooded, gagged and i know its going to be a long painful night.  The whole hooded, tied, gagged thing does my head in as it is and then hating pain.. and knowing whats coming is going to hurt so very very very bad..... 

the worst thing to do to me, is to ignore me.  It hurts me mentally and my general response to emotional pain is to shut down and throw up walls - making it not painful.  Turn your back on me and you'd best realise i wont give a damn if you turn back around. 


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RE: The worst punishment for you specifically? - 2/16/2007 9:23:34 AM   
needdiscipline23


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Status: offline 		Since I HATE getting dressed up, I've been threatened with being made to wear a dress, heels, do my hair and makeup....may not sound like much, but I'm rather wishing I'd added that as a hard limit! 

On a slightly more serious note, I'm new enough that there hasn't been much talk of punishment, for which I'm grateful, except to say that She probably won't use "impact" as my main enjoyment is impact play....I'm also new enough (and nervous enough) that doing anything physical as a punishment might sort of send me over the edge anxiety wise, so if a need for punishment arose, I'm sure it would be something low key...and insidious...because She's like that....like making me dress up.

I, too, crave physical touch, which She does frequently as a means of calming, reassuring, rewarding, or giving after care...I'm not sure how lack of touching would affect me as a punishment, but I sure don't think I'd like it!!

I may have rambled more than answered your question! :)

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RE: The worst punishment for you specifically? - 2/16/2007 9:26:52 AM   
litleone8620


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Status: offline 		The worst punishment Master used to issue me was that look on his face when i disappointed him. Trust me, that's punishment enough.

That and the whip. That sucker stung.

Jeez, i can't believe i wrote stinged.... 

< Message edited by litleone8620 -- 2/16/2007 9:42:23 AM >

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RE: The worst punishment for you specifically? - 2/16/2007 9:39:36 AM   
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Status: offline 		worst punishment - no physical and/or communication from Daddy for 24hrs. talk about a mind blowing experience which made me think He did abandon me for someone else. after my punishment was over, i had a hard time coming out of it ...didn't want Him speaking to me for a couple of days. 24hrs may sound easy to you but it's actually hard to handle if you have a close relationship with your Dom/Master.

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RE: The worst punishment for you specifically? - 2/16/2007 9:46:38 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: wyldsubmissive



What is your worse personal punishment?


One from which I failed to learn the lesson it was designed to teach.

Celeste

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RE: The worst punishment for you specifically? - 2/16/2007 9:52:29 AM   
Caitriona


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Status: offline 		Withholding affection is the hardest punishment - it is one He has promised never to use, knowing how it will affect me.  Punishment aside, the worst thing is hearing that he is disappointed.  That goes right to the core of me.

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RE: The worst punishment for you specifically? - 2/16/2007 10:02:26 AM   
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RE: The worst punishment for you specifically? - 2/16/2007 10:04:04 AM   
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RE: The worst punishment for you specifically? - 2/16/2007 10:19:36 AM   
viperess


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For me the worst is hearing the words "I am disappointed in you". That and being ignored by Him.That is like a knife straight to my heart.
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RE: The worst punishment for you specifically? - 2/16/2007 11:04:12 AM   
onestandingstill


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Status: offline 		The worst punishment I've faced was when my first Master broke our contract and took me to the dungeon to publicly punish me since in my eyes he could see I was hurt and upset by his neglect.
Obviously I know this is wrong as I'm no longer with him.
To be punished for his mistakes was unacceptable.

The biggest thing someone could do to punish me for my own infractions would be no sex or play for a long period of time.
suzanne

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RE: The worst punishment for you specifically? - 2/16/2007 11:12:06 AM   
gypsyssoul


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having recently displeased someone i respected ...
the worse punishment
was the look on his face
in his eyes
that hurt the most ...
and even with me begging to right the wrong
not being allowed to...
 
personally i think the worse punishment
is the one a subbie does to ones self
when we know we have failed ..or wronged
we beat ourselves up on the inside
long after the punishment is over ..
but those are lessons ...learned


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RE: The worst punishment for you specifically? - 2/16/2007 11:39:42 AM   
FelinePersuasion


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Status: offline 		I have extreamly hard time going all day and that's not punishment that's because he works all day, 24 hours and because of a punishment would distroy the littleest parts of me and adult me, But then again, I have emotional desertion as a hard limit* which that would be disertion to me* And I refuse to put up with any one withdrawing their time from me as punishment, and thankfully James agree's ignoreing your submission isn't what he thinks as productive or approrpiate.

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ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

24hrs may sound easy to you but it's actually hard to handle if you have a close relationship with your Dom/Master.

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RE: The worst punishment for you specifically? - 2/16/2007 12:29:10 PM   
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RE: The worst punishment for you specifically? - 2/16/2007 12:30:36 PM   
hobbit9sub4u


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Status: offline 		tickling! i hate to be tickled.

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RE: The worst punishment for you specifically? - 2/16/2007 12:33:27 PM   
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Very interesting you nasty little hobbiteses.

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RE: The worst punishment for you specifically? - 2/16/2007 12:39:12 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: hobbit9sub4u

tickling! i hate to be tickled.


*giggles* Does yours do that too?

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