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RE: ProDommes... - 2/26/2007 5:35:19 PM

LotusSong

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I hear the way to tell ma REAL pro... is that they have one sore shoulder...

....................................................... from patting themselves on the back.

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RE: ProDommes... - 2/26/2007 6:19:49 PM

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No, a lot of legit prof.dommes earning a living, staying in the scene, getting and keeping new cliente are (most) not the slapmyselfontheback kinds of people. Others may be. In anyevent a pro is still a dominant. No?

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RE: ProDommes... - 2/26/2007 6:41:23 PM

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While some proDomme also have top's disease, the best ones I've met are good people who offer a much needed service. Usually the pro who are tooting their own horns are the second and third tier ones who need to compete for clients.

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RE: ProDommes... - 2/26/2007 6:42:11 PM

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RE: ProDommes... - 2/26/2007 8:49:26 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: atendersoul

I am not asking this question to piss anyone off but I have often wondered this ....
if You are paid for Your services, who really has the control?

It's not quite so simple. In both lifestyle and pro domme situations, the answer, ironically, is the same. The sub, in reality, has control. If the idea of consensuality is taken seriously by both parties, the sub has ENORMOUS control over what which things he will/will not submit to. The sub gives up control to the Domme, but only until he says stop, or red, or mercy, or "Call 911." Even in the case of TPE, that is still the case. The sub can still just leave.

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